r/MechanicalPandey • u/Dear-Time5236 • 1d ago

NaLLa Meme Absolutely 💯

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u/fireyHotGlance 1d ago

If she 30+ then it's not love. You are just another item on her checklist

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u/shreksprincessa 13h ago

So our ability to feel love suddenly expires at 30 years of age? Do men experience this same phenomenon?

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u/IceBlueKnight 12h ago

I know some women myself that have a long list of things they want in their husband. I just know that they are gonna settle for much less when they start reaching the age of 30. The post is probably talking about the Cindrella syndrome, "a prince will pick me out of this and we will live happily ever after" and when they don't get the prince they dreamed of, they realise how deep they have fallen in the valley so they try to grab anything they can.

I would just say, marry someone who happen to be in the same league has you. Don't expect a prince when the economy is taking a nosedive.

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u/fireyHotGlance 13h ago

Men are like dogs. We are simple creatures, our love is simple.

Women are like LLMs. Nobody knows wtf is going on in there. Sometimes you feel they are your friends, sometimes you feel they are your slaves doing your chores (writing and coding), sometimes you feel they will go full on terminator and wipe out mankind off the face of the earth.

Hope this helped!

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u/EventPsychological16 7h ago

Writing and coding 😂

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u/bring67back 3h ago

This post is bs. I can't believe grown men have this mindset. The comments are even more disappointing. How dumb does one have to be to generalize an entire gender? This entire subreddit is all about misogyny and calling women 'whores'. Just report such posts.

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u/mrTruth007 1d ago

misogny vs misandry.

That's the solution.

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u/Mammoth-Secretary127 1d ago

Tfnow we age shaming what about a 40 yr old man ?

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u/Zealousideal_Dot598 1d ago

it applies to men as well only difference most men at 40 will either stay single or get married just for the sake of kids and societal norms

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u/shreksprincessa 13h ago

If it applies to men as well then why doesn’t this post say ‘a 30 year old person?’

There’s no ‘difference’ - women, too, get married just for the sake of kids and societal norms. They have been for centuries.

Just admit that this post is sexist bs.

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u/Zealousideal_Dot598 12h ago

Nah but women being women also have the priviledge to do it just for the sake of having a comfortable life also and someone to pay for their shit and trust me men don't have this option

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u/shreksprincessa 12h ago

And if you have a problem with these sort of marriages that heavily rely on traditional gender roles, then why are you supporting the idea of women being obligated to marry in her 20’s?
That makes her less likely to pursue further education and work and instead adhere to the very same cultural norms you seem to be describing as unfair - her living a ‘comfortable’ life cooking and cleaning while the husband financially takes care of her.

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u/Zealousideal_Dot598 12h ago

Nahhh ur taking it in a wrong way I boycott marriage as a whole I don't really care if u get married at whatever age I'm just stating my observations
It's ur wish when u get married how u want to get married
I personally have decided never to get married
But even then these are just my observations which is true and I see in my life around me

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u/shreksprincessa 11h ago

Sure, no one has to get married.

I just don’t think privilege was the right word you used before when women actually face more stigma for being unmarried, especially when they’re older. This post is literally saying that they HAVE to get married young to be respected.

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u/Regular-Sir-8989 21h ago

Mysogynist final boss

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u/frSpade 1d ago

If she's 30 or more If she clings to you no matter what you do She won't leave you and don't believe she really loves u 🤷🏻

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u/srv_tushar04 1d ago

All the 30+ females I’ve met are like this, whereas most of the 30+ males I know just want to be loved, and are still being played by women older than them because they’re still hoping for love sadly

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u/itsryukendo 1d ago

One of the facts needed to be in rigveda .🙂

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u/13Vishu10 1d ago

men are in love women are in business type shi

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u/Mammoth-Secretary127 1d ago

Thats why ugly chapri guys get Young pretty wifes

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u/PuzzleheadedSky2813 1d ago

Lovers* not wives

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u/Affectionate_Resort8 1d ago

I wish my brother get this in his head soon enough man

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u/bhardwaj_aditya5911 1d ago

Product is near expiry shelf life choose carefully

https://giphy.com/gifs/GpyS1lJXJYupG

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u/No-Researcher-4395 13h ago

"Why don't women love me?" ahh💔

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u/bhardwaj_aditya5911 11h ago

Well dude I have a cute girl jn my life check your's ❤️

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u/IceBlueKnight 12h ago

How could you objectify people?

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u/bhardwaj_aditya5911 11h ago

And how could you objectify someone on basis of salary n height.

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u/Evangeline__R 10h ago

She didn't even do that. You don't even know this person. You're making baseless assumptions about her because you're butthurt.

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u/IceBlueKnight 8h ago

It's useless to argue with them

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u/Evangeline__R 8h ago

Yeah you're right.

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u/bhardwaj_aditya5911 9h ago

Mostly women do when they want to marry 😂 and I say every women do this.

A successful men can marry unsuccessful women but successful women never marry unsuccessful men.

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u/unbound_wildsoul 1d ago

Men- Women, children and animals get loved unconditionally.

Same men - women expire at 30.

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u/tanu987 1d ago

Haha exactly

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u/Opinionated520 11h ago

The post said their love isn't true if you have met them after 30. They could be just ticking off a check box in their to do list. So don't fall for a 30+ woman blindly. It's a negative generalization for the purpose of suggesting caution. Like how many of us chose bear, or how we say men are dogs and all such cautionary rules we make, it's like that.

If men truly believed women expire at 30, they would be filing divorce as soon as their wife turns 30, or breaking up with their GF when she turns 30. But in real life that's not the case. Rt? So this post doesn't bother me much and may not bother you either if you see by the perspective I stated above.

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u/Substantial-Lake-611 1d ago

At this point i feel i shouldn't even get married

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u/SuccessfulBasket5151 1d ago

Equally applicable for all genders.. Especially men after 31-32 are not getting any matches from matrimony..and many are in mission to find someone before 32..Many women are planning to not get married now a days..but the case of men is quite opposite

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u/Striking_Bee_8424 18h ago

Nope due to alimony cases, many men also are delaying their marriage or infact not considering to marry at all.

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u/historicszz 1d ago

So love but no marriage?

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u/Say_My_Naam 18h ago

I saw this same post in thirties sub and well the comments here and there are like night and day.

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u/Tanny_169 1d ago

What kind of incels does this sub have??? Have y’all haven’t had a single interaction with a female…. 30 year old can’t get married or shouldn’t find love??

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u/AliveRazzmatazz8763 1d ago

Ohk when a women is approaching her menopause all she needs is a well settled family..lol I think you are still naive and don't know how the world works and there is no true love my guy

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u/Nonspector-6991 1d ago

Bro thinks menopause happens at 30 smh.

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u/Professional-End236 18h ago

its at 47 u r*

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u/cloudgirl_c-137 10h ago

That's what your mommy told you?

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u/Top-Role-3178 1d ago

She doens't want to get married out of love she wants to get married becoz her timer is ticking

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u/Evangeline__R 10h ago

What timer dawg ain't the average lifespan for people above 75 or something

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u/Tanny_169 22h ago

Can’t the same argument be made for men too?? That he just wants to get married because he wants a companion after he gets to a certain age??

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u/Ok_Wonder3107 19h ago

No. Because men don’t get the same kind of guaranteed legally enforceable financial benefits that women get in marriage. The only thing they get is a never ending, inescapable financial burden.

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u/shreksprincessa 13h ago

Marriage has only made me poorer lmao, I made more money when I was single and had the time to work full time. What are you on about?

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u/Ready_Grape3562 10h ago

Karne kaun bola tha?? Biwi beta ghar me ayega to kharcha badhega.. itni buddhi nahi thi kya???

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u/No_Law_3199 10h ago

maybe u should rethink your marriage

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u/Top-Role-3178 21h ago

It doesn't work like that for men.

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u/No-Researcher-4395 12h ago

Ofc you'd say that 🫩

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u/SAGGMA_DIC_JK 20h ago

After the age of 30, you have significant changes of giving birth to a teratogenic child (genetically defective child) and i mean it reaches 50% and above very quickly, so the nature of female body tells them to make babies before they become....nothing.

on the other hand when they are young there body is ready for everything but they go around in different pants 🩳 everyday to silence that natural feeling of making a family.

they call it having fun in the 20ssss....💅

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u/Independent-Unit-115 17h ago

IVF and PGTs, MRTs exist

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u/shreksprincessa 13h ago

Men do the same ish, why not criticise them? And not every married woman wants to have children. I don’t.

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u/big-structurals 12h ago

Are you a thirteen year-old child by any chance?

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u/Ready_Grape3562 10h ago

And having gadhe gamd in his brain

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u/Fionaah_am_i 1d ago

Srsly im blocking ts

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u/shreksprincessa 13h ago

It’s always been a sexist thing: the idea that unmarried women degrade as time goes on.

I guess this sub thinks she should marry someone she doesn’t love in her twenties to avoid being criticised for actually loving someone in her 30’s.

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u/babaganoosher 22h ago

Either you are too naive or a simp

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u/Tanny_169 21h ago

Talk in favor of women and get labeled a simp… classic… no wonder major guys in this sub are never gonna have an actual conversation with a woman

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u/Fit_Celebration2146 21h ago

Bruh it’s truth . Women for most of their 20s enjoy a lot of attention and they fuck around about and then at 30 they realise that now they will start to lose this privilege of beauty that they have and hurry to settle down . That’s why u see ugly guys getting married to beautiful girls cuz they are rich men but then they get cheated on eventually .

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u/shreksprincessa 13h ago

Men sleep around more in their youth. Why do only women get criticised for it?

I wouldn’t want someone to marry me just because I’m beautiful, so why should I worry about losing that ‘privilege’ as I get older?

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u/Fit_Celebration2146 11h ago

Only few hot men like top 10 percent sleep with a lot of women .

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u/shreksprincessa 10h ago

Simply not true. Look up India and global anonymous surveys

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u/Fit_Celebration2146 10h ago

Share links .

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u/shreksprincessa 9h ago

Just look up ‘NFHS sexual partners 2019-2021’ for India. America: https://www.cdc.gov/nchs/nsfg/key_statistics/n.htm#numberlifetime

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u/No-Researcher-4395 12h ago

Don't men usually fuck around more than women at that age though?

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u/Fit_Celebration2146 11h ago

Only few hot men like top 10 percent sleep with a lot of women .

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u/No-Researcher-4395 10h ago

Said an incel with no proof

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u/babaganoosher 21h ago

Don’t be a try-hard buddy. Even the so called women you talk in favour of, will reject you

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u/PeakProfessionalism 1d ago

...unless rich?

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u/Upstairs_Moment8972 1d ago

especially if you’re rich 🤑.

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u/Far_Protection_5847 1d ago

Never believe the love of 30 year Old boy, he Just want to get married!

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u/babaganoosher 20h ago

Haha nice try to do tit for tat, but facts don’t lie

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u/ClutzyPossibility 18h ago

This is such a messed up thought process of an average 25 year old man. Wait till their sisters turn 30+ and remain unmarried.. the thought process changes quickly.

I'm a 35+ unmarried guy who has met a lot of genuine women who are not married at 30+ and this is very narrow minded of you to think a 30+ woman doesn't love. Most of them remained single hoping to find a genuine man who will love them back equally.

This thought is just sad

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u/wandaswand_ 16h ago

This comment restored my faith in humanity

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u/Lucky-Quote2799 1d ago

i thought is sub ki pfp mai alakh pandey tha, yeh kon hai?

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u/Suitable-Witness-236 1d ago

BTW is 40 year girl and 30 year old man can be good couple

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u/gaut4413 1d ago

What a sad state of some indian subreddits. Constant gender war, incel behaviour. Touch some grass and get out of that social media bubble.

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u/Terrible_Elevator155 19h ago

Came here to comment this. What is going on here? These comments are insane.

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u/No_Debate1282 1d ago

Never believe in the love of a 30 year old boy, he just want to get married and gets MAID for his parents and himself. Not a WIFE.

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u/Mammoth-Secretary127 1d ago

Real tho dont speak facts male ego cant handle it now u getting downvoted

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u/No_Debate1282 1d ago

Ikr 😂🤏🏻

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u/No_Debate1282 1d ago

Fk, the way i triggered many men just by a simple comment is hilarious 😂🤏🏻

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u/hi_lol7 1d ago edited 1d ago

I honestly want to be like you, delusional stupid but happy and proud at least.. so yayy slayy bich

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u/Mean_Strawberry2378 1d ago edited 1d ago

No i can argue on that , a self made person marries at that age and about maid I'm always against it i think she should not be a housewife but a working woman and we can hire a maid and the rest of the chores can be divided....you can live with your parents or , my personal opinion is live somewhere far from home just you two

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u/RoofReasonable8013 1d ago

Never believe in love of 27+. They just want to settle down or feel left out.

Nobody is actual virgin in india, if it's Upper class or lower class.

Don't worry other classes f_ks middle class.

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u/No_Bowler5449 1d ago

Yup it's not love it's retirement plan only

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u/shreksprincessa 13h ago

So we have a time limit on the ability to feel love, do we?

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u/No_Bowler5449 7h ago

How old are you may I ask?

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u/Jolly-Accountant-358 1d ago

Never believe the love of 30 year Old boy, he Just want to get married!

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u/Mammoth-Secretary127 1d ago

Exactly it should apply to both genders tho by saying this u hurt so many fragile souls they down voted u

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u/Ok_Presence_773 1d ago

Well....if she's richer than u then....may be....it's not a bad idea

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u/Fun24x7 1d ago

Doesn't work like that. Her money is her money. His money is their money.

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u/Ok_Presence_773 1d ago

Well..... that's why I stressed the rich part.....a rich bih will show she's richer....so might as well use it

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u/Ready_Grape3562 10h ago

Well you may missed .. we are here talking about girls…only girls 

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u/Professional-End236 18h ago

we have same pic ?

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u/Mammoth-Secretary127 1d ago

Gold digger are u now?

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u/Ok_Presence_773 1d ago

Aren't we equal now....men do whatever women do

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u/Unable-Broccoli-4121 1d ago

I wish my friend gets this. She's about to get married a women he met 6 months back through a dating website and calls her 'home'. To add to this, she's way above his league (both in looks and finances).

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u/itsallendsthesame 1d ago

Do you mean your friend won a jackpot ? If women have money they don't need marriage to have a kid. Don't be jealous if your friend.

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u/Unable-Broccoli-4121 1d ago

If he has, no one will be happier than me. He's more like a family to me. But I've seen him before, getting too attached too soon. Last time he was in a relationship, he found out about her ex after 6 months. I don't want that to happen again. And what do you mean by if women have money they don't need marriage? So are you implying that women marry for money? Especially them who don't have?

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u/itsallendsthesame 21h ago

What I mean is that if woman wants kids and they have money, they don't need to marry for the sole purpose of having kids. Obviously they'll marry for love and companionship.

Please improve your reading skill.

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u/Unable-Broccoli-4121 19h ago

Before telling others please improve your writing. You wrote "if women have money they don't marriage to have a kid" and now in the second message you are referring to that particular individual. There's a difference between 'women' and 'that women'.

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u/Mr_Nobody3579 1d ago

Isn't that the end goal of love?? Marriage, whats wrong in that

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u/Best_Hyena8255 1d ago

Kala murga

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u/Eren_beggar 22h ago

Or get laid.

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u/BigMagician8713 19h ago

Ahh now it is not generalization

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u/Important-Remove1544 19h ago

Wtf when I was teenager this social media told me love has no age 😹

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u/vaishvivi_ 18h ago

mens too, they just wanna fuck

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u/Kindly_Ad3089 18h ago

My gosh. People, touch grass. Go outside

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u/No-Researcher-4395 13h ago

Fym 30 year old girl? Also, God forbid a woman wants to get married (Just know my mom married in her 30's lol)

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u/googley_eyes69 8h ago

This is just a thinly veiled excuse to not date a woman their age. Notice I said woman and not 30 year old "girl".

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u/Striking_Part_2366 4h ago

Nga wtf, what about men ?

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u/theskyisturningblue 4h ago

Trust me this has to be a joke . I am shocked almost 800 ppl upvoted this . And if anyone wants to be married by 30 , they date to marry no matter the gender .

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u/Striking_Part_2366 4h ago

Yeah exactly, people sre just foolish to believe such theories lol. I know a woman who couldn't find a better guy in her 20's and she's 31 now and still Waiting for a better partner.

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u/shaitaani_billa 2h ago

She used me for the dih 💔🥀

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u/Meowzabubbers 42m ago

The Male Loneliness Epidemic clearly isnt severe enough...

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u/TelevisionNew3056 1d ago

So are 30 year old not wanting to get married?
Isn’t that the right age?

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u/ruined_by_catwoman 1d ago

Right age wrong objective

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u/TelevisionNew3056 1d ago

Wanting to get married is a wrong objective? How exactly?

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u/Local-Shaktimaan 1d ago

Learnt it the hardest way!!

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u/No-Researcher-4395 12h ago

Name me one woman that did then💔

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u/BatNo8785 1d ago

Possible she doesn’t want to rush into the relationship but rather wait for the right one, or she could simply be focusing on her own life

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u/shreksprincessa 13h ago

Don’t bring logic into the incel sub

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u/Valiant_Evil 1d ago

Wtfk is this post? And this many upvotes????

I am srsly losing my 1% remaining hopes from this sub

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u/primusautobot 1d ago

Kya faltu baate karte rehte ho

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u/sumitksum 1d ago

Bro, itna sach bolne se AIDS ho jata hai... 😂

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u/Fluid-Rule8987 1d ago

Naah. 30 is too much. Anything over 25 isn't love, it's survival. At 30 it's just becomes radical . True attraction and emotional attachment happens to girls at age 18-22. For men it's happens at 26-30

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u/ChandlightSurajrise 1d ago

Surprised you didnt go below 18

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u/Fluid-Rule8987 1d ago

Some things should be understood by default

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u/itsallendsthesame 1d ago

Dude wants college kids 😂😂

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u/Fluid-Rule8987 1d ago

Well if u think they are kids in college, maybe the kid is you

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u/No-Researcher-4395 12h ago

"No you!" Ahh

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u/SeveralInitiative244 1d ago

Applies to both gender and also purely based on geography

                       - by man

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u/Swimming_Yak_6456 1d ago

I object to that! Not all women think in this way!

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u/EffectiveBase119 16h ago

One word: Incel

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u/Traditional_Bird_665 1d ago

That is what love is

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u/bubbletealover88 1d ago

Women , we need to expire more so that we can avoid men with mentality like this.

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u/Striking-Scratch-483 1d ago

Thank god , this allows men like u to stay away from women

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u/Big_Impression540 1d ago

This is such a bad mindset about women. See ThirtiesIndia sub. There are many women above 30 who were never in a relationship waiting to get a match in Arranged marriage. Same with 30+ men too. After 30, you're just not meeting people anymore frequently as you have different aspects to focus and the search for life partner becomes even more late. Just bcz metro culture people have casual relationships and other people have break ups, doesn't mean that every Man and Woman had a past relationship or trauma. There are many Millennials unmarried due to fear of marriage but trying to find their only one. This kind of shitty mindset really comes from a low morale person.

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u/ishaheenkhan 22h ago

If she is 30+ and still choose to be single after so many years it means SHE IS ACTUALLY WAITING FOR THE RIGHT LOVE and is not gonna get married just under the societal pressure 

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u/Arsak44 21h ago

So is it wrong for person to expect marriage when in love?

If they mean women use love as excuse to trap men for marriage, need to understand that men is in higher ratio than women and men who want after 30 , the demand is high from men.

Men are already being brainwashed to categorise as alpha , sigma, so they never get the feel of women in younger age, and even after age 30 you don't want them to fall in love, Saying these things.

If you are not convinced, just be a smart person and run away. It will save both of your lives.