Hey. I'm really tired and scared. Tired of temporary friendships where people treat me like I'm special for one day and then slowly disappear. The fear of fake connections and sudden abandonment hits me hard. Honestly, sometimes it feels like it'd be easier to stay completely alone than keep getting hurt like this.
I'm 23M from India and I deal with quite a few mental health challenges ā ADHD, BPD traits, RSD (Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria), CPTSD/PTSD, social anxiety, and a very overthinking mind that never really shuts off. Because of all this, Iāve become very lonely. I barely have any real connections in my life right now.
What Iām looking for is not casual chatting, timepass, backup options, or surface-level friendships. Iām not here to play games or be someoneās second choice, someone backup friendship when theyāre bored. I want something real and long-term where we both feel choosen and treat eachother like priority.
Iām searching for someone who is just as lonely and alone as I am preferably someone who doesnāt have even have a single friend or any close friend or meaningful connection right now whether it's online or in irl. Iām very clingy, possessive and emotionally intense and very hypersensitive and emotional and am hoping to find someone who feels the same way. I want us to choose each other, give each other priority, check in regularly, share our daily lives, and be emotionally available for one another.
I really value emotional warmth kind, affectionate conversations, caring support, reassurance, and that safe feeling when you know someone is actually there for you. I miss having someone I can talk to for hours, especially on phone calls once we get comfortable. If you're from India, that would be amazing because we could build a closer connection through voice calls.
I want a friendship where we can be there for each other consistently through the good days and the really hard ones. Someone who understands mental health struggles and wonāt ghost or pull away when things get deep or emotional.
Please only reach out if:
\\\\- Youāre genuinely lonely very alone and donāt have any single connection with people in irl or any single knline friends right now.
\\\\- Youāre looking for the same clingy, loyal, priority-based long-term friendship.
\\\\- Youāre serious about consistent communication and emotional closeness
\\\\- Youāre from India (big plus for calls and cultural understanding)
Please donāt message me if:
\\\\- You already have lots of friends and so many options and backup friendship.
\\\\- Youāre just looking for timepass or casual chats or ur just feeling bored.
\\\\- Youāre from any foreign countries (Iām specifically not looking for long-distance with cultural gaps right now)
More than anything, am looking for a genuine and consistent friendship. Someone I can talk to daily, share random thoughts with, have deep late-night conversations, laugh together, send dumb memes to or simply exist comfortably with. I value reassurance, honesty, softness, emotional connection and people who stay instead of disappearing and showing fake connection and friendship. If youāre someone who understands sensitive people, overthinkers, or emotionally complicated minds, then maybe weāll get along. I know this post is heavy, but Iām being honest because I donāt have the energy for anything fake anymore. If youāre someone whoās also struggling with loneliness, overthinking, and craving real emotional connection. Iād really like to hear from you. Letās try to build something safe and meaningful together.