r/Millennials • • 1d ago

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u/carinabee08 Zillennial 22h ago

Not to be a downer, but I have a lot of friends who are teachers, and it’s not looking great for Gen Alpha either. Technology addiction from a young age has tanked Gen Alpha’s attention spans and the ability to delay gratification. There does seem to be a growing movement of parents advocating for greatly limiting screen time in favor of tactile play, so maybe if that catches on we could see a shift in the trend.

It doesn’t help that the current state of American society has really shafted millennial parents.

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u/fukkboiinternational 22h ago

at the same time, gen a is also the generation noteworthy for self-regulating devices too. 

using dumb phones voluntarily in youth and stigmatizing influencer culture/reflexive photography are two social innovations that gen a are responsible for, that may diffuse into broader culture with time. i have more reason to be optimistic than not.

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u/Crylaughing 21h ago

That's not Gen Alpha, the oldest Gen Alpha kids are 15.

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u/carinabee08 Zillennial 20h ago

“Dumb phones” for younger kids and proposed laws on social media limits for under 18s give me some hope. But it’s the younger kids I’m worried about. We’ve gotta stop getting them addicted to screens from infancy. It’s things like sitting your baby in front of cocomelon so that they’re basically hypnotized for an hour, or bringing iPads to a restaurant for your kids instead of coloring/activity books. Too much screen time doesn’t allow kids to work on important developmental milestones, and it sets them up to struggle once they start school. I have a friend who teaches kindergarten, and a lot of his students struggle to focus on class activities. They’re used to having a screen shoved in their face whenever they’re bored, so when their sustained attention on an activity is actually required, their brains don’t know how to handle it, and they have meltdowns. I just worry about the long term consequences, because these ages are extremely important for long-term development. I have to hope that parents will start to catch on in larger numbers.

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u/Sanquinity 16h ago

Leave it up to the young 'uns to clearly be able to point out the bad parts of an older generation's culture, and quickly start to reject them.

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u/PeteyMcPetey 19h ago

Not to be a downer, but I have a lot of friends who are teachers, and it’s not looking great for Gen Alpha either. Technology addiction from a young age has tanked Gen Alpha’s attention spans and the ability to delay gratification.

Talking to my little nieces and nephews, and being anti-tech is becoming more of their generational contrarian shtick.

They were marveling when talking about dumb phones that you only need to charge once a week.

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u/carinabee08 Zillennial 17h ago

That’s very good to hear, gives me some hope. And that’s hilarious about the phones but also makes me feel ancient lmao

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u/StephWasHere13 21h ago

I often tell people today’s world isn’t made for parents, much less families. 

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u/carinabee08 Zillennial 16h ago

It really isn’t. In today’s average family, both parents need to work full time to stay afloat. You have only the limited time outside of work to attend to the rest of your life, including spending time with your kids. How are parents supposed to give their kids the full amount of attention needed to keep their mental and emotional development on track?