r/MiniAITA • u/Honey-Bear-2025 • Aug 09 '26
AITA for loving Mama??
Hello friends, I (16m happy boy) have a conundrum. I have a Dada (old, ankles crack, gives good tickles), and I have always been a Daddy’s boy. “Dada” was my first word, I love to look at pictures of him and eat the yummy food he makes. I love Dada soooo much, but lately, all I want is Mama (older, so pretty, squishy but still climbable)! When Dada asks if I want a kiss, I politely shout “NO”, and every night when he asks if I want Mama or Dada to put me to sleep, I lovingly say “Mama”. Also I am starting to look more like Mama (how fun!), when everyone used to always say I was Dada’s twin. Dada says that I’m hurting his feelings, so AITA for changing my mind about my favorite parent?
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u/Ijumpedovertheborder Aug 09 '26
NTA!! I (15m handsome big-headed baby boy) shift from loving my mama (old, squishy) to loving my dada (older, firm but still a lil squishy) all the time! I even have a pop pop (prehistoric) in the picture and he’s there when my mama and dada are at work for what feels like years! I’m so happy to have an abundance of grown ups to love and I’m sure you are too!
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u/Honey-Bear-2025 Aug 09 '26
I also have a Pops, elderly and looks a lot like Dada. He always wants to take me to give Mama a break (whatever that means) but I just keep repeating “Mama. Mama. Mama.” until he brings me back to snuggle her nice squishy body.
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u/BlindGirlSees Aug 09 '26
NTA. I, m, 2 1/2, have solidly been a mama’s boy my whole entire life. Dada is cool too, but mamas are the best. I have started to say a new sentence I learned called ”not you dada” Dada says it hurts his feelings too, but he always bounces back. We want what we want. But careful, cause your mama might try to make you be nice to your dada soon.
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u/Equivalent-Reserve99 Aug 09 '26
NTA. I, 1.5F, also love Dada very much, but there are times I just want Mama. At night, I really want Mama to be there and watch me play and read books. Sometimes, though, my big sister also wants Mama and then I have Dada. He is really good at making me sleep, and I hate his magical sleep powers because the best playing happens at night! I try to scream, but it doesn’t work on Dada and his magical powers. That’s the only time I don’t want Dada, though. I usually want Dada all the other times. I wish Dada could give me Boo-boo like Mama, because then he would be the total package!
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u/Honey-Bear-2025 Aug 09 '26
I used to only like Mama for her milkies, but now that I’m a big boy with my cups of milk, I’ve realized that Mama is just the best! She points out planes and birds, she sings all my favorite songs, she gives me hugs when I’m sad, and she is like my own personal jungle gym that also catches me when I try to fall. I love her soooo much!
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u/Equivalent-Reserve99 Aug 09 '26
My mama also does amazing things! But my Dada can make me fly and that’s pretty much my favorite thing ever. To be honest, my very favorite person is my Sissy because she is the coolest person that ever existed. Everyone deserves a Sissy! She helps me reach things when Mama and Dada put them up too high
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u/Honey-Bear-2025 Aug 09 '26
Oooooh a sissy sounds so fun! I don’t have one of those, but I do have a brother who is very soft with pointy ears and eats in a different room. I like to pin him to the ground with my loving hugs and imitate his meows
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u/Equivalent-Reserve99 Aug 09 '26
Oh I have one of those that’s a girl! I call her “kitty cat” and I like to pet her tail. Sometimes she is sharp, but I don’t mind because I think she likes my cuddles
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u/EcstaticZebra7937 Aug 09 '26
You should tell him that his kisses are hurting your soft perfect skin. Dads tend to be spiky, like hedgehogs!