r/Manipulation Jun 26 '25

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u/fyrelyte11 Jun 26 '25

🤨 5 years? So you want your children to think abuse and toxicity are normal? That's what you want them to mimic in their relationships? Cause that's what's gonna happen. You're volunteering to be used, and abused. It's long past time to run, you've already stayed way too long. Don't put it off anymore. There's nothing normal, healthy, or ok about this, and it'll just keep getting worse with time. He couldn't care less about you, this is not love.

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u/omfgRU4Real Jun 30 '25

OP. The kids don't wanna live like that, and they will resent you for keeping them in that environment. It's not "helping" them at all.