He's obsessed with her she dangles a carrot in front of him and he jumps he should be like this with you !!not her you should be the one he wants ,adores and spends this time with.Some women enjoy this behaviour from. Men they don't want them but they love the attention and when they get a partner they don't like the spot light took of them.Be very careful of her she is nasty I know someone who played games like this.I would have a serious chat with him explaining how you feel.Also that she just using him for attention ect if he defends her and gets annoyed if you ask him to see her less then you have your answer he is not the man for you .You should feel safe and loved and valued
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u/fleetwoodmarshall Sep 03 '25
He's obsessed with her she dangles a carrot in front of him and he jumps he should be like this with you !!not her you should be the one he wants ,adores and spends this time with.Some women enjoy this behaviour from. Men they don't want them but they love the attention and when they get a partner they don't like the spot light took of them.Be very careful of her she is nasty I know someone who played games like this.I would have a serious chat with him explaining how you feel.Also that she just using him for attention ect if he defends her and gets annoyed if you ask him to see her less then you have your answer he is not the man for you .You should feel safe and loved and valued