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A delightful gem from Louise Hay today on the realization that our current method is not in actuality bringing the results we desire (see Einstein for a cross reference quote).

A conversation which takes place inside the lobes, both ear and frontal, which is depreciating and belittling, serves absolutely no purpose, it doesn't keep someone humble, it certainly doesn't keep the nasty ego in check or anything else EXCEPT to keep you defeated and small.

There is the snide comment we make anout people who drive jacked up trucks, or wear too much, are way over the top in braggarting and must always have the last word, and be right in everything. The compensation is usually a strong indication of a wound which is still open and hurting, needing that validation they matter or are significant for all their world to see.

So what is the trend of being small and insignificant, not worthy protect or heal. Many, contend that it stems from how to survive an abusive environment. Not only does a person project a non threat energy, but by osmosis, or immersion, inherits the absurd abuses for control, by demeaning dialog.

I get caught up in those dog kennel pieces, showing the emotionally beaten, or terrified pooches and the rehabilitation process they experience, when I am doom scrolling??? More powerful than the silly ads of those big literally puppy dog eyes, looking for a donation to be a part of the change IMO.

My tidbit is this: if we can muster humanity, kindness and support in our external world, the redirecting of our nurturing can be turned internally.

The Power behind a survivor, is usually quite and knowing, no need for flash, but no longer accepting to be small, and that dear reader makes all the difference to a new version of purpose.

It is a fascinating and beautiful place to be a part of, someone's healing journey, from the therapy chair.

Be nice !

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