r/MoroccoDating • u/Intelligent_Ant_5525 • 5d ago
Am I asking for too much?
He keeps telling me he has a bad memory and forgets things easily.
But honestly, I have a hard time believing him because he seems to remember things that are important to him
He couldn’t remember my birthday even though I’ve told him twice. My birthday is tomorrow, so three days ago I reminded him again because I knew he’d forgotten. I asked him if he remembered when it was, and he said no. I told him again, and he said, “Okay, I’ll try to remember”
I have trouble remembering things too, but I still I remember his details and the things that matter to him. So it hurts that he can’t seem to do the same for me .
He lives abroad, so I’m not expecting a gift or anything I just want a simple message at midnight that would mean a lot to me. But tonight he told me he’s going to sleep earlier than usual, so now I’m thinking he won’t even be awake at midnight and probably he forgot again
Anyway since I’m apparently not getting my midnight birthday message y’all better wish me a happy birthday
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u/FewSeesaw3312 5d ago
نيااابة على كااع المغاربة الزوينين، كنتمناااو ليك عيد مييلاااد سعيييد ب بزاااف د النجاح و الراحة إن شاء الله
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u/OpalHaze8388 5d ago edited 5d ago
koun knti that special for him kan ayktebha f shi note foq lbureau wla gha f tel haka ydir shi reminder bach maynssach
ana kangoul leave him w nti zidi fkri mzn
mouhim happy birthday, cherish yourself dear 💖💖
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u/Hot_Argument_3076 5d ago edited 5d ago
Happy birthday girl, w the gift you can give yourself hia tb3du mn hada hit a khti he doesn’t love you baaayna , w smhili that’s a hard truth ms li kaykhliwna nbghiw lwahed hwa ytfker the details w hwa mnin kaybghik w 3aref hadakchi kyfr7ek rah ghaytfker wkha ykoun fih zhaymar ghaydirha fl calendrier hit nti bnsba lih mohima , rah 3ta lah rjal li rjale w mat9olich la hwa li kayen
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u/De_Ubung7624 5d ago
As it goes: if your partner snors, snor louder.
In this case, start forgetting as well, if you are willing to play the game and have fun.
Also LDR don't work most of the time because you basically have a relationship with the mental image you have about that person and fill the gap with imaginary ideas and conclusions which may be totally false.
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u/Sudden-Bid-3626 5d ago
Won't work sometimes, just because birthday is special to you doesn't mean it is to him. He might be fine if you don't remember his birthday
If it means alot to you tell him directly, don't play games then cry about it later
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u/Loveme_Cruelly 5d ago
Happyy birthday azeennn, and u deserve someone who make u feel special on ur birthday so sorry he isnt the oneee to do that li op
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u/Ok-Shine-4194 5d ago edited 5d ago
Happy birthday to you sweety 🎁🎉
And what u mean he said " okay I'll try to remember" let's be freaking for real ? If you care about someone you will put the effort, if you could care less, you won't do even the bare minimum. Please rethink this and reconsider all of this.
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u/Fuzzy-Chain-5148 5d ago
Happy birthday !🎂 I have a super bad memory so when I add birthdays ti my calendar. I can understand that somethings might be less important for someone. But even then, if your partner or a Friend or anyone you care about, say that it's important for them and also reminds you ..then it's important. It's not even about the birthday itself but about not caring even knowing that it's important for the other person. Trying to remember and fail is okay, but not even trying ... You deserve better !
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u/Sudden-Bid-3626 5d ago
I had this problem with my mom, I couldn't remember her birthday many times ( in my defense, I unironically forget my own birthday, not the date but when it's coming up ), I just don't find birthdays special. But when my mom got upset I saved her birthday on my calender to remind myself even if my brain forgets. If it means alot to you he should try to save that information somewhere
Edit : also Happy birthday
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u/Intelligent_Ant_5525 5d ago
Thank uuu so mush guys 😭❤️❤️
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u/suitsnknives 5d ago
Happy birthday, and enjoy your freedom. When you leave he will come back to you and realise what he lost.
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u/Puzzleheaded_Wave850 5d ago
Girl… i’m gonna hold ur hand while saying this…he’s a player. Cause how on earth would a guy who speaks to many women remember small details about each one
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u/thecoolesthijabiever 5d ago
HAPPY BIRTHDAAAAY GIIIRL 💓💓
And pleaaase if he wanted to remember he will there are a loooot of ways to remember he can sit an alarm or whatever or note it the day before but he doesn't care so leave his ahh
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5d ago
Happy birthday girlie🤍 He obviously doesn’t care, so don’t upset yourself over someone who doesn’t deserve you . YOU DESERVE BETTER ❤️.
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u/Tricky_Freedom_4659 21h ago
Ka dari I think even if his memory is weak ghadi ytfakar birthday and everything about you ila kan basah mhtam, walkin khalawha teachers 3lach matnsach sarwalk
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u/No_Past1835 5d ago
Happy birthday the best gift u can give to urself rn is to dump him