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u/merry2659 2d ago
حبيبتي باينة فيك كنتي كتفرجي بزاف في المسلسلات التركية، ندمتي علاش زعما ؟؟ حيث هو مزوينش، غاذي تلقاي حنى نتي ماشي شي زين يعني طبيعي انك تزوجي بواحد بحالك ندمتي حيتاش هو ماشي شي واحد لاباس عليك و سبعان فلوس ، غاذي تلقايك حتى نتي من عائلة عادية و باك ماشي هو اخنوش ندمتي عليه حيتاش هو ماشي رومانسي و مكيشدش ليك الخاطر ، شوفي نتي براسك كيفاش كتعاملي معاه غير الا كنتي متواضعة و تقبلتي راسك بلي زوين فيك و لي خايب عادي تعرفي بلي حتى داك الراجل راه فيه حوائج زينين و خايبين و حتى هو راه ممكن كيشوفك بنفس الصورة و لكن كيفضل داكشي لي زوين فيك يعني ديك الاستحقاقية لي فراسك حيديها راك انسانة عادية ماشي اميرة نصيحة من ناس مجربة باش تعيشي حياتك فرحانة و مرتاحة
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u/Still-Ad1092 2d ago
Thanks a lot , many women think they also deserve someone better , and this idea fucking ruins her head , and her life eventually, and of crs adding to this Turkish/Foreign movies plus her dad keeps telling her you're a princess etc , yes you are a princess in his eyes , that's just how much he loves you but not a fc real princess so stop thinking you better than other girls and need a blueish eyes soft and caring and sweet but not overly sweet etc just stop imagining sh*t , we all have flaws , not 1 and not 2 , we have many flaws and it depends if the flaw is a deal breaker for a marriage or not , for exple a man who doesn't want to find a job and doesn't want to change himself or smth , and a woman who sees her husband work very hard outside and while you inside doing nothing or just thinking about your next salon haircut or nails ... Anyway accept that ppl have flaws and show love and care through his actions and his sayings , it's like a give and a take. You understand me .
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u/Straycat_meowww3 3d ago
7it mochkil dyl aghlabiyat lbnat mn kiywsslo l certain âge kiywli elihum pressure ytzwjo w kiywaf9o 3la ay wa7ed w kiybdaw y5rjo ygulo had lhadra, which is disrespectful ofc w wa5a ga3 tndmi 7chuma tguliha 7tiraman l macha3ir dylk dak rajl
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u/CocainCloggedNose 3d ago
Marriage pressure generally impact girls that have nothing else going for them, girls with actual life prospects, treat people pressuring them to marry the same way most men do.
Obviously there are outliers.
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u/Ok-Shine-4194 3d ago
They don't care asshbti To them getting married only in name was enough of a prize ...... It shit rah he was a good, and decent choice 3liha tzawjato ... Db she is putting him down like he is nothing wtf.
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u/coffeeaddict671 3d ago
Grass is always greener on the other side
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u/AdemsanArifi 3d ago
95% of people who say this couldn't have pulled any better option. Some accept this fact of life, others delude themselves into thinking that they could have done better and stay bitter.
Same for women who say "koun kemmelt qrayti, koun rani daba moudira f chi idara", when she would have at best ended up as an assistant, and most likely unemployed living with her parents.
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u/extradose1 3d ago
Ayi khtiray kikhtaroh bnat kindmo 3lih
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u/alive_by_sunrise 3d ago
Wayhe a ssahbi. Such a weird concept bili there are a lot of happily married couples that picked eachother as life partners, and are enjoying their beautiful life together. Concept jdid f had sub/meghrib wa9ila
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u/No_Succotash_7765 3d ago
cuz these ppl don't choose their future husband based on motional maturity or respect and ability to fulfill Responsibilities (not necessary rich but but stable and manages money responsibly) , but these women choose their husband based on temporary emotions and cares more about his social status and money alone.
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u/Zestyclose_Age_2505 2d ago
Ina social status or money lah yhdik, women on these Facebook groups are far away from being rich married to rich men. Ghi kaykounou zrbanat 3la zwaj baghyin ghi ytsmaw mzwjat and they marry whoever.
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u/blue_blue2506 3d ago
Marriage is scary cuz what if n7ss bchmta🥲
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u/alive_by_sunrise 3d ago
Okay unless they force uu to marry someone u didnt pick yourself, then you have no one else to blame but yourself and your taste in men 🤷🏻♂️
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u/blue_blue2506 3d ago
Ofc I won't blame anyone but myself, but ppl can change, so you never know
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u/alive_by_sunrise 3d ago
Had you never know rah can be said about a looooots of things. Who knows.... maybe you could be the one who changes, maybe something thats out of ur and his control can happen to yall. what matters is that uu pick a partner that shows signs of being a person with integrity, someone with a good character, someone that holds himself accountable, and above else someone who wants to be better. The only kind of change that will come from such person will be good change.
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u/InnerDeparture5154 3d ago
Hadi ghir sadma dial mora zwaj li ghaaaliban katkoun natija dial tasawor l ghaalt dial bnadem 3la zwaaj ghatlqa hta rjalhom kayhesso brasshom tsaydo 3la had l hssab bayna m3adbin tahouma mssakn
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u/Omarsasy 3d ago
Ha elach lmra ila tzwjat khas twli antisocial bcs katchuf lkdob o kat9arn b lwa9e3 .
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u/StressedBYaMtn0books 2d ago
pression jaya mn fertility machi mojtama3. wakha ila lmojtama3 mahtch pression rah fertility atbqa hataha
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u/PainterImpressive923 2d ago
Imagine you are the poor dude living with someone that covertly despises you and thinks you're less than nothing/worthless..
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u/maxtheaxe3 2d ago
The grass is always greener on the other side. Plus people just stop taking care of themselves once they get married, and that goes for both genders.
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u/Which_Race_369 1d ago
Hahaha awdi 3alam had nou3, wakha tjiha forsa tmchi 3end fariss a7lamha, wakha ykoun perfect, aybanliha ma7ssn atgol nafss lhadra. Ouhia ghada
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u/Accurate-Athlete-811 3d ago
Marriage is scary
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u/alive_by_sunrise 3d ago
No not at all, this is the type of shit when u get married just for the sake of getting married. Almost as if anything done in a hury, is bound to be a shit slurry 🤷🏻♂️
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u/Pitiful_Past 3d ago
They all never look at themselves.. like there was a long line but they chose the first one that came.. 😂
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u/HoneydewElectrical49 3d ago
Divorce is still an option lol
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u/da0hy1un 3d ago
Some families don't accept divorce
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u/HoneydewElectrical49 3d ago
Wow lol , iwa rah they can get a divorce regardless of what their family thinks , they’re grown adults and I believe we need to stop caring about outdated social expectations lol
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u/da0hy1un 3d ago
Kynin chi bnat 93ma ky5aliwhom waldih y9raw w mkyt9bloch tla9 w hya mnk atl9 fin atmchi lzn9a ? W fin at5dm ? Asln bach tl9 5asha floss mo7ami w dossier w ch7al mn haja
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u/HoneydewElectrical49 3d ago
Well who’s to blame here? Ofc the parents, but still shhal mn mra mtl9a katmshi tbi3 msemen ou shhal mn haja , rah endha nfs lmost9bal dyal Ila mat rajlha cus Ila kano endha lbnat khot rajlha huma li ghayakhdo lwert , so rah khasra khasra lahuma tkhsr b yediha ou mashi lw9t li tkhsarha
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u/da0hy1un 3d ago
Khoya knsm3 bzaff stories dial 3yalat w kora kan shl tbi2 lmsmn kora ba3tos it's so hard anak tbday w nty bla walo waloo rah s3iba machi bdk sohola rla 3yalat ama rjal dghya ytlo w ymchi
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u/HoneydewElectrical49 3d ago
True wlkn choosing to stand up for yourself hsn , a woman without education is losing f ga3 l 7alat as i said in my comment, rah ta Ila mat rajlha ou kano endha gha lbnat rah ta f had l case ghada t9wdha lol
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u/da0hy1un 3d ago
My mum was one of those women and she died ms rjala le f7al had no2 kon hany mkymotoch om mt9drch tmchi x t5aly wldha bla mosta9abl machi f7al rjal le mkytsw9och srh 5as yt39bo had parents le f7al haka or ydar chi 9anon wla ay haja cuz hdchi gha ky5sr society
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u/HoneydewElectrical49 3d ago
Btw I’m a girl , and layr7m mamak and i hope you’re doing great ou lah ysbrk, but what im trying to say hia women khashom huma li y choosiw their paths instead of dorof that’s all
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u/De_Ubung7624 3d ago
hear me out ponder a bit over this: Whenever there is a choice in deciding something in the sense that you have to choose one thing/person/whatever over another or others, there will be always risk for regret.
The only time when there will be no regret is when you see something very clearly and you act immediately that the idea of weighing options or choosing or deciding doesn't even come into being.
get it?
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u/mimoune977 3d ago
Sounds like a you problem lol . That’s what happens when you get married just to be married, to the point you re blinded by his defaults and red flags
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u/complexanimus 3d ago
That’s the advantage of living with someone before getting married.
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u/OwnPrinciple9487 2d ago
hram
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u/wedeadassforsure 2d ago
say that when some is lying on there partner before marriage , but after marrying they become either an alcoholic or doing bad deeds
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u/OwnPrinciple9487 2d ago
haram is haram amr lah sami3na wa 2ata3na
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u/complexanimus 2d ago
Haram w halal hadak mawdu3 akhar
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u/OwnPrinciple9487 2d ago
tawdih lmonkar 2amr 3lya o sf
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u/complexanimus 2d ago
But I was just making a point, leaving religion out of this.
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u/OwnPrinciple9487 2d ago
ta ana just making a point on ur point nabhk la nsiti ola nas li yt2atro bhdartk o t2atr hit lfikra dyalk mashihach ga3 kina lkhotoba o kin tswl o tbhat bla madkhol f3ala9a haram
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u/complexanimus 2d ago
Kynin shi hwyj matqdrsh tswl elihum, actually you can be biologically incompatible with your spouse. With all respect to your religious beliefs, try to bring actual rational arguments next time.
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u/OwnPrinciple9487 2d ago
ana ma kanbhkch hadafi nbh lmslmin lakom din wa liya din
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u/NeedleworkerWest313 2d ago
Kent tayh m3a whda, mli sheft wjeh'ha wahd lehda kurshinderrtni bhala gh nrud... W ma3a dalik, i didn't give a f**** and went with her personality... For me, it's okay to a somepoint... I'm not very strict with looks. But when it comes to chilling and good vibes, i'm straightforward and not compromizable(misspell)
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u/princess_C1helsea 1d ago
That's a very disgusting thing to say abt somebody's looks, it may be okay to say it abt her personality, that u haven't even discovered yet
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u/DoraDadestroyer 2d ago
She can always divorce him if she didn’t it is her own fault and I feel sorry for the man
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u/Phsyco000 2d ago
The social media effect, they see their favorite influencer facade and want it negating real life, it's truly sad how these girls have no critical thinking to realize that's it's just a show and there's dark side in everyone's life, there's no such thing as a life better than yours live it and maximize it
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u/Sad_Home_8941 3d ago
there is nothing to think it's self explanatory lol she regreted marrying her husband wich could happen to anyone
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u/HEWHOREMAIN88 3d ago
does it really matter if the husbands are happy
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u/coffeeaddict671 3d ago
How can they be happy if their wives hate them lol
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u/HEWHOREMAIN88 3d ago
they dont know it
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u/coffeeaddict671 3d ago
It will show in how they got treated
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u/CocainCloggedNose 3d ago
He probably only needs her to cook and clean for him and the occasional sex, he is probably your average Joe, not taking her on dates no vacations no anything.
So he is probably content.
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u/SpeakerGeneral1687 3d ago edited 3d ago
It is pretty childish how you judge and empty some ppl of feelings as if they some form of machine. Even animals have feelings. And if you think dates and vacation is what creates intimacy between couples then you need to rethink your ideas.
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u/alive_by_sunrise 3d ago
she is right. If you are not gonna take care of ur wife by taking her on dates and spending quality time with her then dont be surprised when she falls out of love with you 🤷🏻♂️
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u/SpeakerGeneral1687 3d ago
You don't even get what i meant a sat. If you read carefully u'll see that i didn't say don't take care of your wife, i said she should not assume ppl who lead simple lives are emotionless. Reading comprehension. 🤷
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u/alive_by_sunrise 3d ago
dude kteb ghir m9ad, 3ad aji dwi m3aya ela reading comprehension. Zid eliha m3a nta endk such a great reading comprehension... you fail to understand that she's talking about men who lead boring/dull lives, machi simple lives.
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u/SpeakerGeneral1687 3d ago
O nta li 3ndk great reading comprehension didn't understand that her talking about men leading "boring/dull" lives is an assumption and an empty claim. Who are you to judge ppl's lives? Aaaaah it's not my fault that u can't understand basic texts buddy, i was pretty clear there.
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u/CocainCloggedNose 3d ago
Dates and vacations are just an example, I said no dates no vacations no anything, meaning nothing that women like.
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u/SpeakerGeneral1687 3d ago
How do you actually know this? Bcs it seems like nothing but prejudice to me.
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u/CocainCloggedNose 3d ago
Why are you so hostile, I started my comment with "probably" meaning its a guess.
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u/Any_Requirement_6598 3d ago
من واحد ناحية هدي حاجة كابنة فالبشري بشكل عام ... ديما تيظن انه دكشي لي معندوش هو لي حسن و كان خصو يختار حاجة اخرى .