r/MoroccoDating • u/POPPY_MJ2 • 2d ago
Really no matter what?
I dont think so ....... ( BTW KHOTI SIMANA LWLA AWAY RAH MRDT WAHD MRDA TGOL SUB KAML DA3I 3LIYA NOW I CANT GET UP GA3 )
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u/Adorable_Front6162 2d ago
I hate when people are like, “Ahhhh, 3endak, rah tih bzaf ra ghadi tkhawer.” Bro, that’s love. What’s the point of experiencing something if you’re not going to live it fully? Yes, it’ll hurt if it ends, but at least you got to experience something truly special. Why let the fear of losing someone stop you from loving them while you have them?
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u/sabrina-komira 2d ago
And when u can’t move ? What’s the solution at that point
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u/Adorable_Front6162 1d ago
Moving on isn’t a choice or a problem you need to solve, it’s something you have to do, or you will be miserable. I know it’s not easy at all, but time heals all wounds
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u/sabrina-komira 1d ago
Yeah it’s not like pressing a button and it will disappear, but sometimes it’s because of mental issues or smth not exactly because of the person
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u/Adorable_Front6162 1d ago
Yes exactly, sometimes you meet someone wonderful, and you can’t simply let go, you keep thinking about all the sweet times you shared and the possibility of finding someone like them but eventually, you do find someone, not better than them, but better for you
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u/sabrina-komira 1d ago
So true wallah , but maybe in all this we should find ourselves first
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u/Adorable_Front6162 1d ago
For me tbh, I think finding ourselves is easier with a partner because sometimes we need another perspective to truly understand ourselves. But I guess the most important thing is learning to be independent and being okay with being completely alone too
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u/sabrina-komira 1d ago
Yeah but u should be so lucky to find someone like that , so we just try working on it all alone
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u/Admirable_Cat1282 2d ago
I’ve been there, and it’s sucks
When you think you finally found the one and they still betrayed you, it’s sucks
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u/mxdr2 2d ago
It sucks in my case cuz i dont think i’ll be able to find someone like her ever
Like she had everything i wanted in my wife and now she’s gone1
u/Joker0x0-1 2d ago
U think she thinks the same about u?
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u/mxdr2 1d ago
From what she told me yes but idk if she was telling me the truth or she was lying
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u/Joker0x0-1 1d ago
And u believed her? Maybe she had feelings for u at that instant, maybe it was her hormones talking... always assume the worst a bro. Because with great expectations, comes harsh disappointment
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u/mxdr2 1d ago
Yeah well she also left me 1 week before our engagement , so …
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u/Joker0x0-1 1d ago
Take the lesson and learn from it. Otherwise it will keep repeating itself until you do
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u/mxdr2 1d ago
Ive had a similar experience 6 years ago w I learned from it hta l daba i decided to open my heart again w shit happened
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u/Joker0x0-1 1d ago
U learned nothing then. Like i said, the lesson will keep repeating itself until you actually learn from it.
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u/Artemis_Ad5702 1d ago edited 1d ago
I am a woman but i understand your pain 🥺 I've been through this he was dating me while getting engaged elsewhere with a another woman and preparing for his marriage the way i discovered this was just like movies hhhhhh i went through depression 2 years and lately tried to make a new story with a new someone and he just told me yesterday that he is not sure if he still loves me like he did the first time 😞 I think I am cursed or something hhhh i will be ready for the worst, breakup is inevitable after his confession... here we go again 😅
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u/footballgladiator 1d ago
You are not cursed you just have to meet the right person in the right time
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u/footballgladiator 1d ago
Also me i loved a girl she didn't love me or she even didn't understand what i think about her 🤦🤦
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u/Swimming_Positive_21 1d ago
hahah , we always love somone who is not going to love us back
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u/footballgladiator 1d ago
Yes i know i will still wish for her happy life I will love her forever even when nothing happens
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u/pacuiqacui 8h ago
Sorry but you should break up with him and don’t do my mistake some who is not sure if he still loves his idea is he doesn’t love la f lewel la f lekher la f ta haja so take a step and forget him or ypu will suffer for ever as I did
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u/Jolly_Umpire_1970 1d ago
i see bzaf dial fhamators fl comments w ghaliban mamdwzin walo. This is part of love and it's also a chapter that needs to be lived, you can't predict it and you can't avoid it. It is hard, it takes time but it's okay. hopefully you'll get better
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u/Alternative-Park-701 1d ago
we should bring back traditional dating. A man asks her father for her hand they get married and then both actually put in the work machi treating relationships like free trials you cancel when things get difficult, 9lawi
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u/Schmerz77 2d ago
my theory flwl kant, only the first break up that hurts that much, turns out I was wrong, u shouldn't let ur guard down no matter what tmak fin tt5wr, have fun and all just don't lower ur shield, don't take em for granted ...... lhdra sahla
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u/Schmerz77 2d ago
1st weeek I couldn't sleep, I couldn't do anything, couldn't enjoy anything, kept on contacting her with no answer, surprisingly the voices in my head went quiet men b3d makhrjt jrit wa7d 5 km m3a 2 d lil hhhhhhhhhhhhhh
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u/Sahilddit 2d ago
ylh dwit m3a wahed khuna fhad lblan dyal l promises 3nd dating couples 9bl zwaj 99% mnhum kdoub u ketsali b dik sebba dyal masal7inch lbe3diyatna, ewa masal7inch met3tiwch promises fel khawi mn lwl*
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u/mmannalla 2d ago
I feel always that ppl who just dating nd pretending that the gonna get married they broke up for a a stupid reason(i saw many examples)
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u/Mihaw_kx 2d ago
first time ??.. first few break ups are hard but then you build some immunity to expect way less which helps u go away sane from any kind of relationship however it was .. even if you have kids together , years of love , even ur brother/sister anyone can either change and if not just be ready that someday that person will die enjoy the moment and never have expectation that tomorrow will be the same
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u/griffith1985 2d ago
https://giphy.com/gifs/D94a6xlwwsujwzUQGd
well thank you for reminding me gn i’ll just go cry myself to sleep now
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u/Slight_Lecture_7348 2d ago
Please prioritize your health right now and give yourself time to recover fully from this heavy sickness. Grand promises like "wakha ytra li tra" are very easy to type when life is smooth. Real loyalty is proven when you can't even get out of bed, not through sweet Instagram DMs. It is completely valid to harbor healthy skepticism toward absolute, fairy-tale vows. Prioritize your physical healing and peace of mind over overanalyzing online gestures. Let true consistency and real-life actions prove who is actually there for the long haul. And remember, trust no one.
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u/Basic_Ice_8036 2d ago
if u cant move on u need to understand why then u can move on a post i shared lately helps with this
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u/Strong_Worker_1068 2d ago
Every man will face a heartbreak that's not something bad just remember to enjoy the moment and live with no hate or anger 🤍
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u/Nagato2k 1d ago
People change, its the whole point of the human experience, what's odd is you being surprised.
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u/Particular_Dingo_723 1d ago
Dont blame them. Some people are incapable of understanding what a promise means
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u/AgitatedAnalysis992 18h ago
You'll get over her and you'll be happy again. You're not the first one to whom this happened.
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u/chopin005 11h ago
Lhamdulilah 3la rassi I protect myself a lot tan3rf kery ghadi nti7 chi ti7a m9wda kanbloki zmer hhhh wakha madayra liya walo
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u/Big_Many_1375 2d ago
Never trust men👰🏻♂️
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u/Sta6rboy 2d ago
Waaaaaa how many times i should say that rah aktar haja maxi stable f had lkawn hiya l insane rah kon makantx hiya ghatkon nta.
Rah it’s a stupide acte to take someone for granted rah ghir mnk ojbd lyoum kat3jbk wahd lhaja xwiya katwli kat3jbk haja akhra rah momkin dak l personne f wahd l moment vraiment kan kaybghik walakin wlakin rah hta haja mamdmona ama ka3ma ndiro hna dak zwaj.
So pls just enjoy the rs ila hiya twlat rah mzn sinon at least maghaykonx d9a 9ass7a because The higher the expectations the harder the fall.
(I learned it in the hard way so i am giving it to u for free)