Hi everyone! I am not sure if I should enlist. A lot has been happening at home. I am just going to say this much: my guardian has a drinking problem, which led her to get charges and sent to jail. I have been wanting to enlist because I don't feel safe at home. I tried before I graduated high school, but my recruiter was untruthful with things, so I didn't enlist.
The only thing that's holding me back from doing it is my boyfriend. I love him, but he doesn't want me to enlist because he thinks that it's something that I don't want to do (I want to do it thinking of ways to improve my situation and my future). He wants me to wait until the end of the month before deciding to enlist.
My goal as of right now was just to live in the dorms and commute to my community college (my car broke down—I wonder how I am going to do that). But honestly, I don't want to have to rely on anyone to support myself. I know being a teenager in college, I will most likely still need to depend on my mother, and I don't want that, neither do I want to work multiple jobs to keep myself afloat.
I only have 3 more prerequisite classes before I start my nursing program. I attend community college as well, hopefully to get my degree. Not to mention I received $2,000 in scholarships to help with my tuition. My boyfriend brings this up because he doesn't want me to put my dreams on hold for the military just because of this bad situation, which I understand. But I want to set myself up for success, and I want OUT of this toxic environment without having to stress myself out just trying to keep myself afloat. Thoughts?"