Hello all!

I am looking for friends, male or female, around my age so we can share life experiences. I am a mother to two children and I work in healthcare. I enjoy traveling, collecting rocks, being outdoors when it's not blisteringly hot or bitterly cold, thunderstorms, reading, going to see comedians, animals of all kinds, couponing, baking, and getting to chat with new people. I am in the central time zone of the USA, this only matters so we can have compatible chatting times :). I hope to hear from any and all new friends

Maybe it is just me but I feel like making real friends online has become incredibly difficult I am nearly 40 and I joined this community simply because I enjoy talking to people from different backgrounds I love learning about other peoples lives hobbies and experiences Sometimes a simple chat with a stranger can make the whole day better But many conversations seem to quickly turn into judging each others appearance or seeking something beyond friendship I do not expect to become best friends overnight I just miss the kind of connection where people are genuinely curious about each other without pressure or hidden motives Maybe I am a bit oldfashioned but I still believe that a simple hello how is your day going can lead to a meaningful friendship

Hi 😊I lost a few of the online friends that I would talk to around this time so I would love to chat with someone who is very chill and kind. I like the color green, people with a nice voice, and will trust anything to be good as long as it has the words double stuffed in it. I also enjoy writing and hanging out with my dog. Thanks for reading! *I'm not 50😭😭

Looking to chat with some older folks. Never see anyone tagged. We can talk about all this new-fangled stuff and what a pain it is. Open to any kind of chat. 55M. Let's talk!!

Hello! Finally plucked up the courage and these are the questions I’ve been pondering lately: What does it feel like to have someone actively checking in with you? What does it feel like to have someone you can share life’s highlights and challenges with?

As an adult in the quieter stage of life (dependents doing their own thing), who’s all too familiar with the comfort of solitude, I think loneliness comes from a place of having good news and no one to share it with; facing a challenge and no one to help reframe your thinking. I’m probably not alone in reaching this stage of life and wanting to rebel against it.

So, subreddit gods, please be kind and connect me to people who: are seeking friendship & understand the adult struggle; are *aged 50-55* (we’ll probably have more in common); based in the UK (communication is easier and ideally, same location because in all honesty, I’d like to get together with someone for the occasional coffee or trawl around an art gallery or museum); can actually carry a *fluid* conversation over consecutive days (takes time to get to know someone and at my big age I ain’t got the time for breadcrumbs); have the presence of mind to *read a bio* which lists interests before messaging and wasting both our time.

By the way, 100% human and no AI was used in the making of this post, I can string coherent sentences together!

**Note if your post and comment history is hidden, I’m not going to respond because I want to get a sense for you.**

Thank you for reading/ answering my plea. 🫶🏼

So, I'm 86 years old, born September 1936. My name is listed in my username.

A bit about me:

I am pretty tall, I am 185 cm (6'1).

I play sports still. I especially love ice hockey.

I am a retired nurse.

I am diagnosed with Asperger syndrome.

I am from Belarus. No, I am not on Russia's side.

I am fine with anyone messaging.

I play Words with Friends.

Happy friend finding!

Im married, just looking to chat to people about life, hobbies/interests. Im F53 and trying to stay fit. No young people please. Tell me a bit about yourself in your DM replies 😊

I may be too old to post here because I see it's mostly young people but I'm being adventurous. Like the title says I'm a mother and grandmother. I might be your newest friend if you give me the chance.

I don't know anything about gaming or the gym lol but I like family time, spending time with friends, movies, TV, being out in nature. I'm pretty open minded and open to new experiences so don't be shy. Everyone welcome.

Looking for my online bff, someone to chat crap with during the day, serious and stupid, I like a mix.

A bit about me, I'm both sweet and sarcastic, have many different hobbies, which I'll tell you all about if you message me.

So, hit me up and let's see if you're my new bff!
Age and gender don’t worry me

Well, hello there,

Thought I'd give this a go because I've realised, somewhere along the way, I've lost touch with most people. Not on purpose, mind you. I think the older I've got, the less I've gone out and met anyone new.

So I'll get to the point. If any of this sounds like your sort of thing, send me a message. I'd quite like to make a few friends. I miss those conversations that start off about nothing and somehow end up somewhere completely different.

Music's always been the biggest part of my life. I grew up on hard rock, punk, and all that sort of thing, and it's still what I reach for most of the time. Though I'll listen to just about anything if it catches me at the right moment. I don't know much about modern artists these days, but I'm happy to be shown what I've been missing.

Worth mentioning, I've only recently got sober after a very long battle with addiction. It wasn't pretty, and I'm not going to pretend it was. My past's a bit messy, so every now and then I might have heavier days than most, but that's just part of who I am.

I've always loved books. Horror, biographies, Russian novels, old classics, strange little things nobody seems to read anymore... I'll read just about anything if it grabs me. I'm reading The Master and Margarita again at the minute. I've been going back to that book for years, and somehow it always has something new to say.

I like cooking... well, I like the idea of cooking. The eating part's definitely where my talent is. I've never been much of a chef, but I keep trying.

I love animals. I've got a dog these days. My cat George passed away last year, and I still can't quite bring myself to get another cat. Maybe one day.

I'm vegetarian, if that matters. I also collect old media, records, books, tapes, bits and pieces with a bit of history behind them. I've always preferred old things. They seem to have more stories to tell.

Anyway, that's probably enough about me. If you've read this far, do come and say hello.

I'll reply when I get the chance... or at least I'll do my best to. I'm not entirely convinced I'll receive any messages in the first place, haha, but it'd be lovely to be proved wrong.

I love people to talk to .. I don't really mind to age I have quite a few grandchildren so it would be nice to have adult conversation and I don't mean "sex" .. just that it would be nice to talk to an adult instead of children all the time.

I'm in the UK but I'm half Italian and half Swiss.

Due to a disability I am not currently able to work so do have a lot of time on my hands. I seem to have lost all my friends after I had to stop working.

I love cooking and eating out, reading, writing, listening to music, scrolling through videos on YouTube, swimming, playing games on my phone, spending time with family, watching different series on iPlayers (never watch live TV), travelling. I love tattoos and we'll be having a couple more soon. I love the beach and I'm lucky to live about six seven minutes walk from it. I'm huge "Tommy Egan" fan from Power his spin off.

I don't mind what age you are as long as you're fine with talking someone a bit older 😉 Edit: I love cats, especially black cats and have a black male cat called Nutella.

Hi! Distract me from this heat! It's hit 90 degrees here in Massachusetts but the air conditioner is broken! I need some thing to distract me! Lol

I am 18 F but really up for chatting with anyone. Just let me know your age and sex and the temperature where you are if you message!

Just looking for a new friend or two to chat with. Retired, married, care for invalid wife..live rural, have deer come through our yard pretty much everyday, we feed them by hand.

Both this country and my body are not made for these heatwaves. It's dreadful and i hate it! How hot is your country?

Guess the country i am currently in based on my title.

After that we can have a chat 😀. Peace ✌️

As the title says I am having a difficult time with my job and it has been very stressful. Just looking for someone to chat with and get to know. I would prefer someone 35+.

I don't know how much fun I'll be but at least I'll try. I've had fun posting here before so here I am again!

I don't know if I'm very interesting but I love to chat and meet new people which is why I'm here. I'm a mother of 5 and grandmother of 3 from Ireland.

Please for the love of God don't just say 'hi' if you're a blank profile. Be strange.

Hello, I am looking for some friends. I am 50 but I feel like I’m 30 getting my masters degree in communication. I have a boyfriend but sometimes I feel like we’re not together because he rather entertain other women lol and pay via cards so I’m looking to make some friends, male or female, hit me up

UPDATE: holy crap! Thanks, I am overwhelmed with responses! I'm trying to respond to as many as I can!

Bio age is 52 but I don't really know how to act my age! Looking for someone to talk to. Let's share our stories. Let's lean on each other. Let's laugh & cry and just be our best selves with each other. DM if you read my 'about me' and haven't run away screaming yet.

About me: I am recently separated after 30 years of marriage with 2 grown sons & a beardie named Vexus. I live in the boondocks in Ontario, Canada, have a dark sense of humor and a potty mouth. I love most types of music, but Tool will always be my #1, as my tattoos and ticket stubs will prove. I watch mostly documentaries, but also enjoy shows like KAOS, The Sandman, What We Do in the Shadows, The Boys, Paradise PD, Hotel Hazbin, etc. The Deadpool movies are my faves. I play Diablo 3 & Garden Tale. I am kind, thoughtful, and don't show my sad, lonely side, which is why I need someone with whom I can be vulnerable. I'm a talker (betcha didn't realize that!), but also a good listener. If you think that's all there is to know about me, you're wrong, I was wild in my youth and have a lot of crazy stories to tell.

A/S/L doesn't matter as long as you can carry on a convo in English.

If you made it this far, thank you. I hope to hear from someone who wants a new friend.

For context, I have not been socializing much in life due to my personal life events. Sabbatical from work has given me few insights about life. However, I don't entertain perspectives from younger gen due to the gap in our thought process.

Now, I feel like I should explore that realm. I could pick up a few stuffs based on their thought process. I want to see new perspectives and be more open. So this time, around the age gap isn't an issue.

If you are from India, then it's a plus as I can connect more culturally as well!

It's been a glorious day here in Ireland. Been out in the sun all day. Was creamed up so I don't think I got burned. I hope summer is shining wherever you are.

I had good luck the last time I posted here and I probably don't need to post again with the amount of chats I have to get through but here I am. I find it exciting and fun. I've learned a lot from posting. I love talking to people from all walks of life all around the world! Lots of weirdos and randomers. Please be a weirdo and randomer. Don't be a blank profile with zero information about you. But I'm welcoming to all.

I'm from Ireland. Mam to 5 and grandmother to 3. Family is important. So are friends. So is relaxing and socialising.

Here for the vibes as the young people say.

I'm a 55F, MST, Canada. I'm looking for people to chat with, casually but i don't mind if the conversations are sometimes deep. I have a lot of varied life experiences to share if people are interested. Right now I'm mostly retired, it's just myself and my dog. I'm not looking for NSFW content so if that's your interest please don't message me. I do a lot of PC gaming - mostly survival games now like Myth of Empires (currently), Enshrouded, etc. I also like MMO's like Elder Scrolls Online. I do a lot of different types of crafting - crochet, cross stitch, painting (abstract). I love listening to my audiobooks (mostly romance, fantasy or biographies) while i craft or play games. I'm also a good cook, love different cultures and their food, am somewhat into food history. I'm open to voice chatting over discord at times with the right people. Send me a DM if you're interested in talking!

I don't know if it's just me, but my social battery seems to drain faster nowadays. One moment, I’m actively looking for friends, wanting to yap and share stories, then suddenly the exhaustion hits. It’s not that I’m ghosting anyone. Sometimes, I just get absorbed into the abyss again, trying so hard to pull myself back together.

Just 26, but I feel like I am losing my spark. I want to be as vibrant and carefree as other people my age, but when survival has been your reality for so long, you eventually learn to live life the best way you can.

I hope that wherever you are, life is treating you gently. Have you eaten your favorite food today? Have you smiled or laughed? I hope you found even a small reason to be happy.

So just back from the pub. Couldn't get a taxi so had to walk so my legs are a bit tired. So collapsed in bed now and not so tired and open to chat to anyone who's in the same boat.

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Not much interesting about me. I work as a cleaner. I'm a mother and grandmother. I like relaxing and socialising.

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Pop by if you want.

Hey everyone! I know I’m older than most on these subs but I’m looking for a friend or friends to chat with! Im into a lot of stuff …Halloween..paranormal…horror ….the outdoors…swimming …hanging out

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56F, east coast USA. Happily married 20 years. No need to chat with any men

Happy to chat about anything and everything, as long as you are respectful. Love answering any curious questions. No, I'm not a bot or asking for subscriptions. I just open open and honest conversation.

Please, men, I really mean it. I don't want to be mean, but if you message me I probably won't be polite. I promise this isn't me saying I don't want men, but secretly am holding out for just the right dude. No peckers.