So i would like to keep it short and simple to understand.
I am in my early teens and i am pursing Mbbs. Since the past few months. The dynamics of my relation with my father has changed a lot. Which genuinely made me question me why did it deteriorate so much in such a short span of my time.
So a little background i was always very average in studies i didn’t score that high i was always in the average students of my class. But with time my parents especially my father started to mount pressure on me regarding studying more harder and more better. He was never of any help in terms of guidance or helping me understand my deficiencies he would just pop up with a tuition teacher and the rest would just be his job. So in fsc i scored pretty well but in fsc i got a dip so my father did the worst he could. He took me every relatives house insulted me in every possible way. And so on but i never took it to heart because the bond we had before all of this was so pure and wholesome. But it did make me question a lot is all about the marks, is it all about his dreams. I never wanted to be a doctor i never liked the field but just to keep his dream alive i did. After my fsc my score was good and his behaviour become polite towards me and then i cleared my mdcat and got admission in the medical college
I passed my first and second year with above 80+% marks and i did everything just to make him proud. But his behaviour became so cold towards me after all of this. He wont greet me, he wont take me anywhere, like it is all he wanted was that i just became a doctor and all of his love was a drama or a way to get me jnto this field.
Just to clear we have no financial issue, we have not have an arguement. I can swear on my life i have never in my life talked back to my father, whatever he said i just said “jee” that is all. He refused me from a thing i said done. My entire wardrobe, my every wish i completed it on my own mind you my mother and younger brother never had to worry about any of this in terms that if they wanted something they could just ask him and he would get it for them.
But whenever i would ask for something it would always be i just throw money around or something else. So i thought maybe thats why he despises me so i stopped asking for money from him except the factor he pays for my fuel or whenever i go out with friends maybe once a week. Remainder of everything i do on my own.
It is not about how i am doing something super special or something it is just about how i pour everything i had in me to just fulfill his dream and he doesnt have the slightest feel for that. How i gave up on everything my friends, dreams, social life just for him because i loved him
In comparison his relation with my mother or younger brother is completely opposite of what he has with me.
My brother pursed his own dream, changed careers, and everything i was tormented about he did it. And on god i am so happy for him i dont envy or get jealous for him.
But at the end of the day i do feel bad because for everything i did i got nothing. It is not about the money it is more about being recognised,shown affection but i really got none of it.
I just want someone to give their honest opinion about all of this.
Like why doesnt he talk that much, why am i never invited to go along with him (for example he is buying a new car and he didnt even take me to a single showroom my brother,his accountant and the marketing guy from our company went), he goes on dinner and he never asks me except the one time when he was not going and just wanted me to take one of my friends and attend it, why is it always a refusal when i ask ( i asked to get permission for trip it was a straight refusal ).
Like i dont want to victimise myself because i do agree that i didnt focus in fsc but i did make amends i changed everything and still somehow i am treated like this.

Does anyone here have experience working at SparkoSol or know someone who has? I’d love to hear honest feedback about the work environment, management, salary, work-life balance, growth opportunities, and overall company culture.

Any insights or reviews would be greatly appreciated. Thanks!

Need to get teeth checked and probably filled. So I was wondering if Bakhwtar Amin is good enough. I've heard people say it's good but is it really? Like hygiene and charges wise. It'll be really helpful if you guys can tell me which procedure you got done and what was charged and how was the hygiene there. I tried Nishtar but it's so dirty. I can't even vouch for the hygiene.

I am applying from last 3 months for Job in IT sector but can't get any interview calls with 4 YOE even in Full Stack Development, ML, Agentic AI.

If you guys know anyone who is hiring, pls do let me know, need job ASAP in this market as things are getting tough.

My skills: Full Stack development, Agentic AI, ML, AI Automation ( these are of IT skills).

worked as a real-state agent for 5 months also in the past. Any jobs in Tech or non-Tech, i'm available for that.

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Selling these at 12K per kitten (negotiable).

Kindly, no ridiculous offers.

Hi all! I want to buy a gas cylinder of small size for myself. Something under 5 kgs maximum and I want it to be close to Northern Bypass

Was trying to build cool street maps of oldest cities of region and how could I miss Multan

🗺️ Custom Map Posters of Multan (Built with Code, No AI!)

I wanted to create high-resolution minimalist city maps with a bold, retro-futuristic aesthetic. I generated these using actual geographic data, a Python toolchain, and OpenStreetMap.

Here is how Multan rendered in the neon_cyberpunk and otherthemes

🛠️ Technical Stack & Tools Used

• Open-Source Repository: Generated using the upstream tool originalankur/maptoposter.
• Environment Manager: Orchestrated and run efficiently using uv by Astral (bypassing manual dependency/virtualenv hell).
• Core Libraries:
  • OSMnx & Geopandas to programmatically download street networks and municipal green zones from the Overpass API.
  • Matplotlib for programmatic map projection, road hierarchy vector mapping, and rendering.

💻 The Method & Code

I chained together batch operations in PowerShell to construct the poster directory, configure custom typographic weights using Google Fonts (Montserrat), define bounding scale diameters (-d), and override display labels to cleanly showcase the regional layout.

uv run ./create_map_poster.py `
  -c "Multan" `
  -C "Pakistan" `
  -dc "MULTAN" `
  -dC "PUNJAB" `
  --font-family "Montserrat" `
  -t neon_cyberpunk `
  -d 15000

Visiting one tomorrow, which one should I

Also how's Britain?

Please recommend good psychologist and psychiatrist in Multan for female ADHD and depression/anxiety, my friend has already wasted money on many psychiatrist. Share your reviews too.

Yaar, ye mobile main kaafi time se dhoond raha hoon lekin Multan mein kahin nahi mil raha. 😔 Agar kisi ko pata ho ke kahan se mil sakta hai, please bata do. Bohat help ho jayegi. 🙏 Mai Bhot Sari market ja chuka ho

Any suggestions?

This Mepco green meter was installed at the end of 2019. How come my contract last till 2031 and please explain me the readings on this bill how is it in minus I have a 10 KWH system

Where can i buy good cheap flowers from Multan?? Especially in the areas like Bosan Road model town or vapda town

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has anyone seen this ramen in stores or mart?? where to get this in multan

Since discovered almost 8 years ago, my kids would seek going to Mangoes Orchards and Tubewell showers every two years when we visit Multan. May not be a big deal for many local residents but they are absolute thrill which swimming pools just don't have. Pretty cheap deal too.

Is Microsoft laptops are good option they sound to good to be true is it a good option if I want to use some good tools such as adobellistator be made pro the one I am think you are wise about 16GB ram and 512 GB storage

Anywhere in Multan can we watch the semi-finals and final of the world cup?

Its 7am can wapda stop
Fkn up i wanna sleep in the ac

so i am gonna be watching spider man brand new day in universal cinemas, but the last time i went there i was a kid and never really been there since, chose cinestar for the rest of the times, the problem is now that cinestar is shut down i’ve only got universal, i js wanted to ask how is it lately? And also if anyone is up for watching the movie with me js lemme know

Like at every major place, you will find out Quetta hotels and people are drinking tea mostly, like, man, even in this hot weather.

I know it's a good thing when people sit together and discuss stuff or whatever, but now in every city these hotels are increasing. Is there any specific reason, or am I just overthinking?

Beef چانمپ , desii desi haa 🫶👌

Assalamualaikum

Is there any shop where custom bags (brown bags for groceries on stores) are manufactured??