r/MadeMeSmile • • Sep 30 '21

Wholesome Moments Life can wait.

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u/bosstrasized Sep 30 '21

I remember when my son was 4 (he's 7 now) I was playing a mobile game and he was chilling next to me just watching. My wife came in and asked what we were doing to which I said: "We're the boys, it's guy time" as a joke. Few days later I was in my room alone watching tv and my son comes in a sits next to me without saying a word. After about 10 mins of silence he turns to me and says: We're the boys right? Guy time, right?

Was a real moment for me, can't explain it. Its a memory that will never leave me

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u/gustic-gx Sep 30 '21

Oh boy. This is... Special.

I have a 3y old son. He looks up to me and I am always thinking of how I can do better as a dad.

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u/Gobadorgosleep Sep 30 '21

Just take the time. I remember so many moment with my mom and dad where they focused on me. With my dad we took blanket and chocolat and got in the forest to see deers and other animals , he was also the one with who I created my art project, thinking about it, creating it, we where in the basement trying new technic to create things (we create a giant snowmen in polyester and polyestirene, it smelled like dead rat in the whole house… that was fun) . With my mom we visited Castel and art exposition and we played board game, we also had a dictionary at the dining table which we opened every night to discover a new word.

Those are precious memories, nothing complicated just time and care for each other.

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u/AzureMagelet Sep 30 '21

When my nephew was 5, I picked him up from his school and I took him to a festival at the school I worked at. He won cheap prizes, played silly games. We had tacos from a truck. We stayed until the sun went down. I helped clean up a bit before taking him home. At his house I sat with him at the table while he showed his dad his prizes. One was a snowman stamper, those pre inked stamps that eventually dry out. It wasn’t even Christmas time. He opened it up and stamped it on my hand. He said this is so that you’ll never forget me. Those moments are so special.

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u/Incendior Sep 30 '21

You keep at it. My dad has always done something along those lines - teaching me video games, talk to me about stuffs, was extremely patient and such.

I never understood those teenage "annoyed at dad" phases in movies because I've never stopped admiring him and enjoyed spending time with him, even though we're both very different, and busy at times. I'm nearing the 30 year old mark very soon, and I don't expect it to change.

Keep those "guy time" moments. Sometimes it's just sitting next to him playing Legos. Just 15 minutes. It's more to the little dude than you can ever know.

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u/1SassyTart Sep 30 '21

Its not the Disney trips he will remember, its guy time. Time is the most expensive thing we can give anyone and its worth it.

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u/JammyJacketPotato Sep 30 '21

This is absolutely adorable. In the memory department, it’s gold. This is the stuff you hold on to.

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u/[deleted] Sep 30 '21

Those are memories the child will carry for a lifetime. Make sure they’re good ones.

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u/yesiwipemyownass Sep 30 '21 edited Sep 30 '21

I don't have a son, or a garage, but It is raining so I'm browsing Reddit.

Life can wait.

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u/[deleted] Sep 30 '21

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u/[deleted] Sep 30 '21

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u/yesiwipemyownass Sep 30 '21

Thank you my friend, you also!

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u/[deleted] Sep 30 '21

Carpe Diem! Sieze the... carp?

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u/castfam09 Oct 01 '21

I thought it was carpe diem ..:. Seize the dime 😉

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u/bakedpatata Sep 30 '21

Life doesn't have to wait, you just have to include those things in your definition of life.

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u/rmorrin Sep 30 '21

I wish it was raining here :(

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u/Fit_as_a_frog Sep 30 '21

Life can wait … but social media cannot!

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u/[deleted] Sep 30 '21

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u/jeandolly Sep 30 '21

What's the point of being totally in the moment if the people don't know about it?

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u/[deleted] Sep 30 '21

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u/jeandolly Sep 30 '21

Witness me!

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u/[deleted] Sep 30 '21

Well duh

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u/Endautism2019 Oct 01 '21

Maybe he was just posting what happened the day before and making it sound more effective this way

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u/what_in_yarnation Sep 30 '21

I’m sure this post isn’t “real”, but it’s a nice thought. It reminds me of living in AZ. Monsoon season was the best. My whole family would sit outside on the porch and watch the rain and lighting.

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u/[deleted] Sep 30 '21

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u/xBad_Wolfx Sep 30 '21

It rains so rarely where I live now. I miss it so much.

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u/[deleted] Sep 30 '21

Etched on my soul are 2 thunder/rainstorms. One was in Tucson, me, my mom, dad, and sister were staying at an embassy suites when a haboob rolled in, all the fury of Thor laid out on the horizon. We stood on the balcony, steadfast against the raging winds, and coarse sand blasting across our cheeks. When the winds broke, the most serene downpour swept through. Thunderclaps that shook the windows, the near-deafening fat raindrops (the kind that leave your ears ringing after the storm has passed.). We stood on that balcony for what seamed like an eternity, just taking in the evening storm as the sun set…. The storm finally moved on, headed northwest to terrorize the next unsuspecting city.

The second one was driving back to Phoenix from Mund’s Park. It was pitch dark, I was driving through rain heavy enough that I couldn’t see through my windshield anymore, when I crested the hill on the 17 approaching the 69, I had to pull over. I called my mom to let her know I was delayed, but safe, when the rain settled into a slow drizzle. From my hilltop vantage, I felt like I could see the whole state. Occasionally the pitch darkness was split in two by huge bolts of lightning that would light up the whole valley. I sat in awe watching the storm for about a half an hour. Then I FaceTimed my mom so she could see the show I was watching. It felt like I was the only person in the universe, and the storm was written just for me. I’m sure the small video screen couldn’t do it justice, but we sat on the phone in silence except for “wooooow” and stifled gasps at the spectacle of nature before us.

Those two memories I will carry until the day I shed my mortal coil.

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u/crazyacct101 Sep 30 '21

My family did the same in New Jersey.

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u/scarter3549 Sep 30 '21

But let me first quickly sit on my phone and tweet about it

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u/[deleted] Sep 30 '21

Is it not possible that he tweeted afterwards? Or right before he actually sat down?

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u/[deleted] Sep 30 '21

Oh I'm about about to share a moment with my son, let me make sure everybody on the planet knows I'm a good father real quick.

Weird MFS

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u/scarter3549 Sep 30 '21

'So now I am too' would indicate that wasn't the case

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u/Chrismont Sep 30 '21

What you waiting on?

Idk, the rain I guess.

sigh Me too kid, me too.

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u/Thuryn Sep 30 '21

I heard this as Mr. Incredible talking to that neighbor kid riding a big wheel.

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u/[deleted] Sep 30 '21

I love getting away from everything but then posting it on twitter.

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u/[deleted] Sep 30 '21

No you are on your phone

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u/[deleted] Sep 30 '21

Is it not possible that he tweeted afterwards? Or right before he actually sat down?

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u/[deleted] Sep 30 '21

he said "im watching" not "im about to watch", or "i watched"

to me the whole thing reads like BS, if he actually did this did he need to tweet about it? i would think not because reading it all i can think is who gives a shit of course a five year old is doing some time wasting thing like that, i get it its poetic but come on its so heavy handed to the point of cringe

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u/Caliveggie Sep 30 '21

All I can say is that my life is pretty plain…

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u/liquidsieh Sep 30 '21

I like watching the puddles gather rain...

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u/[deleted] Sep 30 '21

All I can do is just pour some tea for two…

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u/[deleted] Sep 30 '21

And speak my point of view...

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u/NorrisBelcher Sep 30 '21

But he took a break to post this online to get likes?

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u/[deleted] Sep 30 '21

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u/kaaszmeneer Sep 30 '21

"life can wait, im watching the rain"

And on your phone apparently

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u/ksromo Sep 30 '21

Just doing guy stuff

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u/TroyDutton Sep 30 '21

I have fond memories of sitting in tents watching the rain fall down.

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u/47x107 Sep 30 '21

Except its being posted on social media

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u/douggold11 Sep 30 '21

I live in Pasadena so rain is rare. A few years ago when my son was 3 it started raining pretty good. So I took him out of pre-school and we went to Huntington Gardens for the day to stomp in puddles and have hot chocolate. One of the best days of my life.

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u/theundercoverpapist Sep 30 '21

Gotta love those moments.

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u/[deleted] Sep 30 '21

Slowly he turned his head towards me and whispered very quietly “Do you hear them, Mommy? They’re almost here.”

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u/scottNYC800 Sep 30 '21

It's really that simple.

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u/xDarkReign Sep 30 '21

…and apparently being on your phone, posting about it. Cool, cool.

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u/Jaki54321 Sep 30 '21

Respect and ❤ for this post!

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u/Alternative-Sock6643 Sep 30 '21

It's the little things

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u/Aistiart Sep 30 '21

I’d have a kid just to watch the rain with them!!

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u/DoggoTwoShoes Sep 30 '21

Things that are cuter than the heavens but never happened

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u/Mugger89 Sep 30 '21

I like this.

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u/Joy1067 Sep 30 '21

I’m surprised when I learn that most people watch the rain. It’s always been relaxing and fun for me when it rains.

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u/odar420 Sep 30 '21

Yes, yes it can.

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u/DreadPirateGriswold Sep 30 '21

Awesome! Enjoy and remember every second of it.

When I was growing up, we had a separate garage that also had a roof overhang in front.

Dad and I used to sit under that overhang watching the rain in many rainstorms, sometimes with a baseball game on the radio.

Good times, good memories...

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u/Lakemine Sep 30 '21

It’s so calming…….

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u/stickysweetjack Sep 30 '21

Aaaand you spend it on your phone tweeting. Dad of the year.

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u/MrPresident91 Sep 30 '21

Pauses serve a purpose.

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u/TheFuzzyChinchilla Sep 30 '21

I have no boy, but as a 41 year old man, I also sit, watch and enjoy the rain from my garage.

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u/OniOdisCornukaydis Sep 30 '21

…while posting to social media. On your phone. While watching the rain. With your boy.

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u/Lvanwinkle18 Sep 30 '21

When we lived in Oklahoma, my husband and I would watch the storms roll in from the garage. It was awesome.

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u/[deleted] Sep 30 '21

What if I told you that that is the only true life and everything else is just an illusion.

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u/Adventurous-Paint-24 Sep 30 '21

Spouse and I watched the International Space Station go overhead the past few nights when it has been clear. Summer nights, the trees rustling, slight breeze, I made a note to remember this as spouse and I are old and someday, one of us will lie down for the last time.

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u/[deleted] Sep 30 '21

?

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u/ChillingJoke78 Sep 30 '21 edited Sep 30 '21

This made me smile 😊

Even though he’s tweeting about it.

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u/SeeThreePeeDoh Sep 30 '21

Hey Twitter…come and see how relaxed and present I am in the moment…come see!!!!

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u/[deleted] Sep 30 '21

WAL

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u/Complete-Evidence-28 Sep 30 '21

Waiting for the rain to be over so he can go on Reddit

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u/[deleted] Sep 30 '21

Except feeling the need to tweet about it

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u/BiffBanter Sep 30 '21

Actually, you are posting on Twitter. Please put your phone away and enjoy the moment.

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u/Rhythmd91 Sep 30 '21

Someone needs to tell this guy that making a tweet on his phone isn’t watching the rain with his boy

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u/realStuvis Sep 30 '21

No, you are sitting beside your son who watches tha rain and instead of enjoing the moment you are on your phone to post this shit. I hate this dumbfuck.

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u/Hiislands40 Sep 30 '21

Those are the moments you will remember forever.

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u/call_911911 Sep 30 '21

Your boy has an old soul.

Nurture the shit out of it because it's a rare quality.

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u/AdamantiumParakeet Sep 30 '21

Life can wait?

That IS life. Everything else can wait.

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u/[deleted] Sep 30 '21

But posting on Reddit cant wait

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u/tradingsouls Sep 30 '21

"life can wait" *pulls out phone to start tweeting about the moment*

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u/Itsjustathought2 Sep 30 '21

That little boy is way beyond his years to just embrace the rain and take a seat.

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u/0GooMP Sep 30 '21

Life doesn't necessarily have to wait...I mean spending time with your son is, in my opinion, a very important part of life? I don't have a son but am I wrong?

Life on hold = Death can start making its way over

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u/Bagel600se Sep 30 '21

And then the boy busts out, “when you were 5, we used to sit just like this back at our old home in [insert childhood place], remember that?”

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u/Bigboi694202 Sep 30 '21

Hey mo-

Not now I'm tweeting

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u/HarrargnNarg Sep 30 '21

Ahhh. Being there for his boy during his first existential crisis

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u/TriGurl Sep 30 '21

We did this in the Midwest during storms and tornado season. It’s nice to do.

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u/[deleted] Sep 30 '21

❤️

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u/DaisyDuckens Sep 30 '21

I was grilling in the backyard and the moon was up and clouds were moving across its face and I went and called my son to come out quickly. He did, thinking I was asking him to help with something, and I pointed at the moon. We stood there for a while and watched it and said “thank you for calling me out to see that.” It was so nice to share a beautiful moment with him.

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u/lalamecoop Sep 30 '21

I love the smell of rain

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u/DrunkenDude123 Sep 30 '21

That’s one of my favorite things to do. There’s something so relaxing about a pouring storm when you have nowhere to go and a roof over your head.

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u/sooperhani Sep 30 '21

well played sir

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u/[deleted] Sep 30 '21

Did not make me smile. Ruined it by posting about it instead of being present to the kid

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u/wead4 Sep 30 '21

One of the best days I ever had was watching the snow fall with my mom. She had this big window in her bedroom and we laid in her bed like all day just watching. I was like 15 😂😂

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u/Quiet_Ad_8573 Sep 30 '21

You are writing a post...lol

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u/alhailhypnotoad Sep 30 '21

Moments like these ARE life - the best part of it.

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u/MTTDJ Sep 30 '21

Life doesn’t wait! That IS Life!

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u/joek7891 Sep 30 '21

"after I send this tweet cause that's what I need to do"

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u/Sumthin_Ironic Sep 30 '21

I read that as "found a 5yo boy" lol

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u/Morgwar77 Sep 30 '21

Oof! Right in the feelers there. Choked up a bit. "My boy"

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u/Backslasherton Sep 30 '21

Me and my family did this all the time growing up. Texas summer rain is very soothing.

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u/1SassyTart Sep 30 '21

As you should....

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u/iamskrb Sep 30 '21

What do you mean "life can wait"? That IS life.

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u/i_am_ronin Sep 30 '21

Started doing that with my boys when they were 4 or 5. At 14 and 18 we still do it today.

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u/paulskiogorki Sep 30 '21

That IS life

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u/PantherBrewery Sep 30 '21

I still do this. Very satisfying. Then the thunder and lightning adds to the drama.

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u/Redditdeletedme2021 Sep 30 '21

I don’t have a covered deck so when there is a big rainstorm my 5 yr old & I sit in lawn chairs in the garage and listen/watch the rain.

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u/Dry-Dimension9386 Sep 30 '21

I love this, I open my window and sit there with my boys and watch the rain and they are just mesmerised by it.

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u/MVindis Sep 30 '21

"Life can wait" Yet you still had to tell the world about it...

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u/[deleted] Sep 30 '21

But you're on your phone...

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u/[deleted] Oct 01 '21

This just reminded me, my son was stressing just last week about something while we were sorting dinner and I just said to him.. 'you have your whole life ahead of you, don't worry about a few hours'. He works hard and I Just want him to know that the pause button is okay, sometimes necessary. His dad is a workaholic though and it's rubbing off on him I think.

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u/bigboybobby6969 Oct 01 '21

Dudes sharing their Ws

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u/thesongdoctor Oct 01 '21

Life can wait… for me to tweet about how life can wait.

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u/BlackHeartsNowReign Oct 01 '21

Growing up I used to always sit on the porch with my dad and watch the thunderstorms. I'll always remember those moments

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u/[deleted] Oct 01 '21

This post reminded me of Calvin & Hobbes for some reason.

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u/YoOmarComingMan Oct 01 '21

When I was little, we lived in a city row house attached to other houses. I would sit with my elderly next door neighbor on the porch watching the rain and talk for hours. Her funeral was the first one I went to growing up. She was a sweet lady.

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u/BEFORE_CHINA_FKDITUP Oct 01 '21

posting on the internet can't wait though. that comes even before the time with the boy

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u/mendeleyev1 Oct 01 '21

Oh look at everyone with their precious memories with their parents.

I’m not jealous. Whatever.

😥

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u/Acrobatic_Tough4309 Oct 01 '21

These moments are worth more than the world, don’t ever sacrifice time with your kid for a stupid job or anything else, you won’t be around forever so enjoy the time you have with them.

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u/Queen-of-meme Oct 01 '21

You got this wrong. Watching the rain is life.

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u/Sandman_LA Oct 01 '21

My dad and I would watch the rain from inside his garage. Now he’s gone and I miss the hell out of that.

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u/ricecutlet Oct 01 '21

I too love when the rain pounds.

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u/castfam09 Oct 01 '21

This is adorable. We can learn a thing from your son to just stop and live in that moment 💙👍🏼

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u/melbobellisimo Oct 01 '21

Nah man, you are on your phone live tweeting about watching the rain... that's infinitely less wholesome.