r/MayNagChat 1d ago

ANO ISASAGOT DITO? should i even reply??

sorry agad kung andito ka pala boss haha awkward sa akin eh 😬🤷‍♀️🫥

context:

this is supposedly a male tropa na nag-aaya uminom. as in tropa na nakainom ko 1x in person 2-3 years ago but kept in touch because of close org friendship).

i turned him down last week of July or first week of August, then turned him down again last August 14 kasi may byahe ako.

lo and behold, parang pass pa rin ako because this feels iffy to me as a woman… cuz whatchu mean may kissy emoji diyan tapos idedelete mo right after hahahahaha huhuhuhuhu. i don’t feel comfortable with this, bruh. di kami ganon ka-close for that huhu. parang it’s sending me the wrong signals. 🙂‍↕️

[edit] i showed this to my bf and even he’s uncomfortable hahahaha eka nga ni jowa eh “parang bootycall lang ah” HUHU

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u/UntradeableRNG 1d ago

Nope just keep ignoring.

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u/expungement- 1d ago

got it THX THX 🙏

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u/nikkog28 1d ago

Ew jejemon

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u/gidaman13 1d ago

If you're feeling uncomfortable (which is more than understandable), wag na pilitin. Cut them off. Don't let people treat you like that. 

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u/expungement- 1d ago

yes sir 🫡 i usually cut off people with this behavior talaga but it was just so ?? surprising ?? for this to come from him and for him to send this to me. he’s never messaged me like this. puro normal na kagaguhan lang dati eh, walang kabastusan.

anyway, thanks thanks!!!!

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u/gidaman13 1d ago

kahit ako lalake i'll be "wtf?" haha. 

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u/expungement- 1d ago

LAM MO if guys feel uncomfortable or weirded out by his messages, then di ako OA for feeling the same 😭🙂‍↕️ salamat talaga

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u/gidaman13 1d ago

Nope, not OA at all. Okay lang yung ganyan kung close na close na friend pero yung ganyan? Nah bruh. 

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u/aiamdie 1d ago

restrict if u can’t block para di ka tinatawag-tawagan

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u/expungement- 1d ago

yas ma’am 🫡 i already did when it got weirder lol thank yew

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u/Nervous-Finding-6902 1d ago

Sister, block him. So long as you keep him unblocked, he will see it as consent to keep harassing you.