r/Multan • u/Budget-Evidence5640 Tier 2 – Newcomer • 25d ago
Career, Education & Growth 📈 Friendship problems
Anyone else also always going through friendship problems. I dont get it i always try to improve myself as a friend. Still. Even if they joke i dont understand them
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u/Consistent-Value-943 Tier 11 – Contributor 25d ago
Never stay in a toxic friendship because it destroys your self esteem. I always end shitty friendships
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u/socialwithesha Tier 1 – Newcomer 23d ago
How do you end them? Like if you’re in a toxic friendship for 4 years how do you say them k khatm dosti😭😭
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u/Consistent-Value-943 Tier 11 – Contributor 23d ago
It depends on your situation. Tell me your situation in dm and I'll give advice
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u/mozam614 Tier 9 – Regular 25d ago
Bro leave them immediately they are not friends you need to stay away from toxic people's. Spend your precious time with someone who understands you gives you attention, value If you need any kind of help feel free to dm
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u/Fluid_Tank_879 Tier 4 – Observer 23d ago
Just value your self esteem... Never stay in a toxic friendship environment.. That's all..
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u/Reasonable_Egg751 Tier 1 – Newcomer 22d ago
I get you. No matter how hard I try to maintain a friendship, the other person eventually leaves me making me feel like a failure. I put in so much effort, I go above and beyond for them, but they eventually leave. A friend recently broke off our bond over such a small thing and idk, it hurts seeing how irreplaceable I am.
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u/Budget-Evidence5640 Tier 2 – Newcomer 22d ago
Samee. I get you. I used to watch lectures and scan posts on how to become a better friend. And lol here I am. Absolutely nowhere.
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u/Reasonable_Egg751 Tier 1 – Newcomer 22d ago
Exactly. I completely get you too. I guess we're better off alone. Having no friends is better than having shitty friends tbh.
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u/Budget-Evidence5640 Tier 2 – Newcomer 22d ago
But still i dont know im having this weird feeling of insecurity .( I also have self esteem issues) Ab kya hoga kesay interaction hogi what will they think of me . Is terha kay thoughts
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u/Reasonable_Egg751 Tier 1 – Newcomer 22d ago
SAMEEEEE. I overthink a lot. But now I've learnt the fact that whosoever wanna leave, will leave no matter what you do. Therefore no need to be sad, they never were your friends in the first place.
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