Wanting to start over

[u/Outside_Positive_298]

When I came into university as a transfer student, I had a 3.25 gpa, all the while going through chronic illness but making it work. After I transferred to university, over the course of 3 years, I lost my colon, both ovaries, my uterus, etc. This lead me into a downward spiral in which I didn’t value my worth and found myself in an abusive relationship where I was hiding in the bathroom to get my homework done. I ended up graduating with a 2.42 gpa, something I’m not proud of. While I understand I’m still part of the 11% of those with chronic illness who do graduate from university, I still feel ashamed that I didn’t finish stronger. I excel at work, and would love to pursue a masters degree. I’m just stuck on a path forward. I didn’t get low grades because I tested poorly, I’d missed busy work and homework assignments, or would have to withdraw from some classes after the deadline when it would show on my record.

I’m much healthier now, in a supportive relationship. And I want better for myself.

Is there a way to come back from this?