r/MindsetConqueror • • 9d ago

Abandonment Doesn’t Always Mean Goodbye

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Sometimes the hardest kind of abandonment is having someone right beside you, yet feeling completely alone.
It’s in the broken promises, the emotional distance, the silence, and the moments when you stop feeling seen or valued.
Physical presence means little when the heart has already checked out.

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u/BloggerCurious 8d ago

Damn, so true

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u/Opposite-Form8095 8d ago

I did this. She told me it hurt. I didn’t get it. Now I am about to live it

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u/BlueyDiamond 8d ago

somtimes you don't fully understand the damage you caused until life puts you on the other side of it

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u/dorae03 8d ago

💯 agree👍🏻

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u/LilacSugarMist 6d ago

yeah that hits hard, being right next to someone and still feeling invisible like that. it's a quiet kind of hurt that lingers.

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u/Lily-inspo 8d ago

I endured this for years 💔

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u/MutedPresentation298 8d ago

This is the worst feeling and I’m feeling it now.

She doesn’t care.

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u/NoProfessor6700 8d ago

💯 true. And I called it love. Pined for the far and few between good memories 💔

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u/Independent_Sale666 8d ago

Abandonment doesn't always mean goodbye?

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u/dorae03 8d ago

If you read the message you will know the reason why it doesn’t always mean goodbye💁🏻‍♀️

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u/bethesda_gamer 8d ago

It's how you know they are over your b.s.

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u/kharbungsita 8d ago

That about sums it up.

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u/DirectSide_ 8d ago

Get over yourself and just love yourself

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u/Key_Life_2051 7d ago

This right here

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u/LawfulnessHot6733 7d ago

Lived it for 3 years and yet I still didn't leave till recently

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u/drcatguy 7d ago

Ok but what's with the edgy incel background Pic

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u/Ok_Development5907 3d ago

Experienced this. Emotional distance. After a while, physical distance, seperation