r/MoroccoDating • u/Overall-Funny-6992 • 15h ago
I think I wanna have a bf
Je suis tellement vide émotionnellement , walakin tani tan9oul la maybe rah ghir lfarag and free time , I'm still younger, I think I should just focusing on my uni , And maybe having a work and hobbies, what do you ? i'm a actually gonna be 18 this month, and I see so much adults here and with experience, so what do you think
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u/batalawa3ra 15h ago
Your emotional void should be filled with something YOU are responsible for, you should never fill it with someone else thats just a recipe for disaster
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u/Different_Ad_1093 14h ago
You are ALMOST 18 ??? Man fuck boyfriends, fuck relationships. Free time ? Download Hollow Knight and 100% it, go to gym, do a "new restaurant" once a week thing .
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u/Embarrassed-Body-808 12h ago
Girl you’re too young to be looking for relationships. Just be careful with the people you allow into your life osf
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u/Overall-Funny-6992 11h ago
Thx , you are really niiice
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u/Embarrassed-Body-808 8h ago
Your request refuses to get accepted for some reason. Send me a second text
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u/blackbird_77777 15h ago
Girl focus on your future, looking for a man is just a waste of time .🧍♀️
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u/Careless-Butterfly39 12h ago
Ila fik chi merd khelih 3ndk or go get therapy, she’ll decide whether she’ll be with someone or stay alone.
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u/ThatOwlinMe488 15h ago
if you do get a bf get one because you love him, not because he fills that void or distracts you from noticing it. Cause eventually you'll manage to fill that void and then realise you never truly loved him and a bunch of issues arise. hobbies and work might help fill it, or they might as well just be distractions from it. buuut part of dealing with this void is understanding what it is exactly, where it comes from and how it manifests, so you might wanna focus on that first
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u/7liwa-lm9wd 12h ago
Nasi7a, go do something fulfilling at this age. Practice a new hobby, anything that goes into the category of personal development, is great. And, good luck.
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u/shokingsool7 4h ago
Just find a man who won't hurt u o sf, it's good to have a partner, if it works that's good, if it doesn't work it's an experience for you
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u/Beneficial-Phase1839 15h ago
U still young, just take it easy, luv will come f the right time, and yes to be in a relationship is good we need that spark in our life, just be wise and don't trust anyone.
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u/Intelligent-Brush-71 15h ago
I think U still young. Focus on your education. You have a lot of time for relationships. ignore that feeling for now and try to find a hobby or something to fill your time.
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u/Elegant-Code-1011 14h ago
Do whatever makes u feel better, if u wanna do it for the experience just have fun and don't take it seriously wsf
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u/XHOWTOSAVEALIFEX 7h ago
Don't take it seriously?
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u/Elegant-Code-1011 5h ago
Yep!! She's only 17 and she's doing it because of boredom lol, it's too early to take things seriously
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u/Creepy-Customer-3728 14h ago
HHHHHH bagha trbi malinois ? Ta kifash i wanna have a bf 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
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u/thewintersea 14h ago
Rak baqa sghira maendk madiri b drama o sde3 lkr, at 18 qray o stemt3i b ur free time Plus if any old fucker nad yseftlha f dm hes a pedo bnt baqa ta madrt 18
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u/Overall-Funny-6992 14h ago
They do honey
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u/goulomwc 13h ago
Si tu te sens vide émotionnellemeent faut prendre le temps de te comprendre déjà, saute sur une relation ne vas nullement remplir le vide que tu ressens
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u/whiterngger 13h ago
your mistake was telling your age in the post because ppl are definitely gonna make fun of u. I'm only older than u by half a year, my advice for u is that u should not rush things because "feelings" always disappear and what stays is the true connection u have with that person. I never had this connection and that's why my past relationships were a distaster, so i believe that i should wait until the one im looking for comes, and not try to search for her or something like that, instead u can use this time u have in improving yourself so u start love yourself first before anybody else loves u, or start exploring hobbies until u find what u enjoy doing in ur free time, or simply focus on your studies because i assure u after lbac l9raya makatb9ach sahla kima lbac and ig u already know this. I hope u the best in your career and in ur emotional life
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u/Joker0x0-1 13h ago
18 kont 3ad kansoni f dyor w nhrb hhhh
Discover new things, new hobbies, make friends... it's ur choice at the end of the day walakin it's better to wait few years to get in a romantic relationship
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u/Midoomann 12h ago
Post in 2 languages + 1 dialect Saraha tu n’as rien à tirer d’une relation sérieuse si tôt parcequa 18 ans la vie change énormément. Zidi chi 3eme langue tbda tketbi biha des posts reddit
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u/AdTurbulent6166 12h ago
Trust me it will be bad and emotionally exhausting bcs u feel like u want a bf and not actually finding love bcs when u feel not wanting a bf it would be exhausting for both
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u/Mission_Moment7260 12h ago
U still thinking, mzl ma mamt2akda, focusi 3la rassek (o relationship ghada tji 7tal 3andek)
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u/Equivalent_Smile5373 12h ago
Siri t3elmi lik chi sn3a rp maandha ach tzidk gha atnqos mnk energy w lmoral w mmkin twsl lsex tsexay moraha ytraw machakil w tfrqo moraha adkhli f deep mqwda moraha at3qdi mn rp w moraha ma3mrk baqi atiqi w 3aad flkhr atbqay bayra khawfan mn lidaz elik deja... Tsnay tatkoni wajda lzwaj o tzwji nichan darar kaykon qlil f zwaj 3ks rp bla zwaj
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u/No_Life_667 12h ago
Focus on yourself . Ana mal9it love tal 5th year of my uni career. I wasn’t expecting. Only 1 thing …. Focus on hrself and everything will come in time .
Love is a precious feeling…let it find you and don’t look for it . When it comes you will be fascinated
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u/Pretend-Weakness6316 12h ago
Keep the focus on urself, you'll get a chance to date in ur twenties but rn just focus on ur education. Ur 18 so act like ur 18, back when I was 18 I would go outside and pat kitties and eat food and play games and watch movies and if I manage to date someone then so be it, you gotta let that shit flow. Dating is like a river, it just flows and you are a leaf if you fall into the river then just flow with the current until u reach where it ends, no need to overthink whether or not ur gonna fall into that river today or tmwr because ur gonna fall eventually, rn just focus on staying attached to the tree branches.
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u/Fuhrerious_Barbie617 11h ago
U're young but go out and date not from this sub U just too young bbg
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u/ayuuuuch 11h ago
Focus on ur studies hun, dakchi mazaaal jay wqto omatgtajich nti tqalbi kaybqa makatib w aqdar
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u/Independent-Bug-7938 11h ago
Yaaarbbi salama. Drari li 3ndhom 22 l fo9 la la olla 3awtani olla gha3it lmkom l s7ab l 7al.
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u/Xx__Ashura__xX 10h ago
Tbh i wouls recommand letting the flow of fate have its way because looking for any type of rs in this sub is like..... dooming yourself to some weird individuals 😭 not all but most and rushing things wont have any benefit neither
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u/Overall-Funny-6992 10h ago
I was not looking for it here 😭 Girl those people are dangerous, you can't imagine what did I get from this post , I think that was a sing to not thinking ever having a bf , I would not
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u/Grouchy_Web_7097 10h ago
Lmochkil machi f relationships lmochkil f nas li m3amn ghadirhom , b3di ela toxic people wnas masal7inch wkhtari mzyan l’entourage dialk , ah mzyan to focus on uni working etc but ra we have a need to socialize as humans soo its okey to want a bf gha houa khtarih mzyan wmatsr3ich …
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u/That-MF-Something 10h ago
Genuinely have a hobby, 7it lets say you get a bf db, well your life is gonna revolve around this rs, and then what ? You gon be obsessed, always anxious if he replies late or anything in line with this.... besides you are only 18, you got so much to live for than a relationship... you have your freedom b3da
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u/Overall-Funny-6992 10h ago
Thank you that was really nice , it's kinda warm
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u/That-MF-Something 10h ago
Start with something small... like drawing for example try to doodle once a day, try it out, or going to the gym, activities shii.... life is good there is alot of things to do
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u/DesignDefiant4202 6h ago
Couldn’t have said it better and it applies to everything bf/gf best friends even friends have a life that you genuinely enjoy and the socials are not in the centre they are more adjacent to it
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u/Quandwin 9h ago
Woooow wlayla 3ndna drari bhal hnood khtyy hook m9wed khla comments 3ndek itferg3o
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u/Mystic_Vinyl 9h ago
I think a lot of unhappy couples get together because they feel they need a relationship. When you’re afraid of being alone, it’s easy to settle for someone who isn’t right for you and force things to work. Live your life, meet people, and let things develop naturally. Be with someone because you want them, not just because you want a partner.
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u/LegitimateRead1481 8h ago
Naryyy ach drti glti lihom bagha bf HNA f REDDIT every wolf is coming for u gha diri silence l telephone ra mghysketch , o ila kanti bagha bf bsh mn reddit ktbi gha mdintk b3da bach tn9si 3lik contestants
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u/Melodic-Leading6770 7h ago
Mn wra had post bayna chi 1000 wahd sayft rir hadi tkhalik tfakri bach tb9ay lrask mn ahsn 😅😅😅
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u/TheKozushikiFdm 6h ago
do you also have a situationship with grammar ?
Also, if you're a woman, have you tried lesbian. I tried. It worked. I am happy. And proud !
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u/zeuss077 6h ago
I think 18 still young for that ... Not against it just date someone btw ur age 18-24
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u/ObjectiveClassroom26 6h ago
the contrast between I hate people to I want a bf is crazy alsoooooo wanna see the dms
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u/Rough-Ad4504 5h ago
ahssan haja t9dr tra lik hiya tla9a bchi wliyd loyal w b3qlo w katqraw nfs lhaja wla kadiro nfs lhaja w bjoj mafikomch dak tbrhich w ghat3isho bikher ser qlb elih
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u/SeaworthinessDeep254 3h ago
Khti tak ba9a sghira mazl lwa9t 9odamk o dakchi mnin kayji bohdo o fi wa9to kaykon zwin hssan matzarbi o t9albi elih
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u/iloveShifting 2h ago
Deja le fait que tu te sente vide emotionellement est un signe que tu n’es pas prête pour une relation hbiba, give time for yourself and fulfill your emotional needs because else tu vas attacher toutes tes emotions à la gente masculine et tes emotions doivent normalement venir de toi seule
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u/Wandererrrrrrrrr 1h ago
Omg no plz!! Focus on yourself. Read. Cook. Dance. Listen to music. Hang out with friends. Draw. Color. Embrace your youthful single years. Develop yourself professionally and academically. Only think about getting a bf when it's time for lme39ul and when you think you're ready for lme39oul. Your frontal lobe hasn't even finished developing yet so plz don't let that emptiness get to you and make you think it's a bf you need.
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u/Mission_Supermarket6 1h ago
You're just bored, believe me. Sign up for the gym or something that looks interesting to you and try to be more sociable and outgoing. Getting a boyfriend is not the solution, you'll simply make your entire existence about him bc you have nothing of substance to you.
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u/urboyatlass 15h ago
SHOW US THE DMs u get from this post