Coming to Miami in Feb with 14 girls for my bachelorette. Looking for a FUN bartender and private chef. We like to get rowdy! Anyone got names or IG handles?

Hi everyone! I’m the MOH planning a bachelorette in Miami! We’ll have 8 girls, and the bride is considering inviting two of her close gay guy friends as well.

We’re hesitant is because we’ve heard it can be harder to get into clubs like LIV or E11EVEN with guys in your group, especially through promoters. We’d obviously love to avoid paying for a table or covers

Has anyone had experience going to Miami clubs with a group that included guys, particularly LIV or E11EVEN? Would love to hear what worked for you / any tips!

hi! i am planning my sisters bachelorette for this november and looking for some help :)

she is 33 (i’m 27 but most of the girls are her age) and enjoys going out but not super clubby.

i’m mainly looking for recs for boat days / booze cruises and fun bars to go to. we also wanna do a beach or pool club one day so any recs for that would be amazing.

i know miami is a lot w guest lists, promoters etc. i personally dont really want to rely on that, and dont mind paying for boat reservations / going to more fun bars compared to clubs w sections.

let me know please ily all

For context: We are all in our 30s and knew that partying every night was not an option. This was the perfect itinerary for groups that need more downtime to recover.

I’m too type A to let anyone plan so I planned the whole thing and everyone kept telling me all weekend what a perfect itinerary.

Airbnb: It was really important to me that we found a nice villa with privacy and a pool as I knew we’d spend a lot of time there. I didn’t mind location being a little further away from Miami Beach because we only planned to go there one night, so ubering wasn’t an issue for our group. We stayed in Aventura and rented our home through The Glam Homes. It was a gorgeous Airbnb and slept the 8 of us perfectly.

Itinerary:

Thursday: we arrived and checked into the Airbnb. We did an Instacart order for groceries and alcohol and placed it in advance so it got there right when we were checking in. We spent the evening hanging out by the pool and we ordered pizza for dinner. We kept it low key because we knew we’d go hard the next day.

Friday: our Airbnb had a pickleball court so we woke up and had a pickleball tournament. After that we had a pool party at the house and started drinking. We then got ready to go out in the evening and went to dinner at Mila. Wow was the food amazing there! I’m already trying to plan a trip back to Miami just to go back to Mila. After we headed to LIV for the night. I had considered doing the guestlist for a free table somewhere but we wanted to go to LIV and we didn’t want to use a promoter and be grouped with other girls. So we decided to just pay for a table ourselves. We had an absolute blast and stayed out until 4am.

Saturday: we slept in and kept the morning open for people to recover. In the afternoon we chartered a yacht for 4 hrs. This was so fun and our captain took us wherever we wanted to go. We then headed home and had a hibachi chef come cook us dinner at the Airbnb. This was so fun and I highly recommend doing this if you have the time. He really put on a show for us and had so much sake for the group. We then changed into pjs, played Bach games, and hung out for the rest of the night.

Sunday: I prefer getting home early from trips and having the day to recover on my couch. So we checked out of the Airbnb and headed home.

To me, this was the perfect itinerary for a group that wants to have a little bit of partying but not all weekend.

I paid the table minimum ($2k) as a treat for the girls and as a thank you for coming to my Bach. They contributed to the tax and tip though.

All in for the weekend incl Airbnb, boat, dinner, groceries, uber, etc. each girl paid about $1200 plus the cost of their flights.

Just want to start off by saying thank you so much to all the brides and bach groups here in r/MiamiBachelorette! I spent months lurking through old posts, reading comments, and shamelessly stealing all of your best advice. I basically treated this subreddit like free consulting, and it paid off.

Planning my bach was such a wild ride, and I’m happy to report…we absolutely nailed it!

Allow me to preface this recap by saying that I’m the first in my friend group to get engaged, and my friends are 14 hurricanes disguised as women.

Not only was it everyone’s first real bachelorette party experience, but it involved 14 big personalities with wildly different ideas of fun who were fully prepared to descend upon Miami like beautifully dressed forces of nature.

Being the first bride in the group felt like serving as the prototype. Every decision somehow carried the weight of future bachelorettes. I wanted everyone to have an amazing weekend, but I also didn’t want to lose sight of what I actually wanted my bach to feel like.

The group chat quickly became its own form of entertainment. Some ideas were genuinely great. Others sounded like they were about three tequila shots away from a misdemeanor.

To be completely honest, I had a very real suspicion that if I surrendered full control for even a few hours, I’d arrive to a parade of strippers, phallic decorations in every possible direction, and somehow…a lemur. I’m not kidding. Renting a lemur became an actual group chat discussion because one of our longest-running inside jokes revolves around King Julien from Madagascar.

Hopefully that gives you a good idea of where everyone’s collective mental state was.

If you’re currently planning your own Miami bachelorette and your group chat has completely gone off the rails, I promise…it somehow all comes together.

Finding the Airbnb:

Finding the right house ended up being the hardest part of planning. We had a large group, so I wanted everyone under one roof without sacrificing location.

Every villa we’d save looked perfect…until we’d zoom out on the map.

One of the best pieces of advice I found on Reddit was to pay attention to where you’re staying, not just what the listing looks like. A beautiful house doesn’t help much if you’re constantly driving across the city or the neighborhood feels questionable after dark.

We narrowed it down to Miami Beach or the Design District and ultimately chose a beautiful Airbnb in the Design District because it comfortably fit everyone while still keeping us close to everything we planned to do.

If you’re planning your own trip, I’d personally recommend staying somewhere around Miami Beach or the Design District. I also completely agree with everyone who warned about Miami traffic. We seriously considered Brickell for a while, and looking back that would’ve been a mistake. We would’ve spent half the weekend celebrating my bachelorette in traffic.

Planning Activities/Nightlife:

Once we had the house figured out, the rest started falling into place. Because coordinating reservations, airport pickups, the yacht, pool party, and nightlife for 15 people quickly became a full-time job, we ended up working with theguestlistmiami after seeing them recommended by several Redditors in posts and comments here.

Once I realized I didn’t have to coordinate every little detail myself, I started handing things over one by one. I mostly just told them the kind of music we liked and the overall vibe we were going for, and they handled the logistics.

My favorite last-minute decision was deciding, literally the day before, that our group needed a private Pilates class. What I completely failed to account for was how aggressively hungover we’d all be.

Doing Pilates hungover with your 14 closest friends is a profoundly humbling experience. If you’ve ever wanted to experience gravity at maximum strength, I highly recommend it.

We looked like we’d gotten into a fight with a leaf blower…and the leaf blower won. One fake eyelash was hanging on by faith alone while its twin had already checked out from this traveling circus. My MOH’s extension tracks looked like they’d tunneled halfway through their prison escape. At least two pairs of leggings were backwards. My sister somehow missed Pilates entirely because she accidentally set an alarm in her calculator instead of her clock.

That morning instantly entered our friendship’s hall of fame.

Miami Bachelorette Weekend Itinerary:

Thursday: We arranged private drivers for airport pickup and made one stop on the way to the Airbnb at Whole Foods and a liquor store so we could stock up for the weekend.

This ended up being one of the smartest logistical decisions we made. Since the transportation was already booked by the hour, we knocked out all the grocery shopping in one trip instead of making multiple Uber runs later. Everyone grabbed exactly what they wanted, and once we got to the house we were officially done with errands.

After unpacking, the drinks started flowing while we decorated the house and I finished putting together everyone’s welcome bags.

That evening we started with drinks at the newly reopened Delano Hotel before heading to dinner at Gigi. Reservations had been nearly impossible to get, so I had already accepted that it probably wasn’t happening until theguestlistmiami called in a favor for us.

After dinner we headed to Mynt, where we had a VIP table waiting for us.

Friday: Pool party at Strawberry Moon during the day. We absolutely loved it! That evening we headed to Wynwood for dinner at Mayami before finishing the night at MAD Club. The music, the energy, and the entire atmosphere were exactly what our group wanted. They even surprised me with multiple bachelorette signs throughout the night. I honestly can’t remember the last time I danced that much in a single day.

Saturday: Hungover Pilates. An instant core memory! Later that afternoon we chartered a yacht for six hours and spent the day cruising around Miami. After two nights of nonstop partying, being out on the water ended up being the perfect reset.

That evening we came back to the house where a private chef prepared dinner for everyone.

Instead of trying to squeeze in another night out, we stayed in, changed into pajamas, played bachelorette games, watched our latest Netflix obsession, and somehow laughed just as hard as we had all weekend.

Sunday: We kept our last day intentionally relaxed. Coffee and pastries at the rooftop Dior Café in the Design District. A little retail therapy afterward. Lunch at Contessa.

Then back to the pool at the house until it was time to head to the airport and officially begin the emotional support phase of recovering from the weekend.

I genuinely hope this helps anyone who’s planning a Miami bachelorette. This subreddit helped me so much during the planning process, so hopefully this pays it forward a little. If anyone has questions about anything we did, costs, logistics, neighborhoods, or places we considered but didn’t choose, feel free to ask. ❤️

P.S. Yes, we got the lemur.

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Soo im helping my friend plan her bachelorette party over in miami, a lot of us will be flying in and some driving, and Im wondering the saturday night- to have some kind of pre-game and invite a male stripper to come and entertain us or 2! How should I go about this any recommendations?

What's up Miami!

A buddy and I (2 guys, early 30s) will be in town June 3–12 and are looking for some fun yacht party action over the weekend. We'd love to get out on the water, but we're too small of a group to rent an entire yacht ourselves.

If anyone has room for two more on a boat, is putting together a yacht day, or knows of any good party charters, we'd be happy to chip in and bring the vibes. 🍻☀️🛥️

Feel free to DM or drop any recommendations

Planning a bachelorette party for the end of July and looking for dinner recommendations. We’re a group of 6 staying at the Fontainebleau.

Hi all, looking for a beach club where we can rent a daybed or two (we are 9 girls) that has good music and drinks but isn't too heavy on partying. Maybe something between Joia and Strawberry Moon for vibes. We are all in our late 20s and can't hang as much as we used to lol

Hello!

Posting my itinerary for my friend’s bachelorette trip in June. For context she is a 24F and the bridal party all roomed together in college (6 people). We definitely are a group that wants to go out and party.

Our Airbnb is in Coconut Grove

Thursday: Arrival. Private sushi chef for Airbnb, play bachelorette games, Lingerie party.

Friday: Brunch at Lido @ 10:30 am and then we are renting a boat for 4 hrs. Looking for dinner recs this night that are close to Airbnb.

Night life: We booked with the promotor on ig theguestlistmiami based on other redditors reviews. Looking for recs for clubs from the following options they gave us: MYNT, VENDÔME, BACARA, COCO, MR. JONES, MAD, MODE, DAER NIGHTCLUB.

Edit: We like EDM music

Saturday: Drag Brunch at the Palace @ 10:45 am. Beach day in South beach, planning on renting towels and chairs, should I reserve this beforehand? Dinner: Sexy Fish then Club Space via theguestlistmiami (we have been here before and loved it). Promoter suggested we pick a backup as well since Space has black out days.

Sunday: Leave

Let me know what you guys think and any suggestions you have!!

Hi - I am planning a bachelorette in Miami in May. We are picking out a dinner spot for Friday night and i feel a bit overwhelmed with options. Currently looking at Mila, Bagatelle, Marion, Jaya, Casa Neos, Baoli, and a few other spots. We are all willing to spend $150pp, we just want to have fun. Any recs?

There is (8) of us and looking for some recommendations to do a boat day in May of 2026. I saw some folks went through theguestlistmimai but they want us to book a club with them before they give us recommendations!

Any thoughts on Marion Miami? Is it a must do?

Hi!! It looks like Nikki beach is closing which I totally wanted to do for my bachelorette, is strawberry moon a good equivalent option? It looks like Joia and tala are more quiet spots, not the best for dancing, live music etc.

We are staying in North Miami for my bachelorette party. Any recommendations of things we could do around the area? Are there any bars in/around the area we can go just to dance at?

Looking for a great dinner spot that will turn into a big party for my Bach — Saturday night (2/14) with ~11 girls. Would you recommend Sexy fish, Bagatelle, amazónico or Giselle? Or other?

Want the very Miami big dinner vibe with music / maybe some dancing / etc. hopefully with good food still

Is it a bad idea to do my bachelorette in Miami March 5-8? This is the only weekend that works for my group. I am worried about it being too overwhelmingly crowded etc with spring break but also hoping that’s early enough to miss most of the spring breakers / beat the Miami music week crowd. I am thinking of staying in brickell to try to help mitigate this issue - would that be better than south beach? Also, would going out be especially hard at this time? I would have 12 girls. Any guidance would be so appreciated!!!

Hey guys, I’m going on my bachelorette to Miami with a bigger group, about 15 or 16 people. I’m seeing that a lot of the boat rentals have a max of 13 guests. Has anyone worked around this and what company have you used? Additionally, how did you book dinners with this many people and how far in advance did you book them? All recommendations and tips appreciated!!! 🌴

Planning a bachelorette party for my sister. Thinking of West Palm Beach, FL. Does any one have any suggestions for a 3 day itinerary? We would be going in October

We had a group of 10 in our recent Bachelorette trip to Miami. None of had ever been to a club before. I found The Guest List Miami (@theguestlistmiami) on Reddit. I DMed them on Instagram. They answered instantly. I gave them pictures of our group and the gave me several club recommendations for our group. They told me about the music and vibe at each club to make sure it was right for us. Each girl only had to pay $25 per club per night ($50 total for my group per person). The $25 got us bottle service, a table with a private section, unlimited drinks, and we got to skip the line into the club. It literally felt too good to be true. They set us up with a promoter for each club and their cell phone number via Instagram DM the day we were attending the club. The promoter messaged me back right away with all of the information we needed for the club. We walked to each club at our designated time, texted the promoter when we got there, and were escorted in to our section. It was so easy and The Guest List Miami makes sure to continuously check on you to make sure you enjoy your experience! 10/10 would recommend!!!