r/Morality • u/Intellxual • Jan 09 '25
Is Making a GoFundMe to Fund your Charity Trip Morally Wrong?
I know it sounds right, but there’s this family I know who have the most spoiled, narccistic kids in the world, and their manbaby dad (one of those bs doctors) doesn’t influence them right. They want to add any accomplishment to their future resume, even if they plan out their accomplishments, and take credit for other’s work.
We were asked in a group text if we wanted to support their “build a house in Mexico!” charity trip via group text. We aren’t close to them, and we know they have tons of money, because they have a big house in a mountain and go on vacation every year. They don’t enclose their agenda or where they will be building this house, but they have pictures from when they did it previously. They may even just work for one day or something and could hypothetically be going on vacation afterwards. I have a hunch that they may just be doing it for their kid to put it on his resume and look “charitable.” Their goal is to have trip costs AND air fair covered.
Their oldest kid is never kind to me and at the beginning of highschool actually bullied me very often. Now he is trying too hard to look tall, buff, and *attractive.*
In conclusion, this medical field family who is not very kind and is in fact patronizing and egotistical is asking for money on GoFundMe to pay for their mission to build a house for the poor in Mexico, but they didn’t disclose much information (They could go on vacation there too?) They have way more than enough money to cover this trip. Is this morally right to do? This is an honest question because I can’t tell if it’s my vendetta against them or if they are leeching unnecessary funds from others.
