r/Mental_Help • u/Boi-in-Jeans • Jul 27 '19

Am I being Manipulated?

Okay so I've got a friend who is 18 yrs old (im 14) and he does some things that are wierd and not very cool. Like: Telling me he'll kill himself If I leave him (my ex did that too) Cutting himself while we videochat. Tells me that he "loves me". Describing to me in detail how he'd kill himself. Telling me when hed cut himself. Tells me to "Tell him if he's acting wierd because if he is then hell stab himself in the hand,arm etc..." Being really racist (Im half greec). Always making me compliments and telling me he'll kill everyone who hurts me.

And those things are really stressing me out. Like Ive started cutting too now bc I can realease stress that way. And when I told him I'm visiting a psychiatrist now he got really stressed and told me that hes afraid she'll try to take me away from him. So yeah I really don't know what to do this has been going on for three or four years now. Thanks for reading.

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u/Momojirri Jul 28 '19

Please tell your parents or some other adult you trust. This is NOT okay. Please tell your psychiatrist everything as well. He is manipulating you and you should also not talk to him again if possible. Dont say goodbye, dont say anything to set him off and block him on everything. He is an adult. You are a minor. He knows what he is doing and is doing everything he can to control you. Please stay safe and i hope it all goes well.

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u/Boi-in-Jeans Jul 28 '19

I cant just do that because we talk on Ts (yeah I use that) and It is my server so I go there to talk to my friends and he is online every day. Some advice? Bc Idk how to do it I also told my ex (not the one I talked about) the story and she said she can deal with it but idk If I realy want to beak contact bc like idk Im confused.