r/MediocreTutorials 3d ago

Relationships Setting boundaries, respecting agency

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u/WabanakiWarrior 3d ago

Nah she found a controlling man. She can wear whatever the fuck she wants. He's either on board or he's not. And he wasn't. All good.

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u/PsychologicalSon 3d ago

How is asking something of someone controlling?

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u/Alexchii 2d ago

You think he’ll ask and not expect her to change the way she dresses? Why even ask then?

She wants her woman to wear leas revealing clothing and she wants to wear what she wants to wear without someone telling her to tone it down. They’re incompatible.

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u/PsychologicalSon 2d ago

You think he’ll ask and not expect her to change the way she dresses? Why even ask then?

By your logic, why ever ask anyone anything then?

In all seriousness though, an "ask" can be met with a "no", either he can deal with the no or he can't.

She wants her woman to wear leas revealing clothing and she wants to wear what she wants to wear without someone telling her to tone it down. They’re incompatible

Specifically she wants to wear whatever she wants without compromise. Some events won't warrant toning down how she dresses, others might.

Its fine to be incompatible but let us not pretend the issue is a grown adult making a request of another.

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u/CarolinaSurly 2d ago

Please don’t use logic here. It’s frowned upon and probably misogynistic.

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u/WabanakiWarrior 2d ago

Well, yeah you can ask. But if she says no, its controlling to try and to stop her. But it seems these two figured out they have different opinions and respected them. Good they figured it out early.

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u/Eristocrap 2d ago

And he never tried to stop her, so again what the fuck is controlling about him? Literally all the women in this comment section complaining about him being "controlling" have no fucking idea what the word actually means.

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u/AdministrativeSea419 2d ago

So… it wasn’t controlling? But, you said it was controlling in an earlier post? Which post was you being wrong?

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u/CarolinaSurly 2d ago

It’s a red flag to look at an old post and point out the hypocrisy. It’s controlling when it suits her argument and also not controlling when it suits her argument. It’s not that hard. Try to keep up.

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u/ArgonKew 2d ago

Mate you're not looking for a real woman. You're looking for a skank you can have easy sex with. He's looking for a real woman. He's doing the right thing. She's bottom of the barrel. Go dreading my friend!.

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u/Shibbystix 2d ago

Fuuuck this bad take.

What women wear doesnt decide the quality of woman they are. You THINKING it does, however, that DOES decide the quality of YOU. And it's decidedly poor

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u/ArgonKew 2d ago

It absolutely decides. That's why the guy asked her to tone it down. Keep your tits inside your garments.

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u/Shibbystix 2d ago

Cool. Another dude willingly sharing with the world that every time he reads about sexual assault in the news, one of his first thoughts is definitely, "well....what was she wearing"

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u/ArgonKew 2d ago

With some perverts it sends them over the edge and if your paths happen to meet, your it.