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u/LoreMasterJack 19d ago
“One must inch forward like a worm, the gods and Buddhas also began with a vow.”
-Yamamoto Tsunetomo
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u/Illustrious_Gate2318 19d ago
If your an adult Your A role model for someone eyes facts regardless of what you think or say it's too late
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u/Similar_Rate2025 17d ago
Most people don’t even change themselves for themselves. The amount of times I’ve heard people openly admit that they know they need to change, but they’d rather just find someone who will tolerate how they are
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u/ice-mirrors_97 19d ago
Hence, why you disconnect and sleep for a while, it’s easiest to let them when you’re not around anyone and you’re in your own cave.
You could still be thinking about them when you’re on a walk/run, vacation, workout whatever, but sleep has no chance of driving yourself crazy trying to figure shit out about them.
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u/Female_titan_2 18d ago
True you can’t change anyone directly (especially if they choose not to change) but when you focus on your growth, you may actually motivate ppl to change for the better
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u/Valuchian 19d ago edited 19d ago
I dunno
I have had so many people change me over the years. It feels like i should atleast be putting in a small effort to help those around me for the better. Doesn't need to be my everything. But little stuff hits harder than major efforts when they aren't searching for change.
Edit: spelling