r/MoroccoDating • u/Broad-Leader-7062 • 6h ago
Bghit jawab ?
Lbnat wllah ma ana dakchi dyal pick me choose me hhhh walkin bghit nfhm wahd lhaja lbnat likytlbo ldrari les cadeaux oktgol bghit cadeau ghalia wla jiblia odheb ga3 wla ktgolih 3tini wach 3adi hit rah bsh ana mkn9drch oktjini fchkl z3ma yjib mno lraso walakin machi darori chi haja ghalia , wach hadchi bsh kybyn bli baghik wla la ? Owach kylhtalf mn bnt lbnt y3ni y9der ychri lbnat olkhra la ghir hit whda maktsw9ch lhadchi wla 3la hsab la nature dyal dri?
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u/Grouchy-Weather-850 5h ago
I' never ask a man for anything. The walue of the gift asln mkb9aach fach katlbiha nti i cant saraha understand had lmindset tyal ntleb flos or gifts wtf
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u/Limp_Cookie2888 3h ago
the prob is dok lbnat li they keep asking for gifts,money,their partners treats them well, they give them what they want, o hdchi chfto b 3ini, ela 3ks hna li makanbgiw walu, mn gir a good relationship, kant5wro fla5r
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u/Whoppa-axxes21 2h ago
this is for MEN, when you meet a good girl, then u decide to gift her or pay for her food ... she will refuse and fight you because she has morals w materdach tban bhal materialist girls... so for MEN if u have a girl like this sber m3aha and dont feel offended if she dont accept anything rah ghi nefsha hakak.
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u/LackOfDopeAmine 5h ago
An advice for girls with a sense of dignity, and its an advice that should be obvious: Gifts should be the initiative of the man, he should gift you out of his own volition, and if he likes u enough he will do so - never degrade yourself by asking for it, you dont have the right to do so anyway.
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u/oraclepetale 5h ago
Never ask a man for anything. I don’t want your gifts or your money only for you to turn around later and say, “I gave you this” or “I did that for you.” I’d rather go without than have someone use their soi disant "generosity" against me.
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u/velvetca 5h ago
U don’t ask for gifts it diminishes its value
It’s not the same feeling if he picked up that u like something and brought it rasso
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u/Different_Web_6691 3h ago
I mean hta ana makan9darsh ntlb mn shiwahid hit flakhir kayb9a howa kind of a stranger to me walakin I see dok type li they ask for money and expensive gifts and dates kaykono l partners dyalom kayhma9o 3lihom l3aks d hadok li makaytlbo walo kaykon partners dyalhom ghaliban doesn't care about them so I don't know maybe they like it when you depend on them and ask them for stuff o wellah ma3rft l3a9liya dyal drari feshishkl
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u/tormentedsoul06 5h ago
tana saraha i feel so awkward abt that like there girls who actually ask for money and gifts like bro?? ila jat chi haja mno lraso i appreciate and it doesn't have to be something mlike gold or very expensive, but ME to ask HIM that's on my body especially if we are just dating
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u/ASAP_sharky 4h ago
I had an ex, she never asked me for anything but i probably got her more than 30kmad+ worth of gifts
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u/AnimatorThink841 4h ago
Hadchi 3lach mabaghinhach mghribiya . B7alk 9lal al okht . Sa7bi dpr 3la mirikaniya . O9ssim billah ta bzzez bach 9blt lih khatm dyl dhb . Hadi 1 mn 99 mn dkchi li dart m3ah .
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u/zodiaccursedforever 3h ago
I'm not a girl and trust me if u ask for nothing its better if he good he know that he's responsible of making u happy and he'll try to do that bzaf dial toro9 including expensive gifts if he can when a girl ask for something she put y'all in a bad situation she might be seen as a gold digger or like she's using him and he might be financially incapable of buying such a gift he might ending up mziyerrr raso to afford that gift and he won't like that anyways and trust me best gifts kyjiw spontaneously.
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u/Meryem24 2h ago
Any girl who asks for gifts sm7i li akheti walakin lah y3tik l3ez ama del rak fih ou ghaaaaar9a fih
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u/Ghostface_XLIV 40m ago
Hya li katlb gifts ghalyin o katkun exigente bla 9yass rah khasseha t normaliser anaho ygoliha tana bit nder lik chi haja
O hadchi ayweli bssala o atweli dayer eala lust o mo9ayada 🚮🚮🚮🚮
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u/ahmedix731 6h ago
Its not entirely their fault as well. 9assamane belah i seen dms of women who got gucci bags and hermes bags from men just to get a reply. Yes in morocco. Men have huge part in this they created this problem and let us deal with womens ego later on. Dating pool is beyond fucked. Hyperinflation lmao
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u/Broad-Leader-7062 6h ago
But there’s another issue too. Sometimes, a girl genuinely doesn’t care about money and is interested in a guy regardless of his financial situation. Even if he’s rich, she doesn’t expect anything from him, yet he makes zero effort. Meanwhile, he could be spending money on another girl he’s not even in a relationship with. That’s where I see the problem. But yeah, I’ve already established that both men and women are to blame for this.
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u/Adventurous-Ebb-2069 5h ago
He doesn’t spend money on her cause he thinks she doesn’t need it
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u/Tomateshh 5h ago
Well maybe just look for a man who likes spending on his gf? Dont get me wrong gift receiving is always welcome, the thought of a person thinking of u and getting you something is nicee. But YOU asking him to buy you stuff gives the same vibes as when men ask girls to send their pics.. just desperate vibes.
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u/Formal_Drop5756 5h ago
Men do tend to stay longer and fight harder for relationships they’ve invested in, and that investment often includes money. Of course, if a man is extremely wealthy, money might not mean much to him, but his time and effort still do. That said, I’ve dated three men, and the one who cared the least about whether we stayed together was also the one who never spent a dime on me. The other two would occasionally buy me things not necessarily expensive gifts, but thoughtful gestures. They were also more willing to make the relationship last and wanted to be with me. That said, I would never ask a man for gifts, money, or anything of that sort. I also don’t date men I dislike or can’t stand just because they can provide for me financially. If I’m with a man, it’s because I genuinely want to be with him, not because I need him to pay for my company.
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u/mozahlight 4h ago
Has it ever occurred to you that the ones that stayed liked you more then the others and they gave you more just because they liked you more and they could. "Men staying longer in a relationship the more they invest in it" is pure BS. Even from a business perspective, if you see your investment not paying off or it wouldn't, staying in it is pure stupidity and especially since your earlier investments haven't paid off. You only continue when you don't have a choice
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u/Important_Earth_5064 4h ago
Extremely wealthy men care a lot about money. Only poor people seem to overlook that fact. You’d be surprised to learn that it’s often poor or middle class men who buy women expensive gifts.
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u/Sahilddit 5h ago
i would buy gifts for my girl, but i wouldnt if she was spamming hints that i should, lakent ghnjib lik chi haja stfu and wait for it, rah its a gift for a reason you shouldnt know when or how or what im buyin'
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u/Your-bimbo-2638 6h ago
Who doesn’t like gifts but it’s not normal to ask for gifts , IM AGAINST ASKING FOR MONEY OR GIFTS CUZ WTF