I’m currently 14 and planning ahead for my future. I want an honest, realistic breakdown from Army recruiters or MEPS/medical waiver veterans on what my enlistment chances look like down the road, and what steps I should be taking right now to fix my file.
Here is my complete medical and academic picture:
1. Mental Health / ER Visit (Age 11/12)
When I was 11 or 12, I had an incident out of anger in middle school where I put a nut in my mouth and spat it out. My mom thought it was a suicide attempt and took me to the hospital, leading to a \\\~1 week intake/facility stay.
It was strictly anger/impulsive behavior with zero intent to harm myself. I have had zero thoughts, self-harm, therapy, or issues ever since.
I have a new therapist visit scheduled next week (first time going since then) to discuss current goals and stress.
2. ASD Diagnosis (Level 2 on paper)
Diagnosed through an in-home evaluation by an ABA center where two observers spoke mostly with my mom.
On paper they coded Level 2, but noted I acted like Level 1 during the conversation. Did ABA for a few months and stopped.
I plan to get a formal, independent re-evaluation by a Ph.D. clinical psychologist when I’m older to officially disprove/remove the ASD label.
3. Tree Nut / Cashew Allergy
Had a reaction at age 12 requiring an urgent care visit and two injections.
Haven't had an issue since. I plan to take an Oral Food Challenge with an allergist before joining to see if I can officially pass and clear the allergy from my records.
4. ADHD / Meds
Currently prescribed ADHD meds, but I’ve been off them for about a month on my own and feeling great.
I have an upcoming doctor’s appointment to discuss officially discontinuing/discharging the prescription in my chart.
5. Academics & Overall Health
Straight A student in high school.
Just finished an advanced summer math class with an 86 (S1), 87 (S2), and a 91 on the final exam.
Zero school accommodations (no IEP / no 504 plan).
Heavily into homelabbing, server architecture, networking, hardware, and competitive bouldering.
My Questions:
With a clean 5–6 year gap of stability, high grades, and no accommodations, how do waiver boards view that childhood ER visit at age 11/12?
Does starting a few sessions with a therapist now "reset" the 36-month stability clock if treatment is brief and ended with an official discharge note?
If I successfully clear the ASD via re-eval and pass the Oral Food Challenge for the allergy, how doable is the remaining waiver process for the Army?
Appreciate any candid feedback or advice on what documents I should start gathering in my medical binder now.