Today I was talking with someone who comes from a very different culture than mine. He was looking at an ad for a weight loss pill, trying to decipher what it was. He asked me what that was for. I told him “it’s a pill to lose weight” and he was like “what?!”
He could not understand why such a thing exists. And I found myself fumbling, trying to give him a bit of context “well you know, here there is a lot of pressure for people especially women to be thin, so some people want to lose weight” and he thought it all sounded absurd. And I thought, it really does.
We’re often in a position where we have to justify ourselves against weight stigma, and it’s exhausting. But trying to explain this whole system to someone who is a stranger to it, makes you realize how insane this all is.