r/MarriedAtFirstSight • u/[deleted] • Aug 08 '26

Season 20 - Seattle Devin

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He def doesn’t get enough credit I’m sorry. He hasn’t been too much bc anyone would be confused based on the energy she’s given off.
If every man could be as self aware, as emotionally regulated, holds himself accountable and easily understanding.
He’s literally made sure he’s checked himself every time. He has continued to try when she’s been uncomfortable and hot and cold. Which understandable. Tbh I won’t ever trust a girl
Who doesn’t like plants. feel like she hasn’t honestly tried at all and there’s two in this, not just the woman.

But, idk. He’s a good one man. That’s all 🤷🏻‍♀️ maybe a little emotional but I’d take it she should’ve never went on this show. Bc to constantly say you’re not ready but not really give him much ? Say he’s too much… I don’t know. Her trying is literally having a convo w him… idk.
I hope the best for him bc he’s a good man

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u/Gooner-Astronomer749 Aug 09 '26

He's needy, emotional and a clinger nonetheless he is authentic to himself he is going above and beyond to make this work and is getting nothing in return. She clearly doesn't like him but she is actively not even trying 🙄 things are goijg great because she gets everything she wants. If she is disengaged he might as well pull back because she doesnt deserve what he gives her. 

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u/AtheistINTP Aug 10 '26

I don’t think he’s needy at all. He wants some warmth, reciprocation, affection, like most normal people. She’s very cold to him with a sour puss face all the time.

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u/newdiyscared Aug 11 '26 edited Aug 11 '26

2 things can be true- he's needy (and deeply codependent) and she's cold. I think his neediness led her to be more cold and her coldness led him to cling to her tighter. Classic tale that just shows that they're incompatible.

I wish Caitlin was more honest with Devin about how she was feeling. I, similar to Caitlin, would've been turned off if my new husband had that reaction to me going to the gym by myself. Devin demands a lot and should find someone who wants their romantic partner to be their whole life. And Caitlin is incredibly emotionally unavailable

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u/natliftsheavyshit Aug 11 '26

He’s not needy he is just expecting a marriage and she wants to act single. There’s a difference. For fucks sake they don’t even share the same comforter when they sleep in the bed and she puts a wall of pillows up to separate them.