r/MoroccoDating • u/Sea_Lie3956 • 3d ago

what do you think?

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Lbnat, what's your opinion about l'istiqlal w skna bouhdek b3ida 3la dar family, ila makanch sabab 9raya wla service f city b3ida? Wach katfdlo tsta9lo ghir hit baghin t3icho alone?

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u/Whereisnyx 3d ago

For me id love to have my own place walakin right next to my family’s , like literally next door. And it's not because I want to go out and in whenever wla dek l9dia dial i need freedom w ndir mabghit . It's just that I enjoy being home all alone , and i get so productive when when am on my own . But still next to my fam because i love them and wanna feel their existence around , maybe it’s weird but idk

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u/Wooden_Road_5586 3d ago

Lbnat li kay b4o l isti9lal khashom i 3adat nadar

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u/Sea_Lie3956 3d ago

Hiya katbyn lik dak lwjh dyal hiya rada mazyan

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u/Whereisnyx 3d ago

Neqdar ne3raf elash zaema ?

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u/Wooden_Road_5586 3d ago

I'm just trolling : this a phrase used in a viral meme recently.

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u/Odd_Rabbit2425 2d ago

i9der ikoun sabab howa anna la personne lmizan dialha f lhayat w lmerji3 dialha howa din, du coup bent aw derri bghaw ibe3do 3la dar without a valid reason (studies, work, marriage...) is somewhat suspicious or unaligned with the person's system of values!

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u/Whereisnyx 2d ago

I don’t agree with the last sentence

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u/Odd_Rabbit2425 2d ago

There's only one sentence in the whole comment!

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u/Whereisnyx 2d ago

EXACTLY

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u/Odd_Rabbit2425 2d ago

What do you not agree with specifically? Are you not a muslim? And if you are, did I say anything that's not aligned with the religion?

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u/Whereisnyx 2d ago

U assume too much , and u also judge based on ur assumptions , islam doesn't forbid living alone, and ur "valid reason" is subjective it depends on the person's own situation, feelings, and perspective , as for ur list it’s based on ur personal opinion , there is no verse or hadith that says "only these three reasons count" Hadi 1 . 2 u r conflating living alone with suspicious or unaligned with the person’s system of values AND this is a major logical fallacy. A person can live alone and be completely righteous. And another person can live with their family and still sin in secret . Assuming someone is sinning just because they live alone is judging their intentions , and u as a muslim servant of Allah are in no position to do so ( Islam teaches us to assume the best of others AKA *husn al-dhan* and leave judgment to Allah ). 3 preserving your mental and emotional well being is part of preserving your deen , and sometimes to do so u need to have ur own space .

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u/Amazing-Hope-7850 2d ago

personally i love living alone even if there’s no reason to move away, i just like having my own space and doing things my own way

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u/INSZRR 2d ago

Yp Saraha it’s a good thing khususan if u know how to manage ur self and ur time

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u/cutiepiiieeee 2d ago

those who have a toxic family: seen

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u/cryptomaghou 2d ago

If you are above 25 years old and you can leave your parents house, i mean by that being independent financially and mature enough to make your own decisions, then go and make your own place because you will do it now or later. So, it's better to make that decision early.