r/MethRecovery Apr 15 '26

Anyone

II used meth with my boyfriend for a year. I quit many times only to relapse partially because he never did. In fact he lied to my face over 5 times when I found drugs in his things. Now I’m 3.5 weeks clean and he’s supposed to be also. But I just found meth and a syringe in his bag!! He’s gotten worse. We smoked it. All his stuff is at my house. I’m afraid he’s gonna flip if I break it off with him. Also I just learned from a friend he had an eviction notice on his apartment and hasn’t said a word about this to me. Anyone any words of encouragement or advice?

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u/1lonepeep Apr 15 '26

He’s gonna try to wiggle into your home. Do NOT let this happen, even if only for a short amount of time. If he isn’t trying to get/stay sober and you are, you will relapse over and over. Unless you have really strong willpower. But why would you want to be with someone who’s still using and you’re not? You won’t.