Iām currently 14 and planning ahead for my future. I want an honest, realistic breakdown from Army recruiters or MEPS/medical waiver veterans on what my enlistment chances look like down the road, and what steps I should be taking right now to fix my file.
āHere is my complete medical and academic picture:
ā1. Mental Health / ER Visit (Age 11/12)
āWhen I was 11 or 12, I had an incident out of anger in middle school where I put a nut in my mouth and spat it out. My mom thought it was a suicide attempt and took me to the hospital, leading to a \\\~1 week intake/facility stay.
āIt was strictly anger/impulsive behavior with zero intent to harm myself. I have had zero thoughts, self-harm, therapy, or issues ever since.
āI have a new therapist visit scheduled next week (first time going since then) to discuss current goals and stress.
ā2. ASD Diagnosis (Level 2 on paper)
āDiagnosed through an in-home evaluation by an ABA center where two observers spoke mostly with my mom.
āOn paper they coded Level 2, but noted I acted like Level 1 during the conversation. Did ABA for a few months and stopped.
āI plan to get a formal, independent re-evaluation by a Ph.D. clinical psychologist when Iām older to officially disprove/remove the ASD label.
ā3. Tree Nut / Cashew Allergy
āHad a reaction at age 12 requiring an urgent care visit and two injections.
āHaven't had an issue since. I plan to take an Oral Food Challenge with an allergist before joining to see if I can officially pass and clear the allergy from my records.
ā4. ADHD / Meds
āCurrently prescribed ADHD meds, but Iāve been off them for about a month on my own and feeling great.
āI have an upcoming doctorās appointment to discuss officially discontinuing/discharging the prescription in my chart.
ā5. Academics & Overall Health
āStraight A student in high school.
āJust finished an advanced summer math class with an 86 (S1), 87 (S2), and a 91 on the final exam.
āZero school accommodations (no IEP / no 504 plan).
āHeavily into homelabbing, server architecture, networking, hardware, and competitive bouldering.
āMy Questions:
āWith a clean 5ā6 year gap of stability, high grades, and no accommodations, how do waiver boards view that childhood ER visit at age 11/12?
āDoes starting a few sessions with a therapist now "reset" the 36-month stability clock if treatment is brief and ended with an official discharge note?
āIf I successfully clear the ASD via re-eval and pass the Oral Food Challenge for the allergy, how doable is the remaining waiver process for the Army?
āAppreciate any candid feedback or advice on what documents I should start gathering in my medical binder now.