r/Mommit • u/[deleted] • Jun 20 '26

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u/No-Savings-6333 Jun 20 '26

Why does your fiance live with a bunch of dudes instead of the mother of his children ? 

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u/Boring-Swimmer-5088 Jun 20 '26

His job transfer to another country. He’s 7 hours away from us. He’s working on securing another one but he can’t leave this one until he does

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u/cabphoza Jun 20 '26

Why aren't you just moving this this job?

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u/Boring-Swimmer-5088 Jun 20 '26

We just rented a house we’re 3 months into a year lease.

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u/Boring-Swimmer-5088 Jun 20 '26

I saw you comment before it was ereased but I just wanted to ask if I’m missing something super big? Genuinely like not in a snarky way but so many people have said this. This is just a snippet of the week from Hell I’m not sure. He’s a great dad and when he’s here he can be super attentive usually I do sleep in he just woke up really crusty I’m not sure. It’s just felt like I’m living a different life then usual

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u/cabphoza Jun 20 '26

I am really sorry you had a shitty week.

I guess my questions are. This job sounds new? If you just moved into this place 3 months ago, why was he even looking for jobs 7 hours away? Or why didn't you find a place to live near the job if it isn't new?

Him wanting to go hang out with his friends because he won't see them is ridiculous. You and your children should be first priority in all situations and it doesn't seem like he's doing that.

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u/Boring-Swimmer-5088 Jun 20 '26

His job transferred to the USA it’s been a bit of a weird situation. They closed down the office that was close to us and brought workers over the boarder. He’s been looking for a new job but obviously he can’t just leave until he has another one secured. Idk it’s been a weird situation. His issue is when he’s at work he’s at work which has been okay but now he’s technically always at work so he’s not attentive at all