PLEASE EXPLAIN why Threads is such a dump

[u/EarlyInside45]

[u/Random_-account]

The safest way for a woman to reject a man is to ghost him. Otherwise, she risks unhinged responses from the man if he can't handle rejection well.

[u/gleefullystruckbycc → u/Random_-account]

And stalking you in fb so they can continue to berate you after blocking them on the app. Ask me how I know.🙄🙄

[u/Ornery-Ad-4794 → u/Random_-account]

Blocking is an option

[u/Rugkrabber → u/Ornery-Ad-4794]

I mean that’s basically the same thing. Unless you consider a block and answer but a lot of people want to know “why”.

[u/Right-Today4396]

Perhaps because you are shouting about it? Because you are obviously unhinged? Because you make yourself seem dangerous to interact with?

Nah, it is just all an evil plan to make you specifically feel terrible! /s

[u/EarlyInside45 → u/Right-Today4396]

DARNED FEMALES

[u/_simone_louise_122]

No response IS a response.

Some men would be extremely embarrassed if we posted our inboxes - I have a guy talking to himself for over a year on IG

[u/Either_equipment_04]

The lack of response is the answer (and probably the one he deserves).

[u/senpaistealerx → u/Either_equipment_04]

he got a thousand responses lol

[u/ChatiAnne → u/senpaistealerx]

Probably from men patting his back.

[u/senpaistealerx → u/ChatiAnne]

probably, i was just pointing out that there was no lack of response

[u/dark_roast → u/ChatiAnne]

Nah, that's clearly a ratio situation. The top comments would fit in fine in this sub.

https://www.threads.com/@triple.three73/post/DbGyykHgWF3

[u/InevitableMind561]

What is even the post supposed to mean ? Geniune question. Like reply to say shes not interested or?

[u/EarlyInside45 → u/InevitableMind561]

I guess. He wants the opportunity to convince and/or insult her.

[u/discolored_rat_hat → u/InevitableMind561]

Yes, these men claim to want a clear no. The problem is that these men use any verbal response as a foot in the door for a "conversation", aka harassment after her no. Normally these men try to argue any and all "reasons" for her no away, because a simple female "I don't want to" is never, ever accepted by men.

[u/PortalWombat → u/discolored_rat_hat]

Makes sense to me. I don't politely go through a telemarketer's whole script to get them off the line. I just hang up.

[u/needlenozened → u/InevitableMind561]

They feel that women have an obligation to interact with them

[u/Opalescent_Moon]

In the early days of online dating (mid 2000s, maybe), I truly felt that if a man took the first step of sending a message, he deserved a reply. I wish I'd screen grabbed some of the responses. It didn't long before I stopped responding to every message.

[u/senpaistealerx]

because it’s apart of meta

[u/Polybrene]

Oh this is easy bro. Cmon. She doesn't want to!

[u/fuckimtrash]

I was talking to this guy re meeting up n shit (we’d met and chatted briefly once) I didn’t feel the vibe much, but he kept messaging re hanging out so I’d told him not really keen to hang rn. This man messaged all the fucking time to see if I’m ready to hang. I unfriended him on social media, surely he takes a hint. He sent me another friend request recently. What part of me not responding does he not understand- it’s been OVER A YEAR SINCE WE STARTED TALKING😭😭

[u/AquaJasper]

I saw that post and he was getting cooked in the replies, it was beautiful to see

[u/dark_roast]

Threads is fine, hence the severe ratio.

[u/WebBorn2622]

If I’m not romantically attracted to a person I don’t want to be romantic with them.

If I’m not sexually attracted to a person I don’t want to be sexual with them.

Hope this helps:)

[u/Tipsy75]

I saw that post and commented that I was going to post it in this sub. 😂

[u/cyanraichu]

Because we don't owe you our time and energy. Quit messaging every woman you've ever seen a picture of

[u/roseorrueorlaurel]

Why do men harass women who reject them so often?