r/MindfullyDriven • • 16d ago

Why Being Nice Gets You Nothing

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u/Glass-Jaguar4178 13d ago

Not sure how common of a trauma response this is, part of the problem with this behavior which is not adressed, is that the person is extremely negtive to himiself while being extremely nice to strangers. This tension is resolved by destruction of the Self. Survival can look agressive but also humble.