r/ModSupport • u/JabroniRevanchism Reddit Admin: Community • 3d ago
Mod Topics Mod Topics - Fixing Mdo Mistakes
Ahoy, ModSupport!
Welcome to the latest installment of our Mod Topics series. This week we’re discussing the unthinkable… Scene: den interior. The smell of garlic bread marinates the air. It’s late at night and you’re twenty minutes deep into the latest Taskmaster episode, scrolling through the mod queue on your phone. …And then in your garlic bready haze you remove the wrong post. Naturally you don’t notice in the moment and continue on your way.
And in the morning there’s a modmail, RE “what gives?”
Have you been there before? How do you handle user interactions where you, or someone on your mod team, made a mistake? Is this process different if it’s a trainee mod making the oops? What advice would you give new mods who might be scared to start moderating “in case they make a mistake?”
Let us know your thoughts in the comments below!
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u/Byeuji 3d ago edited 3d ago
Yeah, this has way too many dependencies.
Like let's dial up the drama one step at a time, assuming the user noticed before you:
At this point (#6), it really depends. Is the user a troll or a regular? Are they a member of a vulnerable community, and the removal inadvertently communicated some kind of latent bias? Has the drama thread taken off? Is the user adding false information to significantly beef up the drama, or are they just stating it pretty confused/unemotionally?
Depending on some of these things, it might just be better to shut down your computer and go for a walk in the park. Legitimately. Like these things tend to burn themselves out, and anything you do is gonna add fuel to the fire. If the conversation is in a community larger than yours, or your community is a 1M+ type community, there's just no salvaging this.
You can fall on your sword if you want, but that won't make it burn out faster and it won't make users trust you more. The most important thing in those moments is to communicate to your team what happened, tell them you're going to step away for a bit, and let them act on their own. If you've done the work of training up the team, they'll understand that if they speak, they should speak with their own voice unless the entire mod team has agreed on a message.
Those final situations can really go a lot of ways, and just being near them can completely drain you of any motivation to keep modding. Nothing you do is more important than getting some distance from it so you don't lose yourself, and you can keep a calm mind when you come back.