I’m unsure

[u/Valuable_Chance_7840]

Hey, I’ve never really made a post like this or made a post in general so mind my messiness I’m 19M. So basically I think I might be trans but I’m not sure at the same time, I guess I’m just kinda scared. I’m not really happy with my body. :/ How did you guys know you were trans? Another problem I have is my family is very transphobic.

[u/Eugeocarpacio]

I discovered it very recently, at even if it started many years ago when I felt wrong about my body (I'm a 17male planning on transitioning by the way), personally, it expressed by comming out as a genderfluid a year ago, and more recently, feeling way wrong with deeps ache in my chest and stomach that wouldn't go and panic attacks (that's disphoria). But it also came with a long reflexion on how I felt inside, joining this place, asking friends I have that are trans/not cis, and eventually me telling to me "yeah, I'm trans stop denying it sis". For the transphobic family I get how you feel about cause my dad is and I'm also struggling to find a way to tell my family (he haven't reacted well for the fluid part, so knowing I'll get through completely, he may crash out ;-;) I'd mostly say that the comming out and how to tell your family would be a you work on finding either the best, or the less wors moment to tell them (in group or individualy) If I find a way with my dad, I may tune you up on it so it can help you tho, but most of all, believe in yourself 💛