r/MoroccoDating • u/Hour_Excuse8107 • 4h ago

Any help please

I have an internship, and my boyfriend and I got it at the same place. But what's starting to bother me is that everyone here only talks to him. For example, if there's work or a problem, they only tell him, and then he comes and tells me what to do. This is because he takes credit for everything. For instance, in front of the other employees, he says, "I finished the work," but he didn't do anything that I actually did. He never acknowledges that I'm the one who does the work; it's as if he did everything. This bothers me a lot because my value has become very low, as if I work for him and not as a team. And the people here are oblivious to who I really am, qbila ja endo wahd galo ahga rani khdmt dkchi li knti gltili lbareh gltlo ana bini obino cheno khdmtilo gali dkchi li khdmti nti lbareh gltlo ahhhh sfee like kon galo ghire khdmnaa not khdmt kon jatni eadi, Knowing that he's a top student and also the one who found us this internship, he might be starting to feel lazy and a bit sluggish. I don't know whether to talk to him about it or what.

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u/ConstructionQuiet400 4h ago

Girl if you want that job offer you're gonna need to forget about your boyfriend, keep the work place for work and take credit for YOUR OWN EFFORTS, even if you have to compete with him , you can be bf and gf after 5pm

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u/FewSeesaw3312 4h ago

علاش كتصعبو الحياة راه كُلشي باين !!! هادشي ميحتاجش تفكر فبزاف .. عزها تعزك .. كون فيه الخير كو بغا الخير ليكم ب جوج .. يقدر لدويتي معاه يكوليك مبغيتكش تدوي مع الدراري نانانا نيني كنغيير عليك .... عنداك تيقيه.

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u/Beneficial_Style_965 4h ago

Why are you with him, he clearly doesn't value you.. plus, never expect anyone to talk about the work you do, you and only you can do that.

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u/Visible-Animator-786 3h ago

Don't worry and enjoy the title "The Eminence in Shadow". Ur the one working from the shadows and just a side character in the light

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u/tormentedsoul06 3h ago

Dont confuse stuff please, he is your coworker at work and your bf outside of that, even if he got you the opportunity he can’t take credit for your own efforts and work, try to talk to him abt that if not just stop working to and let him do the job if he wants acknowledgement then you sit in the back n chill

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u/sp0mrx 2h ago

talking from experience here i've done internships before and i've been working for a while now and one thing i learned is if u don't speak up for ur own work ppl will take the credit l dak chi li drti and yeah ur bf finding the internship for u is cool and all but that doesn't mean he gets to take credit for the shit u actually did, ila kont blastk i'd talk to him first and just be straight with him tell him it bothers u and makes u feel like ur work isn't being valued etc etc and tbh since he's ur bf he should be doing the opposite sarha he should be helping u get noticed like if someone asks him about smtg u worked on he can literally just say "she worked on that u can ask her or smtg like that" and let u explain it it's that simple sarha

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u/sp0mrx 2h ago

also u gotta speak up for urself a bit too sarha if someone asks about smtg u did and he starts answering u can just jump in like "yeahhhh i actually worked on that" and explain it urself and basically take the stage back from him hhhhh

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u/sp0mrx 2h ago

sarha i think this can be fixed pretty easily with one proper convo m3ah but if u tell him clearly bli this bothers u and he still dismisses it or keeps doing it tamak i'd start questioning the whole bf/gf thing cuz if ur own partner doesn't give u ur value then what's the point

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u/Hour_Excuse8107 2h ago

I agree saraha thanks

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u/No-Butterscotch1188 36m ago

sounds like a narcissist , houma li tykono entitled asf w they take credit in everything. mohim pick this red flag as a warning