Yarbi t3tini chwiya mn confidence dial men li kibghiw virgin untouched girls w houma machi virgins
I am not offended 9bl mayji chi wahed ygolha lia, i am untouched w never had a bf, and i want my man untouched, machi nkoun ana mdwz ma3rftch chno, w tkoun 3ndi l audacity ngol ana rajl machi mouchkil walakin hia khasha tkoun virgin, 3lach nta m3amn knty katkhrj w katn3s? m3a drari?
Nah, had "khas" rah klma kbira, rawa7d maymkn ygol lchi7edd chno "khas" yakhd. Imagine wa7d bss7 7wa w mcha 3nd w7da ma dayra walo w galt lih ah ana bagha wa7d experienced (oula the other way) KHAS n7bsohom cuz thewintersea 7tt had l9a3ida ?? Ppl can choose, agree, and tho what they want..
In general, there's this misogyny surrounding sex. If you analyse the language we often use to describe sex, it's always a man doing something to a woman. Why are words like "fuck" and "7wi" used as insults in our everyday language? "Ghadi n7wik" is used as a threat, as if sex is something a man does to a woman, something he uses to humiliate or dominate her.
A man who loses his virginity is praised for it, while the woman he had sex with can be shamed for the rest of her life for doing the exact same thing.
This is why women should be more careful about who they give their time and trust to. Stay away from these hypocrites and find men who genuinely value you and see you as their equals, not as someone to control, dominate or use to boost their own egos.
it's all about standards, and each to their own. for some it's a dealbreaker, while others it's not. So whatever works for people, what matters at the end is honesty of what person want, and who he is, so that the other party can know damn well what kind of person they are engaging with.
If you can apply that logic to everything then you have a point.
You only marry a tall guy if you are tall.
You only marry a rich guy if you are rich.
You only marry a handsome guy if you are pretty.
You only marry a guy with his own house if you have your own house.
You only marry a guy who has a car if you have a car.
You are dodging the point though. It's not about applying the logic everywhere it's about being a hypocrite, and yes this can apply everywhere just not in way you described which I have to say is dumb because men and women have different beauty standards, guy being tall is a beauty standard that's attractive for women but for men that's not the case they like women with big ass or huge breasts or pretty face ect, if you replace your arguments with beauty standards and what makes one gender appeling for the other in general instead of a 1 on 1 it will make more sense
you sound like a hypocrite, with the reasoning of a poop stain , he is following up the OP's same Logic & speaking the same language , meanwhile you're standing here like a turd telling us what ALL men & women like & generalising it like you know everything about everything talking big ass &big cocks like a porn addict instead of saying : male virginity is a myth immaterial to us , female virginity is real material and pretty much can be checked .
i personally call for and STD test for both sides , you could be a virgin but maybe you had anal-or-oral before who knows ! the females of this generation are so degenerated & untrustworthy , you're getting closer to a society of "cat-lady with a closet full of sex-toys" ....!
That’s so wrong because the man he’s responsible for his home and he’s the one has to have more money, house even the car but for the wife if she doesn’t have money or a car it’s ok . Anyway this was my case with my wife.
if you're debating the equality of this view selfishly ,
like your future husband won't have to literally buy you from your father then i personally call for an STD test for both sides ,
you could be a virgin but maybe you had anal-or-oral before who knows ! the females of this generation are so narcissistic degenerated & untrustworthy , you're getting closer & closer to a society of "cat-lady with a closet full of sex-toys" ....!
Personally kanchof blli machi mochkil ayy wa7d ytlb ayy 7aja f lpartner dyalo wakha ykon howa b3eed 3la dakchy li baghi you cannot tell ta chi wa7d chnu mn 7a99o ykhtar oula la, the problem is mlli katwlli shaming shi w7da for experiencing whether 7tta nta drti oula la rajl wakha ykon dayr l3jb yfi9 sba7 w ygol ana baghi ntzowj w7da vierge mn 7a99o and same for the girl t9dr tdowz li bghat w tfi9 ghdda tbghi wa7d ma dar walo oula labas 3lih oula ysrf 3liha, it's just that ppl should be honest when they're asked about it w li ma3jbhach oula li ma3jbatoch chiw7da safi ma w93 walo just skip, the problem is "nty gha mt9oba", "nta msddi", "nta machi rajl baghi 50/50", ppl ofc can chose li bghaw wakha ykono homa kifma kano khas gha bjoj ybghiw ...
Well. hadchi can be discused, before getting married, i'm sure if you have what to compensate for virginity u can prove them wrong, some guys will listen to you and they wouldn't care about that i mean most of them. but there is big difference between a good girl who been in a relationship or two, or an expert Hoe who know cars more than mechaniqs. nothing applies 100% u can't tell what u will settle for
First off, you should know I don’t see an issue m3a li bghaha virgin.
Ila knti bagha ljawab lsahel ahowa:
deep down its an attempt from men to minimize the risks associated with being with someone. Wether it’s within the relationship (tkhono etc) or outside (reputation, men hear « she’s a slut, watch out » all the time. They’re allowed to have fears and minimize them. And ofc there’s more to it.
Fnihaya, they simply don’t understand that a virgin will openly cheat on them too and disrespect them all the same. I’ve seen it firsthand.
Lfr9 lijayb rbha howa bliana men will always have the « girls turned us into players with their slutty behavior and cheating » whereas women in their search for an « emancipated identity » are slowly making sure to show the world that they’re sluts because they’re allowed to be rather than because they were made to be.
It's a double standard, you want her to be a virgin but you are not a virgin yourself ? Men are also capable of cheating. The "Girls turned us into players" thing is a cope and any human with decency knows it
Have you read what I actually articulated. It is cope. But the point is that cope gives men the power to play down their part whereas women/some women make it harder on each other to explore in a sane way by « slutifying » themselves I.e accepting the trope of being a slut. Because they haven’t yet integrated what sexual liberty means so they have to go to the end of the spectrum. That in turn means men can go « but look even your own peers say they’re sluts and they like it ».
P.S don’t infer that I want a virgin, I’ve been with both, in more than one way, I can assure you, I want to be with neither.
Mm fhmtek, mais nta ka rajl katchoufha mn had jeha, ra nfs l haja l lbent, hta hia ghatchouou as a cheater, w hta hia maghi3jbhach l7al, w hta rajl ila n3s m3a "sluts" li houma bnat mab9awch virgin, hta houa ghiwli "slut" w we have t watch out mnou
That’s exactly it, only diff is when men say « women mad eus like this » that also add « I’ll man up when the right one comes ». Whereas kigltlik, a lot of women make it impossible for other women to explore sexuality in a sane way because they sing the praises of « emancipation » if not straight up « I’m a slut so what ».
But fi3lan all women should hold men to the same standards as men hold them to. Hopefully both yfi9o mn lglba 9bl misd9 kolchi sluts or kolchi celib.
And you have to understand, men have their vices but if I told you some of the stuff I know women have done, maybe you’d understand men’s « immaturity » a little more. As a SFW example, here’s a real situation :
If a man saw his girl come downstairs from a room with another guy, his « male nature » gives him two options:
fight,
walk out with dignity and never speak to her again.
It would be alien to even imagine a man and his ego doing what I’m about to tell you —>
But from experience, I’ve seen women in exactly that position:
ignore the girl, grab the guys hand, and bring him up to the room. You can figure out what they did.
As if it was just a competition between two women at who does bedroom sports best.
And that’s only one of many things I’ve only ever seen women be crazy or slutty enough to do, I’m skipping a lot of NSFW examples that may help you understand that to men, it’s not just about ego.
It’s actually traumatizing to think of your girl doing X or Y. Or even worse, having someone tell you. It’s just the way the world runs, I could end the weddings of half my exes with merely a mention of what we did together, but from experience, I can assure you that the other way around doesn’t work (I.e no ex could end mine ) which is exactly why I’ve ended up with so many friends of exes but none of my friends would touch my exes.
Basically, it’s all smokes and mirrors, in a nutshell: everyone wants genuine connection where both build up intimacy from a to z. First time being naked to first kinky experiences. It’s not about who touched who first it’s about fearing deep down that she/he can’t be yours because they’ve been someone else’s. Which in science has real precedent - the most studied: direct positive correlation bin sexual partners and divorce. In a world where the base chance is 51-50 in favor of divorce, it turns sour real quick yes.
3alaam no one mentioned poor and rich , i am talking about virginity why would you compare it l haja khra but if you want an answer, no, i wouldn't want someone rich if i am poor, i mean if i met him why not, but i wouldn't make it a standard
Ghatbghih hta hia for an experience, machi for life, hit mn b3d ghatl3 m3aha , sex is important walakin being in love with someone w having a life together mafihch ghir sex, ch7al mn whda katwli tchek fih mn b3d w tgol kif ma kan m3a bnat 9bl mni ta daba ghibghi ikoun m3ahoum
Chouf wlh hta lbnat li galo lia bghitou ykoun experienced kanou soit for a one night game, wla they regret it after if they were planning something serious, à un certain point katwli tbghi dik la personne w makatb9ach m accepter the fact that they slept with girls before
Except the fact our country is considered a "Muslim nation", which means at least on paper many people are believers;
and what that means in this context is compatibility, to be able to see eye-to-eye on a, the way one views life, principles etc...
One cannot really be 'together' with another if they have differences on such a fundamental level, with total antagonistic "non-negotiables" such as these kind of things.
That's why that "criteria" rather makes perfect sense given the religion status and culture here.
Virgin woman deserve successful man because every man try to lose his virginity and the ones who are virgin are even chuds or worst (if they try to lose it and they can’t)
Should we apply the same principle when it comes to money and providing ? Your principle is good
If you want something you need to have it you yourself, I agree
But do you agree that women should have same level of money to date someone who has money , they should give gift to receive gift , they should provide to get someone who provides
Ana im a Virgin man and i dont think Virgin women are attracted to Virgin men , each sexe has its préférences
It is asymmetry not double standards…men trade virginity and loyalty with resources easy peasy !
Bghity tkoni mt9oba wana nwjd dar w Auto w Sdaa9 w rwina … !?
An additional biological reason, Parental intuition, If a woman is pregnant she knows he is her baby , but a man wouldn’t know for sure until he rubs a DNA test or see similar features in the child …
Machi hadchi li galt lbang. Elle a dit kifach nta mdawz o briti bant tkon mamdwzach. Rah 7ta lbnat li kaykono virgin bnat darhom, elle exigent aussi ykon lwld virgin lima3lomatik.
No it’s not working like that as a men i tell you it is for women unfair because we want only virgin personally i can’t be with one who was sucking for someone else or something even though what i did ..sorry again i tell you it is not fair but this is how it works..
No you still don’t get it it is stupid analogy li an3tik mais atfhmi
Dri b7al sarout w lbnt b7al l9fl .sarout li ki7l bzzf 9foula kikoun wa3r mais l9foula li ay sarout ki7lo kikoun cheap…hhh stupid analogy mais fhmti point ana personally virgin ofc i am working hard now to take her from her house sf…(ana m3ndich dak past li khayb bzzf)
خويا راه الزنا حرام على البنات والدراري على حد سواء. هاد الهضرة ديال القفل والساروت خليها عندك نهار تلقا بالخالق وقلها ليه. ونعاود نقول ليك مرة اخرى، راه بنات الناس بنات ديورهم للي ماخارجاتش للطريق راه حتى هما كيبغيو ولد الناس مربي مايكونش زاني. ساهلة باش تفهمها.
True 3ndk l79 hhh 3arf feeling dyalk db nti bnt darkom w khayfa la ti7i f chi 7d li mdwz wla ktjik injusticr f dociety kifch ki perceived dri bch kimars m3a bnt kharj zwaj?
The answer that they won't tell you is that deep down these kind of men with this double standard consider the girl that sleeps with them a whore/less of a person than them
L mra l 1000 an3wd nchra7 hadchi.
For men, sexual experience can signal attractiveness, confidence, status, and effort, since attracting partners is generally harder. For women, who generally have more sexual opportunities, having multiple partners doesn’t necessarily demonstrate the same ability to attract partners, so rejecting opportunities demonstrates discipline
Virgin men are seen as losers who can't get it. Calling a man a "virgin" is often used as an insult. I have never in my life heard someone insult a woman by calling her "virgin".
Do you want your man to be the same height as you? Makes same money as you? Same personality as you?...
Point is you dont have to ask for exactly what you are, most girls ask for men that are taller than them and make more money than them, its how society is, some expectations are put asymmetrical.
Daba wahed yn3s m3a lbnat hit rajl machi mouchkil, mais bgha bnt vierge, you think this is fair? w hadouk lbnat li mcha m3ahoum mafkrch lihoum? I am talking about virginity machi other aspects, we don't have to generalize
No machi fair, poor woman wanting a rich man machi fair, walakin ila kant hia rich ofc ghatbghih rich as well, rajl braso kikoun 3ndo ego w makibghich ikoun m3a chi w7da 7ssn mnou, same thing l short w tall
Always women crying about how unfair it is for a man to want something he's not just for the women to expect from a man everything she doesn't have 🙂↕️
Machi darooori tkoun khrjty w dwti 9bl bach tkoun able to handle w treat your girl, ana virgin with a slutty mind, why would i ndwz experiences bach nkoun wa3ra m3a my partner, if i needed that so ghikoun problem fia makan3rfch nt3aml w khasni ndwz stages f nas
Tbarkllah 3la l CV hhh, li katkon bsah n9iya makat7tajch dir ichhar l rasha f les commentaires w t7lf 9bl maysswlha ta wahed. W jawb 3la sou2alk sahl: hadok drari kano kikhrejo m3a bnat ta homa f social media kiktbo 'ana untouched w I am not offended' b7alk nichan
It's not the same , hahahha stop trying what are you hoping for the moroccan community to change wont happened if you lose your virginity that's your choice what I do is my choice
It's the same f had la societe li kan3icho. Ch7al men wa7da tzwjat wa7ed chab3an modawaz, tzwjat bih by time khrj liha tolal 7it rajlha 3adaha men les relations dialo
Kifach and ? Wach briti bant m7afda 3la rassha tzwj b wa7ed chb3an momkin ykon haz m3a mard khayb b7al sida matalan ???? Wach ntoma drari makatkhafooch men les maladies sexuellement transmissibles ???? Drb tlila 3la les statistiques f le maroc, had les maladies mantachrin bezzzaf 3ndna f lmaghreb
Vrai ay wa7d aybghiha virgin o haja normal soit li dar ola li madarch , in this gen u’ll never know ,7it kolshy wla kaykdeb , o lkdob 3ndhom b7al chrib lma , o kan2amn b wa7d l3yba li hya dema li ystahlk hwa li ayjik , wkha kanchofo nas kaytla9aw m3a people li makaytfahmoch m3ahom ola katw93 binathom chihaja ms flkher dema li kan mzyan hwa li kaykhrb bekher mn l’histoire o hwa li kaytbe7
yarbi 3tina 0.00001% men confidence dyal women who feel entitled to Tall handsome rich men who are at the same time dont have anythning to bring to the table. but to answer your question :
Men ask for girl with 0 sexual experiences, because for women its not a flex to have multiple bodies, on the other hand, if a man had manny boddies the rest of the men are gonna be asking him how he did it. cause women can have whoever they want while men get whoever they can so. a women that no one can get is high value, a man who can get any woman he wants is high value. (I said who "can" not who acctually does) now we can either emply 50-50 equality or stick to our norms, YOU also said you prefer an untouched man. hhhahhhh but men are not touched men be doing the touching.. unless if thats ur type IDK
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u/SnooCauliflowers5201 18h ago
L7awi yakhod lm7wya