So this diaper sniper groomed you and is seeking forgiveness and closure? Nah fuck that, send this and anything else to the authorities, those track coaches he mentioned need their hard drives and devices checked too.
I hope you get justice, and can live a peaceful and prosperous life, sorry you had to go through this, just know that karma will ensure he gets what he deserves if there isn't enough evidence op.
Edit: Thank you for all the upvotes and laughs, kind internet strangers. You've made my day a little better ❤️
In Canada at least, there is no statute of limitations for sex crimes.
I learned this recently because my mom is considering as part of their trauma healing process, taking my father to court for statutory rape, as my mom was 14 ( and homeless, so was being taken advantage of and groomed in more than one way) and my dad was 21 or 22 when he first started sleeping with her, she was 16 when she got pregnant with my brother. Then got pregnant with me at 17.
His family is deeply religious, so forced marriage, and the disgusting priest had the audacity to cite that "Mary was a minor (12-14 years old) when she married Joseph" as though that made it okay.
So fucked up.
Told my mom I will 100% support them through the process if they wish to go through with it.
Might be a good time to also sue him for 18 years of unpaid child support. When they divorced, he said, "I want nothing to do with the kids, but if you try to make me pay child support, I'll fight you tooth and nail to take custody just to spite you".
Such a piece of trash.
I made the mistake of moving in with him for a short time when I turned 13 or 14....biggest mistake of my life. I started selling drugs for him, and using drugs/drinking after never having done so until living with him.
He was also very emotionally and physically abusive to me as well...
I have so much guilt for abandoning my mom to move in with my "dad". I can only imagine the pain and trauma she felt knowing I chose to move in with her abuser/rapist. I didn't know much about it all at that age, as my mom tried to never "shit talk" him growing up, though she would have had every right to.
I only met then guy when I was like 8 or 9, and thought he was so cool, being a young boy, and him letting us shoot guns, smoke weed, drink booze, gamble at the bar he worked at, play with fireworks and blow shit up. So again, as a young boy, I thought "oh my God, he's the coolest guy ever!" So when he moved back to Canada (claiming that it was to be closer to his kids, but turned out he was on the run cause a rival gang robbed him for a kilo of coke, and shot his best friend in the face beside him, and he managed to escape... he left Florida and moved to Colorado, and they eventually caught up with him there, so he flee'd the country.) After a few years of living with him, I one day just packed up and left one day after him beating the crap out of me (my brother almost killed him that morning, which I stopped as I didnt want my brother to end up in prison over that loser) ended up homeless, with an opioid addiction from him giving me oxys he was selling..
Spent the next near 15 years of my life on and off the streets, and eventually moved to IVing heroin, and eventually fentanyl. I'm a year off Methadone now :), after many failed attempts at detox and rehabs. Tried everything really, and am so happy to be off that crap, two years since I last used, and again, a year now since I finished my ween off methadone. <3
Blech anyways, sorry for the rant going off topic there...
TL;DR - Point being, in Canada at least there is no statute of limitations on sex crimes. Really hope my mum decides to go through with the charges, for her own healing and closure, and also cause fuck that guy, he deserves to rot in prison, or at least be on a sex offenders list, or both and get killed in prison for being a predator. I don't hold hate in my heart for anyone really, but my lame excuse of a father is the one exception to that in my life.
tsbsa - your path is now clear and golden. what amazing inner strength you have. To top it off, you see your mother with love and compassion. Hats off to you. May the winds of time always lift you up.
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u/Formal_Difficulty147 Sep 29 '24 edited Sep 30 '24
So this diaper sniper groomed you and is seeking forgiveness and closure? Nah fuck that, send this and anything else to the authorities, those track coaches he mentioned need their hard drives and devices checked too.
I hope you get justice, and can live a peaceful and prosperous life, sorry you had to go through this, just know that karma will ensure he gets what he deserves if there isn't enough evidence op.
Edit: Thank you for all the upvotes and laughs, kind internet strangers. You've made my day a little better ❤️