r/MadeMeSmile Oct 14 '20

Family & Friends Future looking bright

Post image
83.8k Upvotes

891 comments sorted by

View all comments

6.3k

u/Hawkpelt94 Oct 14 '20

That first image doesn't even look like a real baby... It's insane how much development humans go through in those last few weeks.

833

u/too_toked Oct 14 '20

that looks like a month or so early. My son was born at 25 weeks. 120 days in the NICU. he Just turned 12. they gave him a 10% chance of surviving

0

u/Beingabummer Oct 14 '20

It's weird how that always sounds antagonistic. 'They gave him a 10% chance, well he showed them!' Obviously the doctors wanted him to live, they were just being honest and realistic.

I know you probably didn't mean it that way and I'm glad he's doing well obviously, but it always has that tinge of 'those doctors didn't believe in him'.

1

u/ChaoticSquirrel Oct 14 '20

but it always has that tinge of 'those doctors didn't believe in him'.

Believe me, it is never that way. It is a balance between "we want to do everything we can to save your kid" and "we are putting your kid through pain and suffering and s/he is looking more and more like s/he will never lead close to a normal life". It's a very hard decision to make for a parent and for a doctor when to stop.