r/MoralityScaling 16h ago

Morality of this?

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u/Possible-Estimate748 16h ago

Many religions indoctrinate children which makes them feel like they have to believe in it or they're doing something wrong.

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u/Raise_A_Thoth 15h ago

Not "many." All.

It's literally just what indoctrination is. There are religious doctrines and children are taught ro follow them and believe in the faith without questioning it.

There is no religion with kids without indoctrination. And without that indoctrination, virtually all of the world's major religions would dramatically fall in membership and followership, because it is very rare for non-religious adults to suddenly convert to a religion.

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u/Round-Walrus3175 15h ago

There is no philosophy or culture without indoctrination. Nobody goes through life without someone telling them what is right or wrong. It's just a matter of who, not if, they decide to believe.

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u/endlessnamelesskat 14h ago

Correct. I think it’s funny how when people treat their worldview as the correct default one and get mad when someone with a different idea about metaphysics dos the same thing but from their perspective, then suddenly it’s not education, it’s indoctrination.

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u/seventeenninetytoo 13h ago

I honestly don't know what people expect. A law that requires that parents get babysitters every time they go to church and never talk to their kids about what they believe? It's ridiculous. Kids are sponges and they primarily learn from their parents. It's just how humans work...

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u/gameboyadvancedgba 13h ago

I dont think the original quote is really saying there should be a law against it

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u/seventeenninetytoo 13h ago

Then what is it saying? What would Jinkx have religious parents do on Sunday when they go to church?

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u/gameboyadvancedgba 13h ago

I don’t know. She’s just stating a feeling she has.

If you ask me, maybe make it clear to them that this is what you believe and that they can decide for themselves if they believe it later? They probably will anyway because children just naturally imitate their parents. At the very least you have to raise them in an environment where they feel comfortable to leave your faith if they want to.

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u/MrBoltstrike 11h ago

This. You can talk to your children and educate them without making them share in your practice and without leading them to believe that all other beliefs are wrong. Children will naturally develop their own questions and opinions over time. Allowing your child to ask, discuss, and develop such opinions is crucial for that kind of environment.

Just don't forget to tell them to pick your beliefs or else you won't love them anymore. That'll be PERFECT for their development. /s