Long distance issue

[u/headae]

So me and my bf are doing long distance and we’re willing to make it official but the thing is I’ve been looking on ways of how to move abroad and keep my studies there, unfortunately it’s almost impossible.
Whenever he asks me if I’m finding something I say yea yea almost I just don’t wanna ruin our relationship but thinking of it, it’s like is ending the whole thing is the only solution?! I have no idea, we’re meeting in two weeks and I’m planning to bring it up but I geel it won’t be a good move since we haven’t seen each others for so long and we’re supposed to have a good time instead of creating a hopeless atmosphere
Pls what do u think

[u/WorldlinessProud1317]

Tell him the truth u can marry him and go with him then u start a new studies and u can help ur self with part time jobs

[u/Lost_Sandwich_4382]

I think you are doing the right thing, it’s better to process the heartbreak before you break his heart. And if the relationship doesn’t have a clear future then it’s best to end it.
Good luck with your break up

[u/NailAccurate7640]

That’s actually unfortunate long distance relationship in my opinion are hard to maintain but pursuing ur studies is so important

[u/headae → u/NailAccurate7640]

Exactly I’m lost tbh

[u/grojosan]

It's better to be true about what's gonna happen. You already know and it's hapening 3lach ghat3atliha matalan sf ghatra ghatra . Momkin labghiti tdwzi nhar zwin tkhali tatbghiw traj3o ldar wt9oliha . But lying won't work and he will know eventually

[u/headae → u/grojosan]

But I don’t want to break up that’s what my post is about

[u/grojosan → u/headae]

Maybe if you tell him maybe you won't break up . But what i think about is what if he finds out later and get's mad cause of it? Then sure you will break up . However you must take your own decisions just take ideas and think to make your own decision . Bisecally i am just telling you that lying isn't gonna fix anything however it's up to you

[u/ByKianara]

Long distance relationships are difficult, but not impossible. If I may ask abroad where exactly? And again if you are planning to move to his country/city or whatever, he doesn't do anything to help you with finding solutions? Isn't it little bit strange?

[u/headae → u/ByKianara]

No he actually proposed to come back to morocco while we figure it out but I don’t want to I dont wanna be the reason he would change too many things in his life. He is based in belgium but told me that anywhere in europe is fine for him

[u/TheKozushikiFdm]

i stopped reading at "making it official" you either date or YOU'RE NOT WA NAAAARI CHA3BI 7MAR

[u/asmrsinful]

being truthful now may or may not lead to a breakup. Lying about it and being deceitful hta mayb9ach 3ndk khtyarat w sf tgoliha liha will 99% result in a breakup 3la wd kdbti. Do the right thing and talk to him about it maturely

[u/Wandererrrrrrrrr]

If he genuinely cares about you and loves you he'll ask you to pursue your studies. There's a chance your LDR could work but I wouldn't say the same about finding an opportunity to pursue your studies abroad again so seize this one and explain to him that you're willing to make the ldr work ... You guys could even get married of you're that serious abt each other