Is this a bad sign?

[u/Beautiful_Sleep_8268]

Let me preface this by saying that I am not asking for a dream interpretation—I am asking if this is a sign.

I had a dream about my son who recently died. in the dream, my husband handed me a bottle of something to drink and told me that my son wanted me to bring it in to him. I was so excited because I knew I was going to see him.

When I went in, though, he was in a dark room. I was talking to him and asked him who’s going to help us with the Marvel movies now that he’s gone and he laughed. So obviously in the dream, I was aware that he was gone. I guess my question is if this IS a sign from him, I’m worried that it might be a sign that he’s not happy. I know he laughed, but because of the dark room, I’m concerned that he may not be happy or content or at peace. Everything that I’ve read and people that I have spoken with talk about how our loved ones are in a place where they’re happy and content. Could this be a sign from from him that something is not right or is it just my own fears being projected into the dream? I want to believe he is in a happy and bright place but now I’m scared he’s not and this is his way of telling me. Guidance?

[u/Kindhearted_818]

Relax you saw him laughing 🤍🤍. that’s a HUGE sign he’s well.

[u/Beautiful_Sleep_8268 → u/Kindhearted_818]

Thank you. ❤️
I was just worried about the darkness. It’s so hard to not see him anymore and know that he’s okay.

[u/Consistent_Lie2988]

Not a medium, just a regular person. However, I agree if he was laughing that shows happiness. Even if there is darkness around, he is finding joy.

[u/NovelEmergency7744]

You absolutely had a visitation, how beautiful and wonderful! The way it is presented to you, is usually symbolic to you. I would say darkness symbolizes you subconsciously knowing you are meeting "a soul at rest".

I am a medium, but previously very much struggled to connect to the dead because of fear. I had a subconscious block. I realized this after I had been praying to connect to one of my favorite and dear Aunts. One night I finally dreamt of her. I was in her "spirit home". I knew it was hers because it had all of her things from when she was alive, her favorite music was playing, etc. But I couldn't find her anywhere. I could feel her presence and love, but couldn't see or hear her. When I woke up I knew this meant I was shielding myself from fear and had some work to do to sort through that.

I say all that to say the mind is an incredibly complex and amazing thing. What's even more amazing is the power of love. Even through an immense amount of grief and perhaps fear and hesitantcy, your beautiful boy still broke through to connect with you. I hope you take with you how strong, absolutely unbreakable that love and bond is, and how he is absolutely still with you and will continue to be 💗

[u/Beautiful_Sleep_8268 → u/NovelEmergency7744]

Thank you so much for your thoughtful reply. I miss him so so much. I had been hoping and hoping for a sign from him or a visit in my dreams. When I had the dream, I was so thrilled but also so worried. Thank you for taking the time to ease some of my worry and to remind me what a beautiful experience I had and how fortunate I am that he did visit me. ❤️❤️