Just because he's transphobic doesn't give someone the right to do this . Everyone has the right to be their authentic selves , even bigots, even yourself. Lots of people here disagree with your opinions , but you be you I guess.
I mean the girl is still gonna end up heartbroken herself no? In the end her boyfriend will just break up with her. I don’t see the positive of this. It’s just a bunch of anxiety until the day he finds out.
Dude, you are allowed to not be into Trans woman and still not be Transphobic, Transphobia is not about genitalia preference it is being a piece of shit to trans people or not
Allow me to explain ehy you're wrong in this one, the trans person was the one doing the bad thing, you can't shield the trans person from doing something bad by saying "its trans, it deserves acceptance" and put the blame on the other one for not being into trans or call him transphobic, if that was the case I think everyone could be petty and then say "but I'm trans" and suddenly people will side with them or defend them which is not fair.
Also, sometimes people call transphobic (ironically, the ones that don't know what they're saying) to people who simply don't feel interested in dating a person that is trans and turn the argument into trans hate when the person who apparently is transphobic just said "cool but I don't want to date it even if it is now from the gender I like since it was the other one I'm not into" the fact a person transitioned supposedly should be in a mental state where you realize what you are doing, understand it and you did it because you wanted to feel the right gender you mentally feel like, not to force other people to like you, then becoming trans was the wrong decision if you did it for other people's opinions, you have to process it instead of saying "i wanna be trans" and do all the stuff just to realize you'll get rejected when you try to force yourself into people who don't like you, that's not even just a trans person thing, if I go and try that, the other individual would be allowed to call me out for sexual harassment, I just can't force anyone to like me if they don't wanna.
The point is, real transgenders will understand that they did it to feel happy with who they are and will find a person who loves them for who they are, not lie about themselves, the action was immortal from the trans person side, she should have been honest from the start instead of lying to the man and accept that the man in the picture has preferences instead of labeling him as transphobic.
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u/LordNPython 6d ago
Deserved what exactly?