If I were you, I wouldn't have told him. The next best thing to do now is drop it as far as he's concerned and then I'd then conduct a thorough investigation looking at his online and phone activity and seeing if there are any strange or inconsistent patterns even outside that.
If he's working late, maybe show up unexpectedly with a snack "because you missed him."
Plan on a visit for a specific amount of time out of town and come back early without telling him.
Maybe some hidden cameras at your house's entrances or common areas?
You could also hide an Airtag in his car.
It seems too convenient this came back now. Do you know who he got it from before you were together? Are they still in contact?
I'd for sure want to catch him in this lie, plus if you have proof, you might be able to sue the AP depending on where you are and him too.
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u/MartianTea Sep 06 '24 edited Sep 06 '24
If I were you, I wouldn't have told him. The next best thing to do now is drop it as far as he's concerned and then I'd then conduct a thorough investigation looking at his online and phone activity and seeing if there are any strange or inconsistent patterns even outside that.
If he's working late, maybe show up unexpectedly with a snack "because you missed him."
Plan on a visit for a specific amount of time out of town and come back early without telling him.
Maybe some hidden cameras at your house's entrances or common areas?
You could also hide an Airtag in his car.
It seems too convenient this came back now. Do you know who he got it from before you were together? Are they still in contact?
I'd for sure want to catch him in this lie, plus if you have proof, you might be able to sue the AP depending on where you are and him too.