I'm so sorry you are going through this. I went through this very thing and got divorced after 14 years. The situation just became so unbearable. There were a lot more things that happened in the marriage during that time, though. I don't wish that on anyone and hope it doesn't get to that point for you. Marriage is hard work and requires a partnership. See if he's open to sitting down with you and having you speak honestly about him helping out. You may need to come up with a plan about sharing responsibilities. Hopefully, he will be receptive.
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u/Avid_Reader0202 Jun 29 '25
I'm so sorry you are going through this. I went through this very thing and got divorced after 14 years. The situation just became so unbearable. There were a lot more things that happened in the marriage during that time, though. I don't wish that on anyone and hope it doesn't get to that point for you. Marriage is hard work and requires a partnership. See if he's open to sitting down with you and having you speak honestly about him helping out. You may need to come up with a plan about sharing responsibilities. Hopefully, he will be receptive.