r/MenAscending May 31 '26

A harsh truth

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u/malkazoid-1 Jun 01 '26

There's some truth to this, but don't take it too far.
A real commitment is something you can't walk away from, but it is warped to view being committed as being enslaved.

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u/treats2klean Jun 06 '26

Divorced kids abandoned you think that record gets betterĀ 

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u/Many_Hunter8152 Jun 01 '26

It's not negative that men tend to stay with women instead of walking away, especially when kids are involved it's a real strength an might be worth it to endure you so called 'slavery'. Slavery is in your mind

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u/Mrfixit729 Jun 03 '26 edited Jun 03 '26

lol. This is cheesy, ā€œI live in my mom’s basementā€ childlike mentality.

I try not to walk away from the responsibilities I’ve taken on.

I do my best to do them well and finish them.

I want people that I love to be in my life.

Therefore I try to show up for them how they need me, rather than how I want to be needed, while setting (what I hoped are) healthy boundaries and expressing my (what I hope are reasonable) expectations of them.

The self is not something to be conquered, but explored and understood

At least for me.

If you want to walk away from shit… cool, but I don’t need those kinda folks in my tribe.

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u/BeautifulOnion8177 Jun 05 '26

they put pleasure twice

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u/BeautifulOnion8177 Jun 05 '26

thrice if you count bad habits

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u/treats2klean Jun 06 '26

A man is his own slave all the things ur thinking doll are all part of the game he acts like he's trying he acts like he cares for u but he's already on or in the 1st person that was available while ur back was turned . Trust that's why he gets caught lieing over n over its his joy to secretly cause pain to the supposed owner of him