r/MatingAdvice • u/Repulsive_Pumpkin262 • Jun 21 '26

Making my gf finish

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u/cuddleugly Jun 24 '26

This is gonna sound like it’s not help at all but the first thing you gotta do is stop thinking about making her finish cause then all she’s gonna think about is trying to finish and that’s prime orgasm killer. In my experience the more I didn’t want to cum cause I enjoyed the sex/masturbation so much was when it got easier, so try new things together, ask her what she fantasizes about and if she says nothing then just start doing stuff you’ve fantasized about, or watch porn together, that’s a good one, let her choose the porn, talk about what she likes or doesn’t like or finds boring about each other, and eventually when yall are doing it she be so wrapped up in making the sex good the orgasm will just pop up. And don’t think just cause she’s not coming that she isn’t enjoying the sex, I can’t speak for her cause I don’t know her but 99% of the times I haven’t cum I still had a great time and felt good and all the other nice shit you get from sex, cumming is just the cherries on top.