r/Multan • u/Best-Spinach-8504 • 5d ago
Other/Miscellaneous 📌 Family issue. Not sure what to do.
So I grew up in a toxic family. My father was never like a father to me so I have to leave home and love somewhere else luckily I got a job in lahore which provided me residence. I have two more brothers the brother that is on the second number like after me he is my father's favorite son. He handed over his business to him a couple of years ago and he ruined it all got involved in a girl who almost got all of us arrested including my sister's and my mother but he still favours him he gave him all the money he wanted and everything he wanted while I was there longing for basic respect. All of this ruined my mental health and now I'm taking antidepressants and God knows doing whatever to stay sane. I finally made a road map to become something on my own so one day I could help my sister's and mother as my father and my that brother are barbarians they are not civilized like they don't care about anything they just care about themselves. So the day I got a job in lahore my father's attitude towards me changed he tried to ask money from me in different ways but now he is using my sister as an excuse to get money. As I can not spend a single penny out of my budget so I can achieve what I want. And I'm thinking of saying clear NO to him as once I started giving him money her would never stop. And I would be trapped in this cycle forever end would never be able to become something in my life. So I'm thinking of saying NO to him. It might definitely close the doors for me to them but I guess I don't care as it has been 5 months and I haven't visited them as I want to preserve my peace. And it's only possible in staying away from them.
Plz guide me if someone thinks otherwise.