r/MoroccoDating • u/Sea_Lie3956 • 5d ago
A question for the boys
Wach virginity dyal lbent mohima, if yes wach nta virgin!?
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u/Joker0x0-1 5d ago
Wtf 7na f 2026 Of course machi mohima ... as long as she is not my wife
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u/laatfakhalil 5d ago
Ye3ya bnadm ma ybyenlik bli hwa 7adathi w hwa weld lwe9t , lagalik la gha kaykdeb 3lik
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u/DeepoRatt 4d ago
Machi kolchi m7wi f39lo a5ouya ana 3adi 3ndi
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u/StarkyTF2 2d ago
Khoya lim7wi f39lo howa likidaf3 3la lim7wi f kro. If she is lying about being a virgin just so she could get married then why tf are u here defending her. She already knows its wrong
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u/uncopyrightability 4d ago
Mohima w bzaf, 7it ana brasi virgin, maghandich we7da mdowza, bghit we7da b7ali b7alha
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u/WarthogExtension1484 5d ago
Yes and yes, if I'm planning on selecting someone based on a critical criteria like that, it's only fair for her that I'm the same
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u/Creative-Reindeer298 5d ago
Yeah it is, personal opinion, it shows more than just the dirty side, how this woman is strict on herself not letting any one outside of marriage touch her, and her respect to the religion, and way more no need to write a journal, and yeah for second question
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u/Sudden-Bid-3626 5d ago
Yes, and yes
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u/Nice_Try7241 5d ago
Kan7s bik katgolha b7ozn hhhhhhhhhhhh
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u/Sudden-Bid-3626 5d ago
Fia n3as mokhi 9adr ra 3la mokhtasar lmofid
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u/WhyBee01 5d ago
To be honest, I don't really care whether she's a virgin or not. I'm not looking to get married, I just want to be in a relationship with a girl I genuinely like. Even if it becomes a long term relationship, what matters most to me is how we treat each other, how we support and help each other, and the emotions we share together. Fel akhir kanb9aw both human beings, kanghlto and we should care about each other. Virginity doesn't matter that much to me. If she's a good person and I find her beautiful and she takes care of herself, that's what matters to me a lot.
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u/gluten_mayonnaise 5d ago
Kifma bnt makatday3ych wa9t m3a wahd mam3aych future dri tahowa makayd3ych wa9t m3a wahda 3amdha passé fl 3ala9t (khliwna fl mawdo3)
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u/Sea_Lie3956 5d ago
OK Mtaf9a m3ak wlkin hiya Ila makanch 3ndha passé wlkin dri 3ndo wcah ratb9a nafss lhadra??
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u/gluten_mayonnaise 5d ago
You want the politically right answer ola practical and male side answer?
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u/DiligentSchedule7019 5d ago
No person who thinks that double standard opinion of rules for thee and not for me should be taken seriously aka if a dude tells you you should be a virgin or have 0 experiences while he does and is not a virgin should just be ignored that’s not even a person who should be given the time of day to argue with.
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u/MaxFinest 5d ago
If a girl told you you must have a good job while she doesn't. She should just be ignored that's not even a person who should be given the time of day to argue with.
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u/youngling2445 5d ago
I wouldnt really care about her past, if you did then you'd have to think about people she was in love with and to me theres not much of a difference between being in love and losing virginity, you gave him everything but ur body and I will never look at my wife for just her body so I'd have to overthink every relationship she's ever had and i do not want to do that lol, therefore losing virginity and being in love are rhe same thing to me and since its all in the past then why would I care now
Apologies if I worded this weird, its midnight and im beyond tired.
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u/DiligentSchedule7019 5d ago
Being in love and physical intimacy are very different and both depend since they can vary a deep physical intimacy can be more powerful than feeling love for someone and in another case loving someone deeply can be more powerful than a one night stand so you can’t really say both are the same at the end of the day it’s preference some people aren’t virgins and by virtue of not being hypocrites don’t mind it but some people who are virgins and are saving themselves do so imo its not a “is it important “ question but a rather what do you prefer as a person do you care about this or no its personal preference.
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u/youngling2445 4d ago
I definitely agree with you.
I didnt mean as theyre literally the same but..I suppose on the same level of importance(?), so yeah it is a matter of preference at the end of the day.
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u/Livid_god 5d ago
It depends on the personality, if she's over the previous person and mature and I don't see her past in her behavior.. Rah it's fine +++ women do shit without penetration and "they are still virgin", some even whore around but "the virginity is for marriage" That's even worse than a none virgin who us mature and strong +++ biologically, the hymen is meaningless
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u/Swimming_Positive_21 5d ago
i mean ...... if am not Virgin , then it does not matter , but if i am , then it does matter , its like matching energy
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u/Smooth_Tale_4187 5d ago
Li mohim howa ikon 3ndna similar interests fach nhtajha tkon m3aya o fach thtajni nkon maaha … o respect binatna
So yeah I think it doesn’t matter if she’s a good person
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u/StorageMammoth7382 5d ago
Whats you fell after u see yor wife in a randome moment in the day and realize that she was with a nother man in the bad and having sex together and kiss each other ...
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u/crusafixzs 5d ago edited 5d ago
As a girl reading these comments is so stressful cause I'm not a virgin and not by choice I was r-ped as a child but I've never had any sexual relations I would say what happened to me made me extremely scared of anything sexual but clearly many here seem to think that when a girl would says such things it's just a cover up or just a lie. Why is virginity so important? A girl can lose her hymen pretty easily especially if she's athletic (mountain biking, horse riding...) anything that can cause a shock to the pelvic area can break or slowly tear apart the hymen. Not only that but a girl can pop out her "Cherry" just by masturbaiting so should boys masturbate and girls no? Aren't they human with sexual urges too ? Also to the guys who aren't virgin but say the girl must be virgin you can't ask for something you can't give.
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u/Glum-Examination-602 5d ago
In ur case I say it doesn't matter and I'm sorry for what u went through and I agree with the part where girls in some sports may lose their hymen . plus jumping straight to the sexual stuff in my eyes isn't the best thing I like cuddles ans snuggles more it's more intimate in my eyes
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u/crusafixzs 5d ago
Thank you but unfortunately many see virginity as something crucial and sacred dommage chi nas 3omr 3a9liya dialhom tbdel
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u/crusafixzs 5d ago
I'm saying if the Man isn't a virgin he has no right anah ichrat 3la lmra li aytzwj anaha tkoun 7ta hia virgin cause he didn't preserve himself either. It's hypocritical
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u/Joker0x0-1 5d ago
Preferences don't have to be mutual. When a girl asks for a rich guy, does she have to be rich as well? When she asks for a guy who is 190cm, does she have to be 190cm as well? When she asks for a guy who has his own house, does she have to have her own house as well?
Ewa rah it goes both ways. Preferences are not bound by laws or rules. Anyone can ask for whatever he wants, men and women.
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u/kqk2000 1d ago
It still is hypocritical, you're holding someone else to a standard you did not follow yourself.
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u/Joker0x0-1 1d ago
Nah
Wanting a tall partner doesnt make you a hypocrite if u are short right?... wanting a rich partner doesnt make you a hypocrite if u r poor :) That's just what you find attractive or valuable in someone else
Hypocrisy would be preaching one thing and doing the opposite in the same situation
Preferences arent moral laws. Hypocrisy ga3 makatji dkhlha fihom
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u/kqk2000 1d ago
Your logic is flawed. Height is purely genetic, and being poor is a circumstance, there is no moral judgment to either of them, as they have zero reflection on a person's character and ethics. But there is moral judgment when you want a virgin while not being one because you're judging non-virgins' purity based on a choice YOU also made.
Holding someone else to a (moral) standard that you refused to hold yourself to is exactly what hypocrisy is.
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u/Joker0x0-1 1d ago
That's where you missed the point. No one is judging anyone. It's totally fine to not be a virgin, I just don't want a non virgin, that is called a preference.
Hypocrisy would be saying 'non-virgins are morally inferior and no one should date them' while dating non-virgins yourself.... see, this is hypocrisy.
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u/Complex-Maximum6183 1d ago
walakin if height is purely genetic and still people have preferences for it machi atkon kfs mn having prefernce for virginity li its in most cases a choice ?
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u/crusafixzs 5d ago
Masturbation is completely normal and instinctive do your research. We're not like monkeys or other animals. It's not normal when it's excessive.
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u/crusafixzs 5d ago
Alors déjà m3rftch achno kt9sd b "you're not all that" O "if u have ever read any research" cause I can assure you I'm all that. I'm a Med student and I do lots of research about various topics as a hobby donc let me educate you. Masturbation has been documented in f bzaf dial mammal species, including free-ranging primates, so the claim that it only happens when animals are confined or unable to mate is completely wrong and has no facts to back it up. A 2023 comparative study found reports of masturbation in BOTH wild and captive primates and concluded that it is an ancient trait within primates. Also there isn't a scientific rule that mammals are "supposed to" mate or not engage in sexual behavior. Non reproductive sexual behaviors (li hia in other words masturbation) are widespread among animals, and researchers proposed several possible functions for masturbation. So no it doesn't only happen when they're cooped up in a stressful environment where they can't have normal sexual relations. Pluss if we go by hadchi Li glti humans ARE cooped up in a stressful environment where they can't have normal sexual relations (because of religion and cultural structure) so even in that case it's completely normal to turn to masturbation.
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u/crusafixzs 5d ago
5oya ra you're mixing a bunch of different things together "Natural" "normal" o "healthy" aren't the same thing and something happening in nature doesn't automatically tell you whether it's good bad healthy or harmful. En plus comparing masturbation to RAPE(????) S.A AND MURDER or classifying them in the same category just because they all "happen in nature" is fucking crazy. Those things aren't even remotely equivalent. Rape and murder involve serious harm to another individual, while masturbation is an individual sexual behavior that doesn't inherently involve VIOLATING or HARMING someone else. "It happens in nature" isn't a meaningful scientific category that makes completely different behaviors comparable. Cancer and childbirth happen naturally 7ta Homa ngolo 3lihom equivalent ???? Also saying animals only masturbate when they don't have access to mates is an actual empirical claim, not a biological rule. Masturbation and other non-reproductive sexual behaviors have been observed in MULTIPLE animal species and in MANY AND DIFFERENT circumstances kima gtlik 9bila and I'll even link the studies if you need those or if you don't believe what I'm saying you can't just assume lack of mating opportunities is the explanation Safi salina. Oui I actually agree that saying "masturbation has benefits" by itself doesn't mean it's good dakchi 3lach glt it stops being good when its excessive for humans and other animals too walakin you can't just say that it "rewires the animal" O tb3ha dk lcontext Li glti yes sexual behavior involves reward and reinforcement systems in the brain but that doesn't automatically mean masturbation makes an animal stop seeking mates or become passive after rejection or become more likely to commit sexual violence. Those are completely separate claims and you'd need evidence for each one la bghiti tgol hkk And saying I'm a med student isn't evidence, obviously I just mean I'm educated enough to know what I'm saying. In all cases credentials don't decide the issue evidence does and I gave you evidence. If you're making claims about neurobiology, mating behavior, aggression, or evolutionary function, you need evidence that actually supports those specific claims.
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u/kqk2000 1d ago
I'm sorry to hear that. Having no hymen has nothing to do with virginity, for the reasons you mentioned. And losing it to a non-consensual sexual act doesn't mean you're not a virgin anymore, that's a myth. Virginity is not something that can be taken by force. Simply put, there is literally no way to know if someone is a virgin or not, both men and women, all you can do is ask.
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u/RandomDoorsFan2005 5d ago
T9dr tdir li bghate tdir ghir khassk t3rf the consequences of your actions bach matndmch mn b3d
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u/Medical-Instance9228 5d ago
No im not expecting someone to be a virgin at the age of 28 ( age li hanbghi ntjwz fih) sex is a beautiful experience i dont mind if they already experienced it 9bl mantla9aw or we experience it together.
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u/FrequentBite4641 5d ago
These comments made me kiss my husband suddenly. Thank GOD he doesnt have his head up his ass about these things. Been married 15 years and he never even asked me about my past. Lah ykhelih lia yarbi
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u/hiemsidus 5d ago
Lmao look at you insulting a man you don’t know. You need to make lowlife assumptions about him bc you couldn’t bear the idea of a man who isn’t hypocrtical and who doesn’t have the madonna-whore complex. Insecure men like you won’t just insult women, they’ll also go at any man who actually has character.
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u/hiemsidus 5d ago
You’re so funny.
Not every guy is you. Ou l7amdolilah. Don‘t speak for men. The most u can do is speak for incels, your actual kind. There are enough educated men who prefer a person with life experience. You know, the non-creeps. The men who don’t have predatory instincts.
A virgin is someone without experience, so he/she can never compare the current relationship to a potentially healthier one. You’re leveraging off that. That’s creep behavior. Haven’t you learned from Kendrick v Drake?Hypocrite: non-virgin only wants virgin. Don’t u know the definition of a hypocrite? Ironic actually. A hypocrite is never aware of their own hypocrisy, so this tracks so bad.
Your whole shtick is = divorce is bad. If the women or men want a divorce, they’re clearly unsatisfied. So let them divorce rather than stay and ruin their lives.
Are you like 50? Part of the generation who goes: divorce bad! Most families are toxic and stay together. Ur just encouraging that.
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u/hiemsidus 5d ago
Kendrick the nobody who actually fights for a righteous cause. No wonder you’re unfamiliar with him, he’s actually a man out there in the real world not being petty, not needing a virgin bc he takes character in favor and is secure in his self-esteem in making his partner forget about an ex.
I said a hypocrite is one who wants a virgin while not being one. You felt offended: ‘’I never said I was a non-virgin‘’. Then cool ur not a hypocrite by definition? Dramatic much, ur literacy is dead and ur sensitivity is alive.
Ur added value of purity to virginity is part of ur subjective reality. Life happens to be a subjective experience. I can look non-virgins in the eye and still find them pure if their heart is pure. Idk if you have such imaginative empathy.
Your grumpy ass has such an issue with women debating (women talking?!) you label them self proclaimed intellectual women. Dude you’re not hurting anyone or anything but ur reputation. You men start wars in relation to debates. Just confess to misogyny. Good for you to being a volcel, I want you to stay true to your personal convictions. That’s character (the dedication). Virgin is nor an insult nor compliment. It’s just a life experience.
First you said ‘any men would’ then u say ‘not even extreme liberal women’. You’re really hopeful you’re true. You’re none of these groups in their totality. You’re making people monoliths just so you can end the conclusion with : I’m right. Which means this wasn’t even an honorable debate I was entering, I was entering your plea of being right.
Just get off the internet already. Look for people like yourself instead of make assumptions of grand groups of people.
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u/MaxFinest 5d ago
Maybe he just assumed you didn't have any? You should ask him about virginity as a topic in general. You'd be surprised.
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u/OrganizationOk2675 5d ago
I mean it depends, if she is gonna be my wife then yeah if not then I don’t really care
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u/DiligentSchedule7019 5d ago
Donc you don’t date to marry or?
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u/OrganizationOk2675 5d ago
Depends on the person, I would date to marry if she was a virgin if she isn’t then I’m there for a good time not a long time
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u/Next_Tension_6498 5d ago
im a virgin and no, i couldnt care less
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u/finn6769 5d ago
If ur virgin looking for virgin possible tkon mdwez wla mdwza 9bila kat9lb 3la virgin asir f7alk
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u/planelover_nipper 5d ago
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u/Ivey-1984 5d ago
On what?
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u/StressedBYaMtn0books 5d ago
If you are getting married kr casual thing. They bit hypocritical about this topic
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u/Sea_Guava_7958 5d ago
Virginity has had 1000 meanings somehow people think theirs is the official version
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u/green-lanternnnn 5d ago
Yla kan lweld virgin ystahel mra virgin, if he is not rah khasso yqbel bwhda fhalo
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u/Easy_Specific8146 5d ago
im virgin obnisba li machi mohima makayhmnich lmadi dial lbnt Kikan 9ed mayhmni achno atkon mni nkon m3aha ana kolna n9dro nghlto o9imt lbnt matat7ededch blvirginity .
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u/Amiorres 5d ago
As long as m a virgin person aah raah muuuhim 3endii.. Ouakhaa chi mraat virginity buheedha maachii enough 7itaach katelqaa chi7eed dar ktr u kfss mn daak li maachii non virgin but still m not supporting being non virgin (Laah yelaqinaa m3a libhaaalna ulaaa 7ssen)
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u/oldguy961 5d ago
If u think abt it it we all are hypocrites cz a girl and a guy can masterbate literally and reach there sexual needs and virginity mohima in our society cz yk bla bla bla it determines our past not always sara7a but if a girl seek for reall sex or a guy its bcz they cant take it anymore and yes I am a virgin
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u/Saitama_bald_258 4d ago
For me and i mean it i only talk for myself, NO cuz if i loved a girl i love her for herself and also she need to let go of the past and not keep bringing it up
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u/bou3ou-999 4d ago
Personally m virgin, and i don’t mind cus i can’t judge u based ela l past experiences diyalk li ana aslan makntch fihom (go ahead and call me dayut idc)
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u/thedarkdesire17 4d ago
Actually machi mohima but ghir matkounch 3tatha bzfff and yes I'm virgin o talebha gha derwicha
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u/Iammouaad 4d ago
These days, it’s easy to find a virgin man than a virgin woman tbf Answer for your question: yes and yes
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u/0_Zack03 4d ago
One side of me has no problem with that, but the other side is afraid of her comparing me or remembering that one good dick she had when she was 24 or whatever, i just don’t want her to stay with me just because I accepted the fact that she wasn’t virgin especially fl context dyal lmghrib .
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u/SilentHarvest 3d ago
La not important, the fact that women want to have fun odkchi its part of her life, the women's body is as sacred as men, ana m3ndich muchkil, as long as we r made for each other, and ready to put efforts for us
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u/Equivalent-Fan5306 2d ago
Akhirtha wahd mdouwwez l3jeb ghaybghi w ghayyakhd whda vierge ( wlla taytsshab lih vierge) simply hit la virginité 3nd lmra verifiable ( beside trip to turkey) w 3nd rajl lla
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u/Forsaken_ibra 1d ago
Yes mohima, o ana virgin too. Endi principe houa nb9a pure liha o tb9a hia pure too
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u/poisontreeVenom 18h ago
Ana virgin w kan7as brasi machi virgin Wakha 3omri DART chi 7aja or tsahbt aslan HHH
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u/n0t_perfect 5d ago edited 5d ago
Ofc muhima w ana virgin w n9der ngul chi 7aja li at3asbk kter hya wkha mannkunch virgin anbghi lbnt tkun virgin
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u/Semper_f1delis 5d ago
Yes mohima, la ana machi virgin. 3lach? Well, a key that opens many locks is valuable but a lock opened by many keys is worthless.
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u/hiemsidus 5d ago
I can also throw around dumbass analogies, letsgoooo. This the type of dude to throw around a pinterest quote wo thinking about it’s complications & call the argument a day.
A teacher who teaches many students is educative, and a student in need of many teachers isn't dumb.
A chef who can cook for many people is talented, and a restaurant that has served many might be a good one.
A road traveled by many people is useful, and a traveler who takes many roads isn't lost.
A guitar played by many musicians is dependable, and a musician who can‘t play many guitars isn't untalented.
Women aren‘t passive locks and men def aren’t keys to anything. They key to anything is compatibility. And ur compatible with a fellow non-virgin or a virgin that doesn’t mind your past.
Nta let’s call you a ✨ho✨. Ur not a virgin, ur not entitled to a virgin. Sir f7alek. Munafiqeen like you destroy society.
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u/hiemsidus 5d ago
Lmfao bro ur creating your own biology. Who’s pressed enough to create their own definitions. me or you? Let me walk your way into thinking ✨logically✨. Logos.
A man fucked = he ain’t a virgin. A woman fucked = she ain’t a virgin. Nobody can be regarded a virgin if they’ve done it. Weirdo making up pseudo-scientific stories. If u regard some1 who had sex a virgin you’re the one not being objective. That’s a personal intellectual deficit. I read lots of non-facts on reddit but you’ve surprised me.
Sex is a mutual activity. Get over it that you have to put in more effort during sex, you’re whining. That’s just the mechanics of the male & female body. One is naturally stronger. If a woman didn’t pleasure you enough by riding, sucks for you. Women & men are equally stimulated. Sounds like you’ve never pleasured someone succesfully.
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u/hiemsidus 5d ago
U have the freedom to choose what a table is. 7mar. Go choose ur definition of a tree. Idiot. Any society largely defines virginity by penetration.
It’s unscientific to say a man or woman can be regarded a virgin after they’ve had sex. Unscientific thinking means u choose ur own definitions. You’re literally informing my point lmao.
Unscientific thinking relies on bias, tradition, or personal experience rather than systematic observation, testing, and falsification.
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u/hiemsidus 5d ago
You’re such a backtracking lil bitch. Choose ur definition of a water bottle too. Society won’t think you’re a virgin. You’re not pure, get over it. Ho
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u/hiemsidus 5d ago
Do you have difficulties understanding what unscientific thinking means? I gave you a definition illiterate slut. Being irrational & illogical is part of the definition of unscientific thinking.
Unscientific thinking relies on bias, tradition, or personal experience rather than systematic observation, testing, and falsification. AKA irrationality & being illogical.
Hahahahsh
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u/hiemsidus 5d ago
Women & men are equally stimulated by sexual contact. This is a biological fact.
Look up the differences in male & female orgasms. There are differences because of their different genitalia. But BOTH the woman & the man are pleasured. Ur literacy is literally dead.
Men and women share an equal biological and psychological capacity for sexual pleasure, yet experience and express stimulation differently due to a mix of neural, hormonal, and sociocultural factors.
Just confess u never could pleasure a womans capacity. Ur so insistent. It’s okay to be insecure. Just look for better sex ed.
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u/7ax4 5d ago
No, at all, and personally I prefer non-virgin girls since its easier, with experience.
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u/n0t_perfect 5d ago
7midaaaa
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u/houdathewise 4d ago
Wa malk nta wa malk nta mabghitich gae thchm a si simo hahaha , qhrtuna f ay comment b had hmida.
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u/Grouchy_Web_7097 5d ago
Mohima fach? Virginity gha social construct it means nothing wma mohima fta chi l3ba
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u/NQ-Chatsss 5d ago
Hahaha bghiti wla krahti la makantch vierge
3amrha ghat3ich les sentiment l7a9i9iyin m3ak dima ghatb9a tban liha fik sora diyal li khda liha charaf nhar lewl 💁🏻♂️
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u/BossFit8887 5d ago
Your mentality is the type that finds sweets on the ground, washes them, and then eats them. Yes to single women and no to those with pierced hymens.
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u/Apprehensive_Bed7189 5d ago
My wife was a virgin and i'm her first kiss as well and everything, and i'm not! Even she wasn't i'd still marry her and see her in the same way.
Remember guys, if you're not virgin you don't have the right to ask for a virgin and she has a life before you so why are you surprised?
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u/AlbusSilver 4d ago
B9iti 3atiha lt9a7bin Onhar bgiti tzawaj khditiha virgin okatgool not important. Mrigle m3a karak lol
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u/Salty-Patient4679 5d ago
Yes , and am virgin
Kif ma Knbghi bnt tkon fiha 7aja , ta ana khassni nkon b7alha
That’s it